Okay, I sense a debate brewing that I won't be a part of because its high time I slept. But just want to say that - LET EM LIVE! Uff, why are these things taboo and a matter of izzat in India? Its ridiculous that this mentality comes from the land of the kamasutra. Indians are very horny people - mainly cuz they are told that normal food for sustenance is taboo and now they walk around hungry dreaming of the forbidden fruit.
So freakin ridiculous! Here, on one hand - the moral police will be giving bhashans on sabhyata and sankriti (all of which is very A rated, according to history, lemme tell you that) and the other hand will be feeling up some girl and telling her she shouldn't be wearing clothes like this or be with a guy at this time or this day. I am giving disturbing visuals.. cuz I feel like it 😆 It highlights the hypocrisy better.
Its okay if it titillates people to know about TanMan or GauShal enjoying themselves but to pass comments like "she is shameless, disgusting people, izzat mitti mein duba gayi, desperate people" just highlights the immaturity on this forum and beyond.
In Abraham Maslow's theory of needs hierarchy, SEX is listed as a primary need and biologically too, its a natural body process to feel aroused and frisky. You won't be here if this need had not existed.
And sorry, if you feel marriage makes everything pure and gives you a stamp to do that, let me tell you that this need exists way before humans even thought of something like marriage. God did not come down to earth and suggest marriage. It came in the heads of humans and it is a practice, not a necessity.
Also, those saying its an abomination in the eyes of God, please explain who went and had a conversation with God about marriage being a necessity to perform something that has been performed since time immemorial. You believe God created you. Your ancestors were created by God. God was there before humans or othet creatures came. Okay. So tell me why marriage took ages to become a necessity for humans to have sex? How do things become "pure" and acceptable after marriage that went unquestioned for so many ages? Had people been prudes then, you won't be here.
Thats all.