Where is the Equal Give & Take Shamita?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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For the numerous 'Equal Give & Take' expectations that Shamita has from Raqesh, I've serious questions about the following:

1) According to Shitty Shammo - Raqesh has to accept her 'As she Is', but she will not flinch to accomodate who Raqesh is, as he is.

Bechara Banda, Raqesh Bapat se popat ban gaya uska national TV pe, Shamita's literally played with his image and identity the first four weeks - but now when Raqesh is beginning to voice himself, say 'No', keep boundaries with respect to expectations, Shammo cannot handle it.

I appreciate Neha for being quite reasonable with Raqesh, mature and never dictating him on what to speak and what not to.

2) Raqesh never speaks to her in a harsh, condescending tone even when he's upset with her. He goes up to her and tells her, what's bothering him. But what's with the tone that Shammo uses with him. Literally what the heck is this?🤢

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How do you justify this behavior on National TV?🤢 Where's the equal give and take, here in terms of the tone used?

This woman is perhaps delusional thinking she's his Wife or something. He's just come out of a divorce and he's told Neha that he 'doesn't even know what it is' that he has with Shamita. Seems like Shammo is already assessing him as Marriage Material.😆

3) Shamita's constant expectation from Raqesh is that - he doesn't talk to Divya. So when Raqesh placed the expectation of her not talking to Pratik, why did she then flip out??!🤣She wanted to control Raqesh and control whom he talked or not talked not, but Raqesh couldn't expect the same from her? How on earth can someone be that hypocritical in the very same breath?! 🤣

For all the time Shitty Shammo, talks of taking a 'stand' for Raqesh - Where is her stand now, when Raqesh has asked her to stop speaking to the Man who insulted him on National TV? The Man who called Shammo's imaginary Husband as 'Spineless' and bashed him left, right, centre on the Man Vs Woman strength topic - where is Shammo's stand and 'loyalty' for him now?

Even when the whole 'Spineless' incident happened 3 weeks ago, it was Karan and Riddhima that fought for Raqesh against Pratik. Not Shammo. Shammo is talking, inviting flirtations from the Man Raqesh despises. Double standards right there again, Shammo.

What's funny is - Pratik threw her on her Ass to the ground and she laughs and praises him.🤓 But Raqesh cannot speak to the girl, who's probably shown him more respect than Shitty Shammo ever has in this entire show put together.

I am glad Raqesh brought that up and trapped her in her own BS! The fact that he's able to see through her double standards, now that the infatuation has worn out is commendable😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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i stan this i honestly want him to now stay far away from shammo

they got back together yesterday but agin had a fight

and shammo was seen telling neha and prateek to stop her from going to him

i hope raq see's through the bullshit and pairs up with div

the way divya encourages him in tasks also never takes his name for nominations

and also genuinely respects him

also shammo has a lot of me i myself

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: djoker

i stan this i honestly want him to now stay far away from shammo

they got back together yesterday but agin had a fight

and shammo was seen telling neha and prateek to stop her from going to him

i hope raq see's through the bullshit and pairs up with div

the way divya encourages him in tasks also never takes his name for nominations

and also genuinely respects him

also shammo has a lot of me i myself

I get where you're coming from. With respect to him pairing with Divya - woh connection / pairing wala time has gone. Now it's all individual games. Yes he talks to her, but he's careful because of Shamita's extreme reactions. It's amazing how Divya supports him quite unconditionally though. When she was doing the semi-finale task with Neha, she was expecting him to only fill the water in Divya's box (so that she goes out soon). She wasn't paying attention when she was on the track. She thought the whole time, he was trying to make Neha win and filling against her.

Yet after the round, when he congratulated her - she hugged him warmly and thanked him with he congrats. It was Muskan that later told Divya in the room, that Raqesh was filling water against Neha too!

It was also so sweet, how she got up and gave him her chair 2 nights ago, when Raqesh came to Muskaan to explain the Man Vs Woman strength jamela. These little little things, make a huge difference in building trust and respect. Men receive love in the form of respect, I believe. Women receive it through hugs, cuddles, gifts from Men - but Men receive love in the form of respect.

Shammo needs to watch her tone with him. Yes Divya encourages him, has no expectations and let's him be himself..

But I don't think he will ever 'pair up' as such with Divya. He likes talking to her, but it takes him huge amount of emotional energy to earn that opportunity to talk to Divya, thanks to Shammo's emotional manipulations and outbursts.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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totally agree with everything you said!!! she is driving him mad!!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: RosesK

totally agree with everything you said!!! she is driving him mad!!!

I am grateful for the sanity I felt watching the LF and episodes in the past 2 days.

They both were just cringe.

Shitty Shamita and Raqesh are MUCH better without each other and it's gotten more

interesting to watch them bond with others!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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totally agree with everything you said!!! she is driving him mad!!!


You guys are so right. I strongly feel if Shamita had not been his connection..Raqesh would have been a different man. She has crushed his confidence. How can one justify that she can be friends with Pratik but Raqesh cannot be friends with Divya. Shamita is now playing with his feelings….has Neha, Prateik and Nishant on her side against Raqesh. Raqesh for his mental being is better off going home.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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that is my biggest problem at the moment, I mean this girl yells screams insults him for even talking about Dee forget talking to her. Yet her friendship, hugging, kissing Pratik is justified?? in what world???

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: RosesK

that is my biggest problem at the moment, I mean this girl yells screams insults him for even talking about Dee forget talking to her. Yet her friendship, hugging, kissing Pratik is justified?? in what world???


Because pratik didnt take her connection in corner in week 1 and started b* ing about her. Her fight with divya has been since week 1.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mz.gigglez


Because pratik didnt take her connection in corner in week 1 and started b* ing about her. Her fight with divya has been since week 1.



& Raq also hasn’t liked Pratik since day one. So, if Raq wants to be friends with Sham the condition is don’t speak to Divya, then the same applies to her with Pratik. Its a 50/50


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Night : He is not my man

Morn:He is confused

Afternoon: He has soft corner for Divya.I don't love him.

Evening: He doesn't take stand

Night : Patch up


So who is confused. Shamita or Raqesh ?

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