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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

OMG!! have you ever heard of professionalism ??? work ethics?

Karishma is not there on the own time at a retreat spar. she is there to do her job as a contestant in Big Boss reality television program, aired on colours channel.

she is not there to mop and cry and take things personally. if she cant take the pressure of doing her job in the television/ movie industry then she has no business being a part of it.

if she suffers from mood swings that she should be at home undergoing therapy.

salman didn't tell her not to cry, but we the viewers are not interested in watching some self proclaimed diva give us entertainment according to her moods. we want to see a fun show, with a fun host, a little leg pulling and a little teasing. do we want to know why she busted out crying??

her excuse of she had a rough day? really doing what??? must we ask?

why the hell is karishma acting like a school girl who cries every time the principal calls her name. that's so silly.

if she was feeling low or depressed, or sick she should have asked for a doctor. and taken some rest. before the show. or she should have kept her mouth shut during the show's 1 hour and then gone to the bathroom and cried her heart out.



After all said and done... still no one has a right to tell her when she can cry or not cry... staging a walkout and then letting it all out on Upen was not at all necessary,

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Love-u-all

We saw a true glimps of Salman's actual personality...thanks to Karishma...

This is why he has no girl in his life, all the women who came in his life left him in a very bad taste.




Can be. I think he is control freak and if things don't go his way, he freaks out. Seen these arrogant types. Till the time you keep on massaging their egos they will be fine but as soon as you go in opposite direction, they will hit you back.

Anyway, i think he should be bit more sensitive about people emotions. I know it can be frustrating when jokes which are meant to betaken as jokes only turn out to create complicated situation, not that I am blaming tanna. Surely, it wasn't her day and ITS OK but i do see from where both salman and tanna coming from. All i can say is ... too bad, i suppose ? 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg

Its ok for gautam to cry when he was isolated.. In one week. But not for someone to be bullied the whole season by two industry powerful.. Puneet and salman!.. How much can one person take?

exactly the contestants have plenty of time to cry inside the house, they dont need to cry in front of salman khan. he was just doing he job, and i really dont understand this concept of being bullied?? what is karishma a 5 year old,
puneet does not bully her, he and karishma do not see eye to eye. he doesnt like her and she doesnt like him. he bad mouths her and she bad mouths him. so how is she getting bullied.
if she is the time of timid delicate princess she has no business being in big boss.

and salman khan did not bully her, even the public wanted to know on what basis karishma took her decisions in the tasks. he was simply trying to tell her that she should use her brains in such things or the public will think that she is stupid.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Love-u-all



After all said and done... still no one has a right to tell her when she can cry or not cry... staging a walkout and then letting it all out on Upen was not at all necessary,

salman came back because he had a job to do and wanted it done within the timelimit which is the air time. you dont think when shooting stalls. or put of hold the producers loose money. peoples time is wasted.
so you think that every time some decide to have a crying fit, salman, and the rest of the unit should just wait around for the diva to stop crying. oh please. get real

say what you may, yes salman doesn't have the right to tell her when to and when not to cry. this is a cut throat industry and if she doesnt learn by herself she wont last long in it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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agree with you 100%
i was a die hard salman fan but since last year, his biasness towards a certain someone is not right and does not suit his "being human" personality

He is the kind of person who can't tolerate any insult or humiliation and is very short tempered who is he to judge others? fix yourself first and then point fingers at others

karishma started crying because of the false accusations that he forcefully put on her, then the 1hr rant, then puneets gande comments, i mean who wouldn't want to cry ,,,, she is a very strong women to tolderate all the crap given to her by salman and if today she wanted to cry well i got to say is that she is only human, she has feelings so what if she is not a superstar?? she can't express herself?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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even if i for a minute consider that this was stupid reason to cry for then also who doesn't cry for stupid reasons

we are all humans and on bad days i am sure we have all cried for stupid reasons

so karishma did today i dont see the big deal

ab rona aa gya to gaya its not like she cried on every WKV though she is bashed on every WKV

ab iss weekend rona aa gya toh a gya yaar what is the big deal

salman being the bigger star should have just been the bigger person as well and let it go
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

salman came back because he had a job to do and wanted it done within the timelimit which is the air time. you dont think when shooting stalls. or put of hold the producers loose money. peoples time is wasted.

so you think that every time some decide to have a crying fit, salman, and the rest of the unit should just wait around for the diva to stop crying. oh please. get real

say what you may, yes salman doesn't have the right to tell her when to and when not to cry. this is a cut throat industry and if she doesnt learn by herself she wont last long in it.


but still what it boils down to ..that we all are human beings, an emotional creatures and mistakes are bound to happen. In this cut throat, competitive industry we tend to forget that people are not robot that they would play the way exactly how other wants. Up and down WILL happen, sometimes our body and mind are not in control. When other person has apologized and told that its about her.. i think, you need to pass it rather making issue about it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

OMG!! have you ever heard of professionalism ??? work ethics?

Karishma is not there on the own time at a retreat spar. she is there to do her job as a contestant in Big Boss reality television program, aired on colours channel.
Same should be applied to Salman as well, walking out during taping? How is that professional? He should have called her unprofessional and continued for the rest of the show. He over dramatized the situation, wasn't needed. He's the center of attraction and gets paid a lot more than all the contestants combined. He should be a lot more professional than the rest.
And how was she unprofessional? She cried and said it's not funny, Salman overreacted and made a mountain out of a molehill.

she is not there to mop and cry and take things personally. if she cant take the pressure of doing her job in the television/ movie industry then she has no business being a part of it.
Everybody takes everything personally in that show, including Salman Khan...evidently.
She can't take pressure? 😛 It took her more than 2 months to actually breakdown to constant disapproval, hatred, dislike, ridicule,...etc. Any other in her position would've broken down ages ago.

if she suffers from mood swings that she should be at home undergoing therapy.
😆 Stop exaggerating, her moods are a lot more stable than Puneet's...If he can stay so can she! 😛

salman didn't tell her not to cry, but we the viewers are not interested in watching some self proclaimed diva give us entertainment according to her moods. we want to see a fun show, with a fun host, a little leg pulling and a little teasing. do we want to know why she busted out crying??
Someone crying is never entertainment for me, but I think her breakdown was long overdue...Do we want to know?---I already know.
"Little" leg pulling, "little" teasing would've been fine, I agree...nothing was little and nothing was light. It was relentless and non-stop.

her excuse of she had a rough day? really doing what??? must we ask?
Did you skip yesterday's episode? She was bashed left, right and center...even if you think she "deserved" the painful ordeal it is tough to take in for any normal human being. She had a rough day.

why the hell is karishma acting like a school girl who cries every time the principal calls her name. that's so silly.
Cries every time?! 😆 Exaggeration again!
if she was feeling low or depressed, or sick she should have asked for a doctor. and taken some rest. before the show. or she should have kept her mouth shut during the show's 1 hour and then gone to the bathroom and cried her heart out.
She was being a professional!! They're not even given enough time to think, eat-get ready-get on with bathroom breaks and done...They have to prepare for the show. Taking rest whenever and being mum when asked a question would've been the most unprofessional moves on anyone's part. Contradicting yourself.

Edited by barlin - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Salman was just trying to justify by shouting and simply exaggerating things. She even said sorry, his problem was just that she didn't laugh at his stupid joke. It was very very disrespectful from his side, he was totally behaving like someone superior. I am sorry, but he doesn't own the contestants. He was getting personal, what if pritam's wife gets offended what if tanna's boyfriend gets offended? Okay good, he's the host he can talk all this stupid ish but she can cry about it too, it's her choice!!
His image of being oh-so-nice and what not is sooo fake and that was visible today!
@merrydock, if u remember correctly you're a gautam fan right? Why did people support gautam then when he cried? He's on a show too right? He should man the eff up and take everything and be strong.
She cried once for heaven's sake! He cried many times. She never cried when she was people called her selfish, she never cried when salman said inappropriate things about her and he did do that this whole season, every weekend. There is a limit to everything, she's in a show but he's not paying her for it and please, I don't remember her signing a contract that said that she isn't allowed to cry without his permission. I watched the episode too and all I saw was him getting mad, while she tried to stay calm and explain that its not about him he really didn't deserve the respect she gave him. I actually think he got angry over the fact that his "joke" wasn't funny.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree 100%
just because shes in this industry/bigg boss house doesnt mean she cant say anything or cant cry! she has a right to put her own opinion and cry whenever she wants!
and she had had more than enough today!
i was shocked to see her so strong up till now cuz any other girl would've cried a long time ago
and if all of this was for sympathy, she'd have cried on every weekend ka vaar
just because she says things straight up, salman doesn't like her and that is SO NOT DONE!

He is a partial host. PERIOD


Edited by vrushap - 10 years ago

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