Blowing things out of proportion. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Shamita Nishant and Rashmi are IN the house that’s how they KNOW she was enabling him.

KARAN SAID THAT SHE WAS KISSING HIM SO WHATS NEW ABOUT KISS ISSUE WHEN RAKHI BROUGHT IT UP.

NO MEANS NO IN MARRIAGE or OTHERWISE.

Shamita Nishant and Rashmi told Bichkule he was WRONG.

Bichkule started small with verbal abuse to Shamita to test his limits and Devoleena showed him he was right. Not only that but she started massaging him as well. So that’s how she enabled him to go further with her.

Again, NO MEANS NO.

BUT IT WAS TEJA WHO WAS LOOKING TO GAIN FROM THE MUDDA. the others were more balanced rather than trying to look like a fake savior if women like Teja.

I've never seen Devoleena kissing Bichukale. It still doesn't matter. Devoleena told him at least five times. That should be enough for him to back off

If you agree that no means no, then you can't blame Devoleena for it like Shamita, Rashami and Nishant were doing. Them living in the house means shit. It's just assumptions from us that they know it.

Shamita, Nishant and Rashami have no right to question Devoleena even if they told Bichukale he was wrong. It's more likely that they knew that Bichukale was on the wrong side, but they were so hell bent on standing against Devo and Teja that they had to find fault on the other side to settle their scores.

Massaging is again not a big deal. Don't know what's "enabling" in that. And the gaali issue, it was Shamita who abused Bichukale first because she misunderstood him using the word "kutiya" for her.

Shamita was wrong there, not Bichukale. Devoleena only supported the right person. And again, VERBAL ABUSE DOES NOT EQUAL TO SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

Theres a pattern in Debo which makes me doubt her

Her fight with Shamita about the head in ass thing ..Debo didnt stretch it initially but as soon as Bichule (not sure if i said it right) and Shamita had a tiff ..Debo jumped in with the head in ass issue..

Even last year the fight with Arshi ...she reacted hysterically way after the incident happened ..and calmed down when she threw plates etc and realised she can get kicked out and even Rubina asked why she did not react straight away

I think when she realises she can create an issue of something thats when she goes over board with reaction which obviously seems its done for the show

Devo jumped in Shamita-Bichukale fight to show Shamita's hypocrisy. If Shamita had no problem with the phrase "head in my ass", then why she has a problem with the word "Kutiya"?

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Devo jumped in Shamita-Bichukale fight to show Shamita's hypocrisy. If Shamita had no problem with the phrase "head in my ass", then why she has a problem with the word "Kutiya"?

Ok what about the other two and many other incidents?! Another one i can think of is when she sorted things out with Rashmi ..and then started again later on (the incident where Rashmi was wear green salwar kameez...

Debo intentionally wants to create drama all the time

As much as I can’t stand Devoleena I find reactions to this incident from everyone shocking. Everyone in the house is busy with making their own point. She didn’t support us so we won’t support her, she enabled him, she reacted too slowly, ......

As a woman with experience in being harassed at workplace. I can personally say that sometimes you go into a shock and in your head play the incident a few times to first make sense of it before realising what happened was wrong. Very wrong! To me it looked like that’s what happened to Devoleena. Why she took sometime to react after it took while for it to register.

Also saying she enabled is so wrong on so many levels. As a friend to comfort someone you care about if you massage their shoulder or press their head isn’t enabling! If this “friend” misconstrues the meaning of it, it’s not your fault.

While I agree with everyone Bichukule should have been warned when he misbehaved with Shamita and not been supported by likes of Devoleena and even Salman he may have not crossed the line again. That’s where Devoleena was wrong. She supported this creep only because she wanted to take a stand opposite of Shamita. Now she loses support from house mates due to her past acions. People aren’t behind her solely because of her past discriminatory behavior.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Devo jumped in Shamita-Bichukale fight to show Shamita's hypocrisy. If Shamita had no problem with the phrase "head in my ass", then why she has a problem with the word "Kutiya"?

Shamita asked Devileena where was her brains, in your ass and Devileena answered no it’s in your ass. So Devileena owned herself and couldn’t digest the fact that she herself proved she is brainless with her comeback. So she piggybacked on Shamita Bichkule issue to save herself and she misrepresented her brain in ass issue. Go see the epi again. She owned herself and then went around telling everyone that Shamita said Devileena’s brain is in in Shamita’s ass whereas Devileena is the one who said it.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Shamita asked Devileena where was her brains, in your ass and Devileena answered no it’s in your ass. So Devileena owned herself and couldn’t digest the fact that she herself proved she is brainless with her comeback. So she piggybacked on Shamita Bichkule issue to save herself and she misrepresented her brain in ass issue. Go see the epi again. She owned herself and then went around telling everyone that Shamita said Devileena’s brain is in in Shamita’s ass whereas Devileena is the one who said it.

Who used the word ass first during the argument?

Shamita Shetty!

If Shamita Shetty has no problem using the word ass which translates as "gand" in Hindi, then why she had a problem with the word "Kutiya"?

That was Devoleena's point. Who used what word or particular phrase is not important.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Who used the word ass first during the argument?

Shamita Shetty!

If Shamita Shetty has no problem using the word ass which translates as "gand" in Hindi, then why she had a problem with the word "Kutiya"?

That was Devoleena's point. Who used what word or particular phrase is not important.

First learn the nuances of English and then get offended

Originally posted by: Picasso9

First learn the nuances of English and then get offended

When people don't have an argument, they start finding faults in grammar and English.😆

English is just a language. No need to be arrogant about it but what can I expect from a Shamita fan.

No I am sorry. You cant compare marital rape or sexual harrasment with this scenario.

Devoleena has all rights to feel uncomfortable but to be honest when you can see a guy is misogynist , treats women badly , is disrespecting women on daily basis then why the f do you side with him? I wont say she enabled him or lead him on - it is complete wrong to say that. What i want to convey is

If j know that this specific guy is wrong and has been doing shit from the past few days with other why wont he do it with me? At that moment itself one should simply maintain distance from such a person. Instead Devoleena protected him when he abused other female contestants.

Sorry no sympathy for Devo.

I am all for women support and feminism but if a woman herself is supporting a woman abuser and misogynist just because of her personal issues with them - then sorry no sympathy for her when that very person is abusing her this time.