So this happened, Minisha, clearly not happy with Arya bitches about him to Deepu, but stupidly forgets that she is telling it to the 80 cameras too! She defamed a person (irrespective of him being a man), which I feel was not right. Well whatever..
Then Salman asks Arya about it, which I feel was fair enough so that he knows his side of story. Arya admits about it that he did ask about hugging and holding hands. Then Salman asks Minisha to say it in open, she obviously has to do it because she cannot deny it now. Arya gets angry, which is completely natural but the tangent he held from there was bizarre, immature and highly revengeful!
Like Salman said, he finally showed his true nature! Disclosing a past relationship, which was never written about is insane! It will obviously affect both of them. Minisha's reaction is normal and justified but I am sure she must be cursing herself for inviting this problem!
Diandra goes to Arya to make him explain but even she picked the wrong point- of aurat ki izat! This issue is about who did right or wrong not about if it involves a man or a woman!! Arya's reaction was right that even a man demands respect but it also showed his hypocrisy that when another man was literally being cornered over an abusive comment, he felt the guy deserved because he hampered an aurat ki izzat!!..
He made an isssue of gaali and now gives gaali to BB female voice over! So, all maturity and morality gayi tel lene? I am yet to decide whether the gaali and throwing mike was his real anger or he followed Salman's advice of acting his age so that audience responds to him!
All in all, both were wrong according to me and have caused damage. It is just that Minisha's comment caused a smaller one and Arya's reaction has given the matter a bigger shape.