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I think it is really needed!! Gautam needs to know that he has gone astray in this one week. I am a huge Gautam fan and I am genuinely concerned since the past one week now. I really think he has lost the plot. He needs to get over his fascination with captaincy and needs to realize a few other things
1) He does not need captaincy at all - even if he is nominated every week till the finale he will be saved by the public. He needs to see that nobody wants him to be the captain except for Puneet so what is Puneet's gain in it. It is so obvious and Puneet has been vocal about it that Puneet wants Gautam to come into power so that Puneet can use him as a tool for making life a living hell for the bedroom gang. Gautam will end up being more hated than ever before and might end up loosing a few fans if he starts being evil to bedroom gang. So for him its best to stay away from captaincy.
Eventhough Praneet and Pritam have their own motives behind not wanting Gautam to become a captain they are doing him a very big favor.
The only time when I would want Gautam to be a captain would be when Puneet is out of the house.
2) He says he is alone but takes his friendship with P3 too seriously and expects a lot of them. He takes the concept of P3G too seriously - so much so that he has ceased to being his individual self. His expectations are too far fetched and as they are not met he ends up hurting himself a lot.
He needs to realize that Praneet Pritam and Puneet are all individuals and not just that but his competitors. He cannot expect them to hand captaincy or immunity to him on a silver platter.
They promising that to him and not fulfilling that promise just reflects badly on them but its a separate issue.
3) He needs to stop taking Sonali so seriously. The mere fact that he has stopped talking to her completely shows the effect she has on him and how seriously he takes her. He should consider her as just an acquaintance and chat around a bit yahan wahan ki baaten kare hansi mazak and thats all. She clearly just wants to have a good time in the house and does not give a damn about emotions or anything. I am not saying that he should go ahead with the showmance but just general social baaten jokes etc should continue.
4) Needs to mingle with people - no not Karishma and Diandra but with others like Upen Arya Nigar Rene and Dimpy. Idhar udhar ki baaten hi kare but kare. He needs to realize that having a good time with everyone is not correlated to being friends. The format of the show is such that by the end you will have to hangout with even your worst enemy.
5) Get a grip on his emotions and separate his real life from the life in bigg boss house. He should stop taking the hatred so seriously. This is just messing him up even more. It is stopping him from using his brain. We have all seen he can be a class apart when he uses his brain in the game.
6) Realize he is a very very strong contestant and individual that too without the support of P3 or captaincy and stay away from Punz by detaching himself emotionally atleast from him. His issue is that he keeps saying he is alone but takes P3 (especially Punz) as his backbone and support system. He needs to stop with it. Start treating them as competitors and hangout buddies.
I think once he realizes this stuff he will regain full control over his emotions and brain and then he will be back with a bang. I want my real Gautam back - the one who was brilliant at strategizing during Lambas v/s Babbars, the one who cracks funny one lines, the one who proved that he is an amazing human being during the confession room task.
Please Salman please forgodsake have a one on one session with him and guide him!!!!!!
Anupamaa
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
