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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: srkangel

I think guhar and tanisha both were right. All gauhar had to do was calmly explain that she understands that hell mates were injured but they will have to work since hell mates food was dependent on heaven mates so in order for heaven mates to function next day they needed sleep and given hellmates condition they'll sleep for limited time just enough to work properly .

gauhar aggressiveness came across as insensitivity.


I honestly think Gauhar was pretty calm - the only thing is she is the only one who voices opinions while the others just sit back and do exactly what Gauhar says anyway. She did say that she understands that the hell mates are injured and specifically said that she is not asking them to move the wheel as she cannot ask anyone and they are all adults. She was saying that BB should give her the chance to do a task to win the luxury of sleep. She was not being insensitive and saying that "no, the hell mates have to move the wheel so I can sleep and I don't care that they're hurt".. she was saying that just like the heaven-mates had to do tasks for the hell mates, the hell-mates have to do tasks for the heaven-mates. She might seem aggressive but I think anyone would get annoyed if people are arguing with you for no reason.

I would agree that Tanisha was right if she would have stayed awake to prove her point - but she went to sleep anyway! So she made her arguments without any merit.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arnav90

Tanisha trying to be in good books 😆 , The jahanum ppl must understand that in BB they hv to do physical task aise nakhre marne se kuch nahi hoga


As if this is the first BB season .. Anyways Why they are acting all suprised .. thats who it was na .. If they cant take these things shouldnt have come there ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: srkangel

I think guhar and tanisha both were right. All gauhar had to do was calmly explain that she understands that hell mates were injured but they will have to work since hell mates food was dependent on heaven mates so in order for heaven mates to function next day they needed sleep and given hellmates condition they'll sleep for limited time just enough to work properly .

gauhar aggressiveness came across as insensitivity.


She was Calm. It's the way she talks, i mean she is LIKE that. Her tone is like that and people take her in a wrong sense. 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Shelly1026


I honestly think Gauhar was pretty calm - the only thing is she is the only one who voices opinions while the others just sit back and do exactly what Gauhar says anyway. She did say that she understands that the hell mates are injured and specifically said that she is not asking them to move the wheel as she cannot ask anyone and they are all adults. She was saying that BB should give her the chance to do a task to win the luxury of sleep. She was not being insensitive and saying that "no, the hell mates have to move the wheel so I can sleep and I don't care that they're hurt".. she was saying that just like the heaven-mates had to do tasks for the hell mates, the hell-mates have to do tasks for the heaven-mates. She might seem aggressive but I think anyone would get annoyed if people are arguing with you for no reason.

I would agree that Tanisha was right if she would have stayed awake to prove her point - but she went to sleep anyway! So she made her arguments without any merit.


Tanishas bashan only to make that Gauhar is insensitiveand ..she just started her bak bak and didnt even live up to what she preached ..
Edited by HashiBoo - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Shelly1026


This is not just today - yesterday (first epi in the house) the heaven-mates were cooking and the hell-mates were sitting around.. Gauhar even made a comment that "esa laag raha he ke aap loog jannat me ho aur hum jahanum me he". At that time, the hell-mates were just sitting around. Today, they had to move the wheel for food/gas/sleep - but while they were moving the wheel, the heaven-mates were cooking - it's not like they were sitting around. And if they were, then the hell-mates were sitting around also (only two moved the wheel at one time).

So, if for the luxury of having "cooked" food (cooked by heaven-mates) is something the hell-mates can enjoy then the luxury of sleep is something the heaven-mates should be able to enjoy. Agreed that moving a wheel is more physical than cooking but in this case, I have mostly seen Gauhar cook and if the hell-mates have to do a task for everyone to sleep then that is something Gauhar has the right in asking for. Gauhar can just stop cooking and let the others cook/not give food. But she didn't do that.

Further, Gauhar's point was that she wanted to be able to do something to win her luxury of sleeping and if that's her POV, no one can stop her from thinking that. If she can work for others to have the luxury of cooked food, then she should be able to expect others to do a task so she can have the luxury of sleeping.

Edited: And MOST IMPORTANTLY, everyone at the end (even Tanisha) went to sleep! No one stayed awake so that the hell-mates don't have to move the wheel. So the Tanisha-Gauhar argument was pointless! Everyone ended up doing what Gauhar said anyway.


others also working for her , vo food cook kar paayi bcs other worked hard for her , n y u skipped that water point , ynha tak ki vo naha bhi hell mates ki vajah se hi paayi , n cooking mai itni energy nahi lagti ...balki i will say hall mates ne uske liye jyada kaam kiya usne toh sirf khaana hi banaya , uska khud ka khaana hell mates ne usay dilaya , if hell mates wheel nahi chalaate gohar ko khana nahi milta apne liye bhi

isasey jyada mai reply shayad na karun bcs muje jyada interest nahi hai hellmates n heven matts mai but i m not agree with u
Edited by ANNMT. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46
Yes the way she speaks makes her look insensitive. But at the end of the day, everyone only knows you or likes you or dislikes you by your overall behavior n way you speak. So if she continues people will dislike her because she appears aggressive, selfish n dominating. Its the way life is.. people can't open up a person's brain n see if she is actually meaning bad or not..

Originally posted by: Arsha_Kriyansh


She was Calm. It's the way she talks, i mean she is LIKE that. Her tone is like that and people take her in a wrong sense. 😔

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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: ANNMT.


others also working for her , vo food cook kar paayi bcs other worked hard for her , n y u skipped that water point , ynha tak ki vo naha bhi hell mates ki vajah se hi paayi , n cooking mai itni energy nahi lagti ...balki i will say hall mates ne uske liye jyada kaam kiya usne toh sirf khaana hi banaya , uska khud ka khaana hell mates ne usay dilaya , if hell mates wheel nahi chalaate gohar ko khana nahi milta apne liye bhi

isasey jyada mai reply shayad na karun bcs muje jyada interest nahi hai hellmates n heven matts mai but i m not agree with u


I didn't skip the water part consciously. I agree that they had to move the wheel for the water but I think she works the most (or at least it looks like she does) in the heaven-side. Others are definetly working for her but if there is a task for others to complete in order to get a necessity, then sab loog ese nahi bool sakte hain ke me nahi karonga

Imagine, agar same thing food ke bare me hoti.. that no food unless you move the wheel. Then ppl would have moved the wheel right? Sleep is also a necessity and if she wanted her necessity, that's her right. If she doesn't sleep, she can't do her task (cook) and then it'll affect the whole house..

Thanks for your input and I'll just agree to disagree with you 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48
Gauhar was not at fault
But the fact is that she should reason out others POVs also..
Her style of saying things may be perfect for her but its not for others...
People clearly do not like the fact that she is a "on your face" types...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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