I am a Di fan and never liked Gautam but I respected whatever they had. Never cared about those bathroom escapades because I am very open minded about such things. I liked Di's exit speech and from her POV, it was justified. I am not blaming Gautam for anything here because unlike Diandra, Gautam is not that bold. I get that.
And I do agree that Gautam was feeling bad. He likes her but he denied this in front of her and in front of camera's, which is what made him look bad. You don't do intimate kisses and hugs with a friend. He is attracted to her and he is effected by her a lot. Diandra is different and admirable on many levels for Gautam. I think it matters to him about what she thinks and feels that is why even though his approach to end things with Di were absolutely immature, he kept on assuring her that he didn't want to hurt her.
I think Gautam wished that she stayed longer so he could make things right with her but unfortunately she left and he never got that chance.
There is no one to blame here because in their own ways they were justified. Gautam learned his lesson and now he will never do that to anyone again in his life. Hopefully!
I guess you do learn and experience a lot when you live with selected people inside house. You're on your own so you make mistakes, you learn and you grow.
I am sure Gautam is pissed at Di atm but he really respects and cares for her and she respects him. Whatever she told him at the end was her taking a stand and teaching him a lesson.
Hahahah they will never forget each other till they die.
Edited by bloodymary - 10 years ago