Blowing things out of proportion.

In my opinion, what Bichukale did with Devoleena was wrong, but this thing was blown out of proportions by both the sides.

I understand that Devoleena felt uncomfortable when Bichukale was constantly asking her to kiss him. But this thing can also come under mild flirting. Now if Bichukale was a handsome hunk, nobody including probably Devo would've found it creepy.

Here I'm not blaming Devoleena, but just pointing out the fact that how easily we judge people based their appearance. Nevermind, it's Devo's choice if she felt uncomfortable, but I don't think Bichukale had any wrong intentions and he shouldn't be labelled as a sexual harasser.

Although his act does come under sexual harassment. What could've been ideally done here is that Devo sternly but separately tells Bichukale about his boundaries with her and that he shouldn't cross them.

But so many people around them took this issue to another level by trying to make it about themselves. Teja wanted to play the lone warrior by going against the house. Nishant and Rashami just wanted to take out their khunnas on Devoleena. Shamita just wanted to pick a fight with Teja.

I find it funny how Shamita changed her colors in two weeks. This woman was acting like a feminist two weeks ago, by creating bawaal over Bichukale using the word "kutiya" and now she's supporting the same guy over an act of sexual harassment, and also blaming the victim that it's her fault for having such a camaraderie with that man?

It seemed like Shamita just wanted to pick a fight with Teja, because she was supporting Devoleena. But I won't be surprised if this is the actual thought process of this woman. Although if this thing have happened to her, by someone like Nishant or Pratik, she won't have tolerated it for sure.

Rashami compared sexual harassment with using abuses, like how Devoleena supported Bichukale when he used phrases like gandi nali for Shamita. Like what?

Abusing someone or calling them gandi nali is not sexual harassment. At best, it is verbal harassment.

Shamita could get back at Bichukale by abusing him in return and she did it. Moreover, Shamita started that fight by abusing him first. Sexual harassment is not the same, you can't get back at the harasser by harassing him.

Devoleena didn't ask for it. She didn't start it. You can't blame her for feeling uncomfortable. Blaming her is like blaming women for getting raped because they were out late at night.

Nishant also looked pathetic the way he just supported Bichukale only because he wanted to go against Devoleena. These people don't realize how bad they look by supporting something which is obviously wrong just because they can't stop holding their grudges.

Teja sided with Devoleena, but even she was wrong for blowing things out of proportions. She was looking for footage as well and she made Bichukale look like some kind of monster with her statements like "thappad maar dungi ..taang tod dungi". Like What the hell? Who are you to do all that? Devo and all other women are safe in the house. No need to act like you're the only messiah for all women.

Pratik for a change looked right. He knew what Bichukale did was wrong. He understood what he did was unintentional and he also made him understand that. Even Devoleena understood it, and she even pointed out later on that other contestants like Shamita, Rashami and Nishant jumped on this mudda for footage.

Bad intention or not, handsome or not... when one is uncomfortable it comes out as creepy. I cringed myself when he desperately asked for a kiss. 😕 I think any girl would have felt uncomfy after the second time. 🤢

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

In my opinion, what Bichukale did with Devoleena was wrong, but this thing was blown out of proportions by both the sides.

I understand that Devoleena felt uncomfortable when Bichukale was constantly asking her to kiss him. But this thing can also come under mild flirting. Now if Bichukale was a handsome hunk, nobody including probably Devo would've found it creepy.

Here I'm not blaming Devoleena, but just pointing out the fact that how easily we judge people based their appearance. Nevermind, it's Devo's choice if she felt uncomfortable, but I don't think Bichukale had any wrong intentions and he shouldn't be labelled as a sexual harasser.

Although his act does come under sexual harassment. What could've been ideally done here is that Devo sternly but separately tells Bichukale about his boundaries with her and that he shouldn't cross them.

But so many people around them took this issue to another level by trying to make it about themselves. Teja wanted to play the lone warrior by going against the house. Nishant and Rashami just wanted to take out their khunnas on Devoleena. Shamita just wanted to pick a fight with Teja.

I find it funny how Shamita changed her colors in two weeks. This woman was acting like a feminist two weeks ago, by creating bawaal over Bichukale using the word "kutiya" and now she's supporting the same guy over an act of sexual harassment, and also blaming the victim that it's her fault for having such a camaraderie with that man?

It seemed like Shamita just wanted to pick a fight with Teja, because she was supporting Devoleena. But I won't be surprised if this is the actual thought process of this woman. Although if this thing have happened to her, by someone like Nishant or Pratik, she won't have tolerated it for sure.

Rashami compared sexual harassment with using abuses, like how Devoleena supported Bichukale when he used phrases like gandi nali for Shamita. Like what?

Abusing someone or calling them gandi nali is not sexual harassment. At best, it is verbal harassment.

Shamita could get back at Bichukale by abusing him in return and she did it. Moreover, Shamita started that fight by abusing him first. Sexual harassment is not the same, you can't get back at the harasser by harassing him.

Devoleena didn't ask for it. She didn't start it. You can't blame her for feeling uncomfortable. Blaming her is like blaming women for getting raped because they were out late at night.

Nishant also looked pathetic the way he just supported Bichukale only because he wanted to go against Devoleena. These people don't realize how bad they look by supporting something which is obviously wrong just because they can't stop holding their grudges.

Teja sided with Devoleena, but even she was wrong for blowing things out of proportions. She was looking for footage as well and she made Bichukale look like some kind of monster with her statements like "thappad maar dungi ..taang tod dungi". Like What the hell? Who are you to do all that? Devo and all other women are safe in the house. No need to act like you're the only messiah for all women.

Pratik for a change looked right. He knew what Bichukale did was wrong. He understood what he did was unintentional and he also made him understand that. Even Devoleena understood it, and she even pointed out later on that other contestants like Shamita, Rashami and Nishant jumped on this mudda for footage.

When Rakhi blew up the kiss issue and started spreading it throughout the house then Karan even said what’s new in this, Devoleena kisses him.
Devoleena has been massaging him, babying him per her convenience. Was she leading him on. We don’t know. Why didn’t she make it a mudda straight away. Why wait until after the task.

She supported Bichkule against Shamita and that gave him leeway to think he is right. She enabled him. Now she is at the receiving end. It was ok to her when Bichkule was harassing others so why is she surprised now. What’s so special about her to make her exempt.

Devileena did not understand that others jumped into the mudda to gain footage. She was made to understand that by Kundra. She just regurgitated what he said. Kundra had his own agenda to blame the other side for blowing things out of proportion BUT BUT BUT the person who really made it a free for all was his girlfriend Bhejafry who resorted to being a gunda wanting to beat up Bichkule. Shamita, Nishant and Rashmi all told Bichkule he was wrong but they also told Devileena that she enabled him. What’s wrong in balancing the perspective when Bhejafry was going on and on in her tirade. Even kundra’s best friend Umar told Bhejafry that she was also getting masala out of it. Shamita was not wrong when she said Bhejafry has been stretching issues unnecessarily all week.

Devo feeling uncomfortable was ok..... All that was required was to explain to him to watch his words better and mayb maintain distance for better measure.....

Pratik did a decent job at that I guess..... But everyone else kept on restarting the topic for their own interest and made a mockery out of the whole thing.

When previously ppl tried to make bichukle use better words, Devo went on to defend him and point at his good heart and all that. After that, no one will understand whether to speak in for devo or no.... She has been switching sides as per her convenience..

The whole screeching should have been avoided by devo if she wanted to make a point.

Behti ganga mein sab ne haath saaf kar liya...... But to an extent and on that situation, everyone made tiny sense in their way as well!!!

You have summarised on how a normal viewer sitting at home felt.

I want salman to bash this guy. To the extent of his mistake.

Not over do it.. like he penalised KK last wkw.

For once teja was putting across all right points.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

When Rakhi blew up the kiss issue and started spreading it throughout the house then Karan even said what’s new in this, Devoleena kisses him.
Devoleena has been massaging him, babying him per her convenience. Was she leading him on. We don’t know. Why didn’t she make it a mudda straight away. Why wait until after the task.

She supported Bichkule against Shamita and that gave him leeway to think he is right. She enabled him. Now she is at the receiving end. It was ok to her when Bichkule was harassing others so why is she surprised now. What’s so special about her to make her exempt.

Devileena did not understand that others jumped into the mudda to gain footage. She was made to understand that by Kundra. She just regurgitated what he said. Kundra had his own agenda to blame the other side for blowing things out of proportion BUT BUT BUT the person who really made it a free for all was his girlfriend Bhejafry who resorted to being a gunda wanting to beat up Bichkule. Shamita, Nishant and Rashmi all told Bichkule he was wrong but they also told Devileena that she enabled him. What’s wrong in balancing the perspective when Bhejafry was going on and on in her tirade. Even kundra’s best friend Umar told Bhejafry that she was also getting masala out of it. Shamita was not wrong when she said Bhejafry has been stretching issues unnecessarily all week.

Devoleena knew Bichukale was joking. That's why she didn't make a big mudda right then and there. But she was still irritated with him and wanted to make her boundaries clear. Nothing wrong with that. That's how one should deal with things.

If we don't know whether she was enabling him or not, how the hell Shamita, Nishant and Rashami would know that to pass judgement on Devo?

And what's this enabling nonsense anyway? Has Devo kissed Bichukale before? Did she let Bichukale kiss her before? Then what did she enable? And according to your logic, marital rape can be justified because women enable their husbands by having sex, so men get the right to rape them.

Shamita or anyone else wasn't sexually harassed by Bichukale. Those two are completely different scenarios and I already explained it in my original post.

Yes, Teja was blowing things out of proportion but Shamita, Rashami and Nishant were no less by trying to settle scores by jumping in this fight

Abhijit is a pathetic excuse for a human being and should have been bashed during the Shamita incident only. They always pump up such characters until they do something extremely controversial which is beneficial for the makers and then finally kick them out. Having said that, Devoleena's reaction too shouldn't go unquestioned. That jerk kept asking for a kiss and rather than blasting him right there and then, she was more interested in making him steal artefacts on her behalf. Had the task continued and Devoleena won, I doubt her reaction would have been the same. These ladies should have been united in the 1st incident and this one too but all take sides as per their convenience.

Crux of the whole argument if Teja and Devo had supported Shamita and Rashmi there and then when he used objectional words against Shamita then this incident could have been avoided. But Teja and Devo were more interested in putting Shamita down then.. Now when this incident happened anyone like Shamita who has gone through that phase will likely to raise and point out hypocrisy. I think regardless of any rivalry Teja and Devo should have supported Shamita then this could have been avoided

Theres a pattern in Debo which makes me doubt her

Her fight with Shamita about the head in ass thing ..Debo didnt stretch it initially but as soon as Bichule (not sure if i said it right) and Shamita had a tiff ..Debo jumped in with the head in ass issue..

Even last year the fight with Arshi ...she reacted hysterically way after the incident happened ..and calmed down when she threw plates etc and realised she can get kicked out and even Rubina asked why she did not react straight away

I think when she realises she can create an issue of something thats when she goes over board with reaction which obviously seems its done for the show

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Devoleena knew Bichukale was joking. That's why she didn't make a big mudda right then and there. But she was still irritated with him and wanted to make her boundaries clear. Nothing wrong with that. That's how one should deal with things.

If we don't know whether she was enabling him or not, how the hell Shamita, Nishant and Rashami would know that to pass judgement on Devo?

And what's this enabling nonsense anyway? Has Devo kissed Bichukale before? Did she let Bichukale kiss her before? Then what did she enable? And according to your logic, marital rape can be justified because women enable their husbands by having sex, so men get the right to rape them.

Shamita or anyone else wasn't sexually harassed by Bichukale. Those two are completely different scenarios and I already explained it in my original post.

Yes, Teja was blowing things out of proportion but Shamita, Rashami and Nishant were no less by trying to settle scores by jumping in this fight

Shamita Nishant and Rashmi are IN the house that’s how they KNOW she was enabling him.
KARAN SAID THAT SHE WAS KISSING HIM SO WHATS NEW ABOUT KISS ISSUE WHEN RAKHI BROUGHT IT UP.

NO MEANS NO IN MARRIAGE or OTHERWISE.

Shamita Nishant and Rashmi told Bichkule he was WRONG.

Bichkule started small with verbal abuse to Shamita to test his limits and Devoleena showed him he was right. Not only that but she started massaging him as well. So that’s how she enabled him to go further with her.

Again, NO MEANS NO.

BUT IT WAS TEJA WHO WAS LOOKING TO GAIN FROM THE MUDDA. the others were more balanced rather than trying to look like a fake savior if women like Teja.