Gautam is losing the plot in trying to prove a point - Page 4

Originally posted by: ram92

Pritam jaisi cheez ko usi ki language mein samjhana bohat zaroori hai. And gautam smartly did that. He just took her name and boom theres angry pritam. And m sure if ali would have made those comments on pritam or anyother contestant whole house would have been against it. I dont get it yar aap kisi ki personality pe comment kartay ho and u call them s**t prostitute. Its all justified in the name of bitching, task, entertainment. But when u take their family member name, ONLY name, he is getting personal. Both situations are personal.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

You could never win an argument by taking that route. Like I said I think he does it so that the other person can have better understanding of the situation and feel for it but in the process he himself defeats his argument. My funda is simple. Bhai tu jitna samjhana hai samjha but family ke example mat de yaar.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

What any sane person like him will do. Sometimes arguing with the wrong person is like fighting a pig in the mud. Agar wo samajh nahi raha to, give your 2 cents and move on. Agar waise nahi samajh raha to wife ke naam se kyun achanak usko samajh aayegi? If Pritam did not understood where he is going wrong, why will he now? Its like beating a dead horse to prove a point.

Originally posted by: Shrumunj

What I made out was
Gautam wanted to provoke Pritam and see his reaction and he knew the whole house wud gang up against him

He's upset that not a single person took a stand for him !
In the past everyone had hms taking a stand for them

Gautam just proved that he's in the true sense alone in that house
Upens fake sympathy was to make sure gautam doesn't use the victim card.
But gautam again owned upen there !

This point of others taking stand is a crap 😆

Did GG take a stand on throwing chappal at dimpy? Well he enjoyed and befriended Sam for that. What they answered to Farah? Well if dimpy would have taken a stand then others would support.

Did GG take a stand ? No .. He made a sympathy seeking case after losing the task. Why didn't he immediately give up and take a stand? Unless he does take his own stands, why do you expect others will stand for him ?? Still KT, Sam & Rahul told Ali to stop saying bad things .. Yet GG didn't keep quiet, he said everything he could to Ali, how can he demand a stand against Ali?

You throw a stone u will be hit by a rock...he is a pretty cheap sympathy seeker.. That's it.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Gautam needs to be who he is. He does not need to become Pritam or Tanna to get the message across. We all know he is better than Pritam and Ali or even Tanna so he has nothing to prove to anyone. There is no point losing your individuality to becoming somebody else.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

What any sane person like him will do. Sometimes arguing with the wrong person is like fighting a pig in the mud. Agar wo samajh nahi raha to, give your 2 cents and move on. Agar waise nahi samajh raha to wife ke naam se kyun achanak usko samajh aayegi? If Pritam did not understood where he is going wrong, why will he now? Its like beating a dead horse to prove a point.

My two cents..Pritam probably told Gautam it was all mazak & part of the task and there was no need for Gautam to react to this extent..So Gautam in turn just asked Pritam what his wife's name was & asked him how he'd react if he stretched this for 5 minutes..Thats it..Thats all it took for Pritam to lose it..So Pritam expects Gautam to take everything in mazak ( being called an escort, gigolo etc. on National TV) but all it took was his wife's name for him to lose it..Call it brutal, call it vengeful but Gautam exposed the hypocrisy brilliantly there..Personal comments on other ppl are supposed to be mazak but just taking the name of a family member is enough to make Pritam lose it..I personally think Gautam has had it with the show..Its obvious he has lost patience..Otherwise he has been pretty forgiving on most occasions..This time i feel he has reached his saturation point & is reacting this way when ppl tell him to take it lightly..I hope he snaps out of it & remains strong cos its only a matter of 7 days..

Originally posted by: TheHazard

This point of others taking stand is a crap 😆

Did GG take a stand on throwing chappal at dimpy? Well he enjoyed and befriended Sam for that. What they answered to Farah? Well if dimpy would have taken a stand then others would support.

Did GG take a stand ? No .. He made a sympathy seeking case after losing the task. Why didn't he immediately give up and take a stand? Unless he does take his own stands, why do you expect others will stand for him ?? Still KT, Sam & Rahul told Ali to stop saying bad things .. Yet GG didn't keep quiet, he said everything he could to Ali, how can he demand a stand against Ali?

You throw a stone u will be hit by a rock...he is a pretty cheap sympathy seeker.. That's it.

Yes gautam took a stand and nominated Sam on the shoe hurling incident

And I have personally watched it in LF he telling Sam that don't use physical violence or outside info at anyone aftr the shoe incident
Isn't it a stand ?

Originally posted by: Arshie

i have said it earlier... it's easy to say that as a third person spectator... and after being called a male prostitute who slept his way to a show and God knows what not if u expect gautam to act maturely then i'm sorry i don't agree... aap ka sabar shayad itna ho sakta hai...lekin mera nahi hai and thats y i understand his reaction

I disagree with you boss. Your point would have been valid if Gauti did speak something bad abt his wife. But, he just mentioned her name and nothing else. So, how is it wrong?

Also, he was just not trying to make Pritam understand. But, for all of the other housemates who were saying tht gsutam is overreacting.