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Posted: 10 years ago
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People need to understand that there is a different between REAL siblings and friends who call each other brother/sister.

I have many friends who would say "so and so is like my bro/sis" - doesn't mean they're "actual" brother sisters - it just means there are no sexual feelings between them. I know some people who are roommates and they cuddle together or hold hands - but its NOT sexual even though they are opposite sexes.
Again, it just comes down to mentality and partiality - some contestants can do ANYTHING and their fans will overlook it and hide things under a rug and pretend like it never happened. I just feel this forum as a whole is too judgemental and critical of Upen, who actually seems like one of the most sane and decent people in the house compared to some of the other wild characters on the show!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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We want honest people in the show.

A woman who openly says 'I am flirty' or a girl who openly says 'I am in love' is a better choice than Soni. I am not saying that she is doing something wrong on purpose but I think she is conflicted about her own feelings.

A woman who is raised in sub-continent cannot ask a guy to sleep with her, no matter what she calls her unless she is looking forward for some romance or she is totally unaware of her own needs. A western girl may be.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Some people are so narrow minded, the only thing you can do is ignore them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No brother sister behave in the way soni behaves..i have 3 brothers and m the only sis so i can truely understand a brother sister relationship..what Soni and upen were doing is disgusting..there are some limits in every relationship.. It is not that only one person is saying that they behave inappropriately there are thousands and thousands of fans all over who feel it it does not mean they are small minded.. Every one have their view you cannot tell them that they are small minded.. Upen and soni with their so called bro sis relationship should learn to behave.. May God bless their mind
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am sure soni's parents think the same...itna pyar to blood brother/sister main nahin hota...i mean physical pyar...soni saying main kissi say flirt nahin kerti...plz madam...aap flirt ker lain, atleast we will know you are flirting...but do not cover up your flirtatious activities by calling it bhai/behen...i remember long time back angelina jolie was criticized by the american media for being too chipko with her blood brother...come on...when its inappropriate then the broadest of minds think its inappropriate😳..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was born with 2 brothers and let me tell you that is not how I would like to behave with my brothers. I am sure majority, most or many of the gals who have brothers would not behave with their brothers in that way.
people who have seen live feed would agree that what she does goes beyond bhai- behen behaviour , if they had declared they are best friends, it would have been fine

maybe what they feel in their heart is true brother sister emotion but they belong to the rare 3-5% of them who behave with their siblings that way, that too adult 30+ year old siblings.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: blue24

No brother sister behave in the way soni behaves..i have 3 brothers and m the only sis so i can truely understand a brother sister relationship..what Soni and upen were doing is disgusting..there are some limits in every relationship.. It is not that only one person is saying that they behave inappropriately there are thousands and thousands of fans all over who feel it it does not mean they are small minded.. Every one have their view you cannot tell them that they are small minded.. Upen and soni with their so called bro sis relationship should learn to behave.. May God bless their mind


So what is the limit of a brother and sister relationship?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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the only reason why soni and upen were able to turn the situation around in their favor was because the caller was hesitant to say stuff that would have been explicit. Had she not been hesitant things would have been totallly different.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Watch d whole convo salman said agar baat uthi hai toh u need 2 B careful... Dat said it all... It was a hint control ur puure emotions u hv been brother n sister for 4 Weeks n r behaving like touchy touchy as if u hv known each other since childhood... Nobody is questioning their pure emotions but are raising questions on their compromising actions... Their words n actions dont match...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actions always speak louder than words and the way they act doesnt reflect a sibling type of relationship. They have always acted like a couple. Also diandre also said that Soni ki mu uthar jathi hai jab koi Upen se bat karta hai, now why would any sister be like that, only a jealous gf wouldn't want anyone talking to him.

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