Day 81 - Daily Discussion Thread - 6 Sep 2018 - Page 17

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Posted: 7 years ago

Thanks dude...
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

Congrats Shan mappilai Sir 😎


Thanks Ramya...
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Posted: 7 years ago
Congratulations ShanC 🥳
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Posted: 7 years ago
Congrats Shan Bhaiya👏👏...So Happy for u😳
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ShanC


I am gonna get married soon... Actually all this happened in my home as well.

I am somewhat convinced with horoscope matching..becoz its followed from my grandparents. But per porutham too much than... How we can decide just with name matching...

Moreover my personal advice is discuss with that guy... And accept only if he is suitable for you..

All these matching and all secondary.



I have only one piece of advice if you check horoscope don't ignore it. If you don't check it then don't believe in it. Check pannittu don't compromise. For any small problems in your life your mind will fall back to this as root cause instead of finding real cause. 26 is good age to start finding suitable match. Not old at all. Parents are parents be confident. You cannot find perfect person but have some 4 conditions which you don't want to compromise and couple of good to have but ok if it is not there. Any suitable match run through the 4 conditions and see if it will work out. If it doesn't don't proceed further. Few months down the line the 4 might reduce so keep an open mind and be positive. If you are religious continue your prayers. Arranged marriages comes with its own good and bad. But make sure you know what you want in your life. Don't assume marriage will fix any existing problems in your life. Marriage is not a solution but a new beginning in your life. It can go either way. Good luck
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -Emerald-

Congratulations ShanC 🥳


Thanks Aarthi...
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: shiningstar77

Congrats Shan Bhaiya 👏👏...So Happy for u😳


Thank you nandhu bro...
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mirun



I have only one piece of advice if you check horoscope don't ignore it. If you don't check it then don't believe in it. Check pannittu don't compromise. For any small problems in your life your mind will fall back to this as root cause instead of finding real cause. 26 is good age to start finding suitable match. Not old at all. Parents are parents be confident. You cannot find perfect person but have some 4 conditions which you don't want to compromise and couple of good to have but ok if it is not there. Any suitable match run through the 4 conditions and see if it will work out. If it doesn't don't proceed further. Few months down the line the 4 might reduce so keep an open mind and be positive. If you are religious continue your prayers. Arranged marriages comes with its own good and bad. But make sure you know what you want in your life. Don't assume marriage will fix any existing problems in your life. Marriage is not a solution but a new beginning in your life. It can go either way. Good luck


Well said 👏

Thank you
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Posted: 7 years ago

I am not old enough to advise anyone here 😉

Wishing Shan and rose on best life ahead.

Wishing you the best.


Edited by goldiesif - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
I am atheist, but never like to speak against ones belief.
Believe in marriage, trust your partner for ever. Marriage is successful only based on years both live together.

Have less expectations and lead a peaceful and happy life.
Never ever let money drive things for you.

Just my thought to all my elder sisters and brothers in this forum.


Edited by goldiesif - 7 years ago

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