Gautam is losing the plot in trying to prove a point

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annihilation

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Posted: 10 years ago

#41

We still do not know what kind of argument ensued between Pritam and Gautam. So, we cannot be sure of what he might have said with regards to Pritam's family. From the precap, it looks as if Gautam asked if Pritam would be okay if someone bought his wife's name up and Pritam appears to have lost his cool. Yes, its not an ideal way to prove a point but all he's doing is try to make them understand what it feels like to humiliated to such an extent and that too when everyone around him are lecturing him on forgiveness.

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jyothi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#42

GG is nt overacting at all.

GG asked Pritam's wife name he pounced on GG.

The way Ali has provoked GG was nt good.Ali himself has accepted .

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Carebears

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Posted: 10 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: TheBoss
I think somewhere Gautam is losing the plot. He needs to stop giving explanations by putting families into context. I do not think he does it purposely but his reasoning is flawed and it serves no logic. I have seen that every time he wants to prove a point he tries to bring the whole picture and gives an example of family to be put in perspective. Maybe he thinks by doing so he will sound reasonable and level headed but this is the absolute wrong way of going around and solving things or clearing out the air.
Gautam dude, for the love of God get rid of this bad habit, you can very well prove a point without going there.

Yest a read a post from you saying how Gautam must manage his anger issues coz what happens in life is not fair and his behavior will affect this future. But now y is it diff for Pritam. Now Pritam is in the show business as anyone else in that house and all of us know in the show business the media even brings family and everyone involved with the celebrity in the picture rite?? Already people are talking about Pritams wife something bout Kajri anyways now how will Pritam react if a press reporter bring Pritma's name in an interview will he react the same way? Gautam just said Amanjot rite?? What else did he say..so now In real life ppl will bring this up time and again and if Pritam cannot control his anger it will cost him right??

My point here is.. Y ppl expect GG to behave and stay calm and not retaliate?? Isn't GG the youngest contestant in that house compared to all of them.. I guess he is 26 or something. Isn't he in the age where things should actually affect him.. But y is he always asked to be the mature one when clearly everyone else I'm the house are technically bigger than him and much mature?? Y is it always that diff for GG and diff for others?? Hats off to him for holding it together and now when he is trying to make Pritam understand a point without making it dirty he suddenly looses the plot and is the bad one.. Ali has meantioned GG mother a lot of times in his argument.. Dimpy once told him tumhari Mai he bolti hai to fake ho.. Where were all these ppl then?? Praneet brought GG dad in the picture when GG had shared something with him in confidence.. So when it comes to GG he has to keep it under control and when it's other it's like tho sahi dola..

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Faiza Sait

@Arshie

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Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: TheBoss

He does not need to sacrifice who he is to convince the other party. I have no expectations from Pritam & Ali but I have certainly some expectations from Gautam and to see him losing it really sucks. I supported him because he was different then high handed Tanna or palti maar Pritam. If he is suddenly going around and preaching family values and giving examples then he becomes just like the rest of them.

see i get y ur upset... but i also get where he is coming from...chalo aap batao gautam ko kya karna chahiye tha??

don't say chup rehna chahiye tha...because come on its humanely not possible

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* Unnati *

@* Unnati *

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Posted: 10 years ago

#45

Pritam had once called this guy, his "chota bhai " and a "friend". Yesterday, he plotted with Ali & got his "chota bhai" called a "Gay prostitute".

Had someone pick on his little brother's character & comment on the clothes he wears and his achievements in life. All for 25 lacks ofcourse. And all in "mazak" according to Pritam Apyaare. Yeah right lol. We all saw, HOW sportingly he took Dimpy's petty provocation in the hijack task!

I don't understand WHY is Gautam even trying to explain to this man, his point, when that double faced backstabber was the mastermind of ALL of this & had a slick escape!

Edited by * Unnati * - 10 years ago

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 10 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Gautam needs to be who he is. He does not need to become Pritam or Tanna to get the message across. We all know he is better than Pritam and Ali or even Tanna so he has nothing to prove to anyone. There is no point losing your individuality to becoming somebody else.

Gautam still is who he is. He did not stoop to any vile language or claims. He only used this example after Pritam initiated discussion to 'take it like joke'. None of them would use this approach to explain their feelings...they go ballistic first. Just illustrating his poi t on e with an example does not define or convert him to their level permanently. Let's keep some perspective here. Of he was approaching each person and chanting the same katha then I would agree would you that he is losing his individuality. But here he is keeping to himself, first Youpen. Then Pritam is coming with their two cents advice without showing him they understand or even acknowledge that he was treated badly. This non validation has prompted him to tell these hypocrites to take their advice and shove it.

If he didn't say anything and quietly agreed with their advice, then people would say he's got not self respect and he's a doormat. Fact is he could have made this much bigger. But he did not. He's contained it to himself. He's decided to stay away even if it costs him footage and the game.

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TheBoss

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Posted: 10 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Equine
I disagree with you boss. Your point would have been valid if Gauti did speak something bad abt his wife. But, he just mentioned her name and nothing else. So, how is it wrong?

Also, he was just not trying to make Pritam understand. But, for all of the other housemates who were saying tht gsutam is overreacting.

Didn't we jump all over Tanna when she referenced Pramod Mahajans name? It was in the same context. Just like that lawyer ki beti comment, or yesterday with you represent your family comment and now example of Pritams wife. My point is I cannot have one opinion for one party and over look the others. All acts are univocally inappropriate and uncalled for. Whatever the issue may be, keep it to the contestants. When you bring in family, even if used as some example is when you lose the plot. Its always better to keep the discussions within the confines of the show. As I said even I agree he meant no harm with his comments and I can see where he was getting at, but end of the day it is futile and there is really no need to go that route.

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Angeala

@angeala95

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Posted: 10 years ago

#48

Pehli baat no one called gulati a gay prostitute!!!
All ali said was u used sumeet for monetary gains!! This is no way implies gulati as a male escort or whatever!!
Dusri baat, a person can tolerate whatever that is said about them but not those they love!!
I will give u an example: there was a teacher in my school whom unknowingly i rubbed in the wrong way, and she talked about my parents and upbringing in front of other people!! I cant even explain how much it hurt me that day!! I would have taken her saying anything to me but not my parents!! This is how every person thinks!! Its human!!

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Pooja--

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Posted: 10 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: * Unnati *
Pritam had once called this guy, his "chota bhai " and a "friend". Yesterday, he plotted with Ali & got his "chota bhai" called a "Gay prostitute".

🤣🤣 We have great fiction writers on this forum.

Edited by Pooja-- - 10 years ago

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Faiza Sait

@Arshie

Voyager

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Posted: 10 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Didn't we jump all over Tanna when she referenced Pramod Mahajans name? It was in the same context. Just like that lawyer ki beti comment, or yesterday with you represent your family comment and now example of Pritams wife. My point is I cannot have one opinion for one party and over look the others. All acts are univocally inappropriate and uncalled for. Whatever the issue may be, keep it to the contestants. When you bring in family, even if used as some example is when you lose the plot. Its always better to keep the discussions within the confines of the show. As I said even I agree he meant no harm with his comments and I can see where he was getting at, but end of the day it is futile and there is really no need to go that route.

he's dead.. u don't bring in d dead for anything

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