I'm a firm believer in one being responsible for one's own reaction - of not stooping to your opponent's level. But there are some situations which are exceptions. One such was when Baba made his comment on Bani's mum - I dislike Bani, as do many others, yet most of her detractors (including myself) gave her a free pass to react in whichever way she needed to - Baba would've deserved anything she chose to dish out, in that instance.
In the episode - it seemed like Jagga spewed filth at Lopa, and Lopa retaliated by using two of those nasty words back at her - and I had condemned that. Today - the unedited version showed just how much filth Jagga spewed, showed just how much Lopa tried to control herself, before she burst out. God knows what all Jagga said - and Lopa, in this instance, gets exactly the same free pass from me.
Everyone reacts differently - Manu and Lopa, included. But Jagga, in both those instances, did not deserve a shred of respect, nor for anyone to even try to be the bigger person. There is an individual limit, to how much one can take. I don't blame Lopa one bit for her reaction, and I applaud Manu for his resilience in the face of the filth that was spewed at him.
Edited by SP2684 - 8 years ago