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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: JIYAMG

Yes he was sad :( He is a gem ... At that time Gauti should also said many things but he respected her and decided to speak nothing which acc to me is great gesture! I hate Di for spoiling his image but for me Gautam is always best and will remain my favrt !



It was Bigg Boss who wanted her to say it. Otherwise they also could have showed Karishma's and Upen's videos where they apparently (source Khabri) said that they can't trust Di because she is too good with Gautam.

But they preferred to show her Gautam's videos because they wanted much worse things said by Diandra to Gautam. Even Salman was supporting Di a lot... because seriously, it's boring if one person has so many fans and the others don't. Even I have been liking Gautam since Day 1, but Di was my fav later.

I wonder if they both stay friends. Most of the contestants won't have anything because of the show. The big winners will def be Colours and Salman. This time it might affect Gautam, Ali and Sonali in a very good way, too. Let's see what the future brings.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Adnus90



It was Bigg Boss who wanted her to say it. Otherwise they also could have showed Karishma's and Upen's videos where they apparently (source Khabri) said that they can't trust Di because she is too good with Gautam.

But they preferred to show her Gautam's videos because they wanted much worse things said by Diandra to Gautam. Even Salman was supporting Di a lot... because seriously, it's boring if one person has so many fans and the others don't. Even I have been liking Gautam since Day 1, but Di was my fav later.

I wonder if they both stay friends. Most of the contestants won't have anything because of the show. The big winners will def be Colours and Salman. This time it might affect Gautam, Ali and Sonali in a very good way, too. Let's see what the future brings.


Gautam wanted Di's number lol. I think she will remain friends with him. The grand finale she will be there and maybe they will hug.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: moshij

She sure went in a dignified way but it wont be fair to say gautam had nothing for her. He sure acted in immature way which he always does but he was right in his stand, going overboard with all the lovey dover in tele doesnt look good for prime time show.

Di was bold as she has shown it all along the show, full marks; at the same gautam was right for putting a leash on what was going on from the feedbacks he got and not to mention the warning Gaudi got from BB to put end to mushy love as LS members are also watching it 😆

Loved the way gauti said to upen "Di ko bich mein maat la" during upcoming task. Man! the look in his eyes, he sure dose have respect, love or whatever it is..for Di.

Bhai cha gaye ghataum. Mukka maar ke muh tod do upen ka...so f***in irritating he is.


I am not saying he had nothing for her... He obviously had something for her. At the very least after today it seemed he genuinely cared for her but got carried away by what he heard from others and then backed out completely. Again, he didn't DUMP her, he just acted a bit immature and for that he has been reprimanded multiple times by Salman this weekend.

I am going to wait for tomorrow's episode before commenting on the situation in the precap. But from the little that we were shown and from what I've been seeing for the past few eps, Upen is the most vile and evil person in this house. 🤢 I mean if Di is such a close friend of yours just ignore that chapter instead of trying to make it an issue again which may lead to some kind of embarassment for both parties involved. Upen was totally out of line there. Hopefully, GG will keep it dignified tomorrow.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Yes i think he admires her as a person and friend.. Diandra has some appreciable qualities.. Unfortunately she got swayed in the last minute with that video clipping.. I wish she had seen through it and thought rationally before giving those comments.. Those comments from Gautam were not at all on their relationship/friendship..It was strictly from game point of view.. Glad Gautam got the opportunity to clarify his stand and he didnt start any ugly blame game.. which is why i guess Diandra took a step back and wished him happiness in the end..


Diandra had some really good qualities actually. I still remember how once she openly admitted she wants GG to go even though he did all the tasks and was very hard working simply because she didn't like him. She was pretty blunt and straightforward unlike Tanna who just NEVER wants to accept her mistakes or admit that she is partial to people she likes.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Adnus90



Yea it's also BB's fault. They showed her the clippings without any explanation. And Salman supporting everything was also reassuring her statements. Maybe that's why she didn't stop.

But yea I liked her exit a lot, the whole video they made for her was nice :)


The video made for her was really nice.. It was more than just everyone bitching about the exiting contestant. But GG was right when he said BB just tries to confuse people. She couldn't figure it out then but I think now that she will go back and watch the episodes she will see that GG didn't really bitch about her behind her back after the patch up.

She is really mature and clearly GG still has respect for her too, that's why I hope they remain friends after the show is done.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: JIYAMG

Yes he was sad :( He is a gem ... At that time Gauti should also said many things but he respected her and decided to speak nothing which acc to me is great gesture! I hate Di for spoiling his image but for me Gautam is always best and will remain my favrt !


Yeah... Apart from the fact that GG tried to deny that there was anything more than just friendship, I think GG has tried to handle this situation in a pretty respectful manner.

I don't agree with you that it was Di who spoiled his image.. GG is 26. He is old enough to figure out what he should and shouldn't do. He could've said NO when Di took him to the bathroom but he DIDN'T. He could've said no the second or third time but he did NOT. I don't think it's right to blame/hate one party over the other for this issue. They were both at fault.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Theking21

It's really difficult to say who's wrong because both were right on their own place. Di always said it was timepass and gautam agreed that they were just flirting and there was nothing more, but it seemed like Di actually was in love with gautam and that's why she reacted the way she did after what gautam said. Gautam was also right on what he said that why should we potray something that's not true and whatever they did showed that they liked it each other more then friends, so he just wanted to stop all the bathroom stuff and just remain as how friends do, but I think maybe Di misunderstood gautam.


I don't think either of them were really wrong. GG was wrong in the way he handled the situation and how he asked her to take it down a notch. He could've just talked it out with her privately instead of trying to deny it saying they are "just friends."

The way Di has held herself in this show I really doubt she actually allowed herself to fall in love with GG in the show or believed there was some sort of a long term commitment there. But yeah she probably misunderstood GG at the end because of the clippings shown to her which were misleading.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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he def thinks of her as a good friend but nothing more
he was ok with flirting which he does with every gal It went haywire coz he wasn't able to say NO and that was his biggest mistake.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bloodymary

I am a Di fan and never liked Gautam but I respected whatever they had. Never cared about those bathroom escapades because I am very open minded about such things. I liked Di's exit speech and from her POV, it was justified. I am not blaming Gautam for anything here because unlike Diandra, Gautam is not that bold. I get that.

And I do agree that Gautam was feeling bad. He likes her but he denied this in front of her and in front of camera's, which is what made him look bad. You don't do intimate kisses and hugs with a friend. He is attracted to her and he is effected by her a lot. Diandra is different and admirable on many levels for Gautam. I think it matters to him about what she thinks and feels that is why even though his approach to end things with Di were absolutely immature, he kept on assuring her that he didn't want to hurt her.

I think Gautam wished that she stayed longer so he could make things right with her but unfortunately she left and he never got that chance.

There is no one to blame here because in their own ways they were justified. Gautam learned his lesson and now he will never do that to anyone again in his life. Hopefully!

I guess you do learn and experience a lot when you live with selected people inside house. You're on your own so you make mistakes, you learn and you grow.

I am sure Gautam is pissed at Di atm but he really respects and cares for her and she respects him. Whatever she told him at the end was her taking a stand and teaching him a lesson.

Hahahah they will never forget each other till they die.


Exactly what my thread is about. I think they both were attracted to each other. I doubt they will every materialize into something more but hopefully they'll still remain friends. It's not like they won't have time to make things right after the show ends. It just won't be under the public scrutiny so it may actually be easier to make amends.

And it obviously mattered to him what she thinks. Why else was he trying to clarify in the end when he never clarifies anything when Salman advises him? He wanted to assure her that it is just a misunderstanding and I am sure now Di will see that after watching all the episodes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tina59

he def thinks of her as a good friend but nothing more

he was ok with flirting which he does with every gal It went haywire coz he wasn't able to say NO and that was his biggest mistake.


I don't even think his biggest mistake was not saying NO. His biggest mistake was the way he ended it all. According to me, they should've just gone to the bathroom one more time and cleared it all out without mikes in private. GG just didn't really know the appropriate way of taking it down a notch.
Edited by nehlove - 10 years ago

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