Are we living in 10th century to blame everything on a woman ?? - Page 2

Edifiz.. I quite agree with you.


I have not seen Tanna leading any men in the show.

It would be wrong to blame her for Rahul flirting with her. Today she also admitted that.. She laughed at Rahul's jokes because she was blasted by Salman for not taking joke on her & Pritam sportingly. So, yea looked to me that she tried avoiding it with her smile in Rahul's case.

If Rahul-Upen flirts with her, it's their choice. Where is Tanna leading them I fail to see.

In this whole issue Rahul was more at fault...he humiliated dimpy in tv...he was a pathetic flirt...it is true that karishma didnt encouraged him nor discouraged him...but she defi.itely over reacted...she could hqve told him that in privacy too...but what to do cant sympathise for rahul becoz he earned that...he humiliated dimpy n karishma humiliated him...what goes around comes around too...

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Er... Lets back up a minute. NOBODY and I mean NOBODY is disappointed that Tanna is rising up to Mahajan. We are only disappointed in her inconstancy and her blatant hypocrisy to decide when to laugh, when to get butthurt and when to shed tears. She claims one thing does the other. Ignores RM outside becomes buddy inside. Says got a BF outside and does kissy kissy with Upen. Badmouths Sonali yet does the same thing herself.

NOBODY ?? Well I see a lot of people who are. Not disappointed but plainly angered by how dare she bring it up now when she kept her mouth shut for the past one week.

As I said many times before she never reacted positively to RM's advances. To me it looked like she was embarrassed and uncomfortable. Yes she did laugh the way Pritam laughs when hes put in a tough spot. Being a hypocrite would be if she was sitting there romancing him, cozying up with him and then telling the guy off one fine day. But thats not what happened. From what I saw everytime he said something pathetic she smiled/laughed and said I have a BF. She made gestures like waving her hand indicating hes crazy to be talking like this. When he bought up text messages she said yes I reply after 25 messages from him. So I dont see the hypocrisy here.

Also when someone is wrong in one situation doesnt mean they are wrong everywhere. she is selfish, was mean to Sonali, has double standards. But in this case I dont think shes wrong

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Er... Lets back up a minute. NOBODY and I mean NOBODY is disappointed that Tanna is rising up to Mahajan. We are only disappointed in her inconstancy and her blatant hypocrisy to decide when to laugh, when to get butthurt and when to shed tears. She claims one thing does the other. Ignores RM outside becomes buddy inside. Says got a BF outside and does kissy kissy with Upen. Badmouths Sonali yet does the same thing herself. And you are doing the same by fighting for one womans rights while throwing another under the bus. Atleast Sonali made it clear to Ali on countless times that she does not like his behavior, he needs to back off and she also gave a fitting reply when he didnt pay heed.

I am not going to explain anything to you after this because obviously we cannot agree on this. I am not fighting for womens rights. You really need to go beyond just the 'woman' word. If someone mentions that in a thread you guys automatically assume they are playing a womens card. I started this topic specifically for people who said - its not rahuls or upens fault a girl should know her limits.

So again my question is why is a girl blamed here for some guy making advances towards her even after her hinting many times that she is not interested. So again when I question that - it is not playing a womans card - if you dont get that. And if you still thats what it is then obviously I am beating a dead horse here and dont want to say anything further.

Because it is clear as a day why people are genuinely upset at her. If you do not see it the same way thats OK. But to make the long story short she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Edifiz.. I quite agree with you.


I have not seen Tanna leading any men in the show.

It would be wrong to blame her for Rahul flirting with her. Today she also admitted that.. She laughed at Rahul's jokes because she was blasted by Salman for not taking joke on her & Pritam sportingly. So, yea looked to me that she tried avoiding it with her smile in Rahul's case.

If Rahul-Upen flirts with her, it's their choice. Where is Tanna leading them I fail to see.

Exactly my point. So many threads today saying Karishma shouldnt have blasted him and humiliated him on national tv. And why if she was ok with it last week she objected to it this week.

Its like saying if a guy passes some comment on me and if I decide to ignore the comment, then I should also ignore if he decides to take it a step further the next day.

Originally posted by: edifiz100

Exactly my point. So many threads today saying Karishma shouldnt have blasted him and humiliated him on national tv.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Please show me the thread. I might have missed it.

Not a chance because you have started quite a few yourself. :) Also if you are stuck on semantics then you might not see it. What the threads actually say is that she shouldn't have reacted the way she did because she was ok with it last week.

You claim this isnt a womens rights issue but your thread title says otherwise.

Originally posted by: edifiz100

Am I the only one who feels Karishma is not at fault with the whole Rahul Mahajan episode. Now I am no Karishma fan but the way people are blaming her for encouraging Rahul is ridiculous.

Am I watching a different show. Because no where did I see her encouraging him or leading him on. To me her giggles looked like a nervous laugh to try and ignore his comments. She looked more confused than anything not knowing how to direct this after the 'Pritam-its not funny' fiasco where she was blasted by Salman.

I dont understand what world people are living in who blame Karishma. There is no black and white everytime. There are grey areas. If we reacted immediately and strongly to everything that we didn't like then we would have enemies all around us. Karishma has tons of flows but one thing I will give her she has conducted herself pretty well when it came to men. She has made is clear from the time she entered the show that she has a boyfriend. BTW who say someone who has a BF has to be a prude and not involve in any kind of interaction with the opposite sex.

Karishma never flirted with men he way Sonali did (with Upen and Gautam). She never tried to get physically close to anyone from her side. Even in her talks she never initiated anything that indicated she led anyone on. Did she not react to certain unwanted comments - yes. Did she encourage it - no. When she is with Rahul and PRitam it is clear Pritam is on Rahuls side so obviously she feels one against two and didnt say anything.

Even the housemates - including Dimply and Sambhavna had told Rahul that she is not interested in you.

Is she wrong to have reacted now? No. Because she took it till she can and when she couldn't she snapped at him. She was absolutely right in humiliating him on national TV and more power to her. Just because someone asks you for favor doesnt mean you own them - the way Rahul thinks. And if people feel she used him then again more power to her.