About Rashmi and Arhaan one last time - Page 3

Originally posted by: SilentSilver

She was never asked about anything about the relationship prior to the marriage-child revelation, she was questioned more about her infamous house keys. 😆

Yeh actually she was never prepared for this... Not expected to reveal anything.. It was Arhaan who put her in this situation..

I must say she is lucky things got cleared for her from BB and could save herself from Fraud Arhaan

Originally posted by: -PoisonIvy-

This is something i have been saying on every thread related to tge issue since very long.

Rashmi took up the show to help arhan gain visibility. But they mutually decided not to act very lovey dovey as a couple or stay as friends. Although i feel arhaan before entering the show wanted to hype his entry so had articles on him proposing to Rashmi spread. Just guessing from his attention seeking tactics... when he entered, true to what they said they actually did not really behave much as a couple ...i think Rashmi had hoped that Arhaan will be liked without his name being linked to her, any sane woman would... ! When arhaan got evicted very soon after coming out he realised he could have stayed longer had they milked the love angle more and started giving interviews left right and centre about giving the public a love story that they will enjoy so he should be given another chance... when questioned why he is suddenly talking about a love story he said i realised in these two weeks how much i love her...clearly a contrived response to save face... started paid trends to enter once again... as soon as je went in , he did not waste any time and gave her the ring.... if you saw the proposal, Rashmi was again n again gesturing to him through expressions and even words that he should not do it...not infront if everyone....because this is something they had not planned on doing.... but arhaan was desperate for his second stint.... she did not even wear the ring and only kept it with herself... this shows how conflicted Rashmi was with the whole thing unfolding when she had no inkling of what arhaan was upto outside..she did not know what interviews he had given and what he has told about their relationship status...

All this ofcourse im guessing by her few statements to debo and Paras earlier and her dumbfoubded reaction to the proposal.

Yup! Every word in this 💯- Ditto, what i‘m aware and gathered as well!

Originally posted by: bee5

#6 is very important for #5!

Totally totally it was Salman’s doing.
It was very clear , Salman was leaning towards and making Rashmi accept Arhaan’s mistake, forgive and move forward.

We also need to know that these people who are inside, have no clue which of their conversations go out, how it looks from the other side of the camera, how it gets interpreted.

Now, Rashmi cannot tell Salman, bcos of you, i forgave Arhaan.
She had to thread her path carefully and when Salman was subtly giving her advise to move forward, she just did that and that acceptance in front of camera after “48 hrs”.

People who now judge, is not in Rashmi’s place. And it is also easy to make comments now, in retrospective. Not when you are that person, not when you have no clue what is the whole truth.

Don’t see anything she did was wrong, nor that fumbled, or that she got entangled in the explanations or whatever.

Rashmi tried to do her best!
Kudos to her for handling herself with utmost dignity 👏

Oh, THANK YOU !!

When Salman was telling her this, I was like WTF .

I think when Rashmi told Salman she wants to quit and go out, he sort of realized the channel will be in a fix and everything will backfire on them...i don't know what part of his conversation with Rashmi was him and what part was the channel...but he obviously did not expect Rashmi to want to leave the show... !

For Rashmi whose father is no more and having no one in her life to guide her through ( she mentioned in an unseen to vishal that shes never had a father figure or someone she can look upto ) , Salmans words made an impact on her who is otherwise very clueless about relationships and even friendships as can ve seen in this very show...

After the next revelation about arhaan bragging about making Rashmi Desai who she is, Salman again told her...." it all looked very bad and i would advise you to think very strongly before you take it forward " after all her friends warning her the whole week... she again took that suggestion very seriously...

This is what happens when unfortunately you lack a proper support system in life... you listen to too many unimportant people and start takinf decision based on what they say.. the whole thing that could have been over in the start turned into one big mess thanks to the channels constant need to poke her on this...

Originally posted by: Sunflowerangel

I m really so bored with the way people are making a big deal out of everything. So 1 last time I wanted to put across my pov on what happend between them in BB.

1) Rashmi signed BB with a condition to get Arhaan in BB. I don't see anything wrong in this as friends refer each other for work.

2) They did not plan for any unnecessary ott romance. We saw they were very decent.

3)he proposed she accepted.

4)salman exposed arhaan. Rashmi accepted she knew about marriage but not child. Now the reason why she did so, although she did not know about the marriage was simple. She protected him. Now when Salman asked aapko Pata hai she used the word 'marriage' . Reason was she looked at Arhaan n remembered the whole astrologer thing which he happily denied. That's how she could relate and use word marriage.

5) after 48 hrs of talking to him she was ready to forgive him give him a chance. I don't see anything wrong. It's her decesion. She is emotional about him.

6) I want to put one more strong reason why she forgave him. She respects Salman a lot. Salman came in the house to sort out things. If we remember he clearly told her, yes Arhaan lied he was wrong but if he has done so much for you there's nothing wrong in giving him a chance if you want to. So yes she wanted to give a chance and also took Salman suggestions and confessed love for him. Again her life nothing wrong.

7) again next wkv one more drama about house keys, arhaan misusing her, guests coming, her brother showing mirror etc. Then Vikas gupts entered n convinced she should take a break. She was worried n told arhaan she needs a break. Let's go out n settle.

8)Arhan left. Fast forward connections week. Himanshi got worried for her brother bitched about her. That's when her Fuse blew and she told that she dint know either marriage or child which is true. She was furious that he was crying behind her back and she protected him for no reason. She decided to put a full stop.

Now where is the lie. It's a simple case of betrayal, trust in relation gone wrong.

I'm glad she realized and took a stand.

Rashmi has not lied.

She doesn't have to lie. She is not that needy for fame.

I agree to most of it but some clarification.

She didn't refer Arhaan. Arhaan was offered show one month before she was offered. It's just that this time she agreed to do it bcz Arhaan was already in it.

Rashami is way too gullible and in turn has opened herself to a world of doubt on her and Arhaan.

Saying you know about marriage and lying about that in the first place was a huge blunder. She should have said I don't know shit and then if she was fine with him in the game it is another scene. She should know BB is edited, they won't show before or after convos with her and Arhaan which explain this further. Now its always gonna be her word against his (like his is very strong ) but i just feel this was a major blunder on her part. Then her saying she will sort everything for him so defiantly and she will defend him, its a huge mess. I wish she never met this guy.

Originally posted by: Sunflowerangel

Exactly Rashmi could not say that loud in front of Rajat what Salman advised her.

So the makers have really played to either generate trp or use this as a topic they could pull more often in many wkvs to generate trp plus pull Rashmi down.

She is no doubt a rock solid woman. Hats off to her. She is living in between people who set a trap for her.

It is also true that, Asim insisted on that.

When i was watching that, i felt, why is Asim asking them for this?

Then I assumed, either BB Creatives have used Asim to get this confession on camera, or Asim is missing Himanshi? If i’m not wrong, Himanshi was eliminated a few days back?

Rashmi wasn’t very comfortable doing that confession thing, but she forced herself to go with the flow.

A lot of times, Rashmi doesn’t speak, but can read the unsaid in her eyes. It was forced from her side, she wasn’t in it 💯, but she kind of told herself, this is for the best & nothing wrong in doing this, when this is eventually what she has to do after going out of BB.

Salman played a big role in how she did her thinking in those moments/days, which now are blown so much more.

It is easy to think back ... not when you are doing.

In any case, Rashmi handled this as best as she could without going in to every minute details. The best thing was her not disrespecting Arhaan or their relationship. May be Arhaan don't deserve the respect or protection but it is still kind of her to do that. Seeing her personality on the show, she does forgive people easily. So sad for someone who struggled so much to run into another failed relationship.

If people think this was all a drama and she is lying (may be a little), think about it. She had a perfect chance to create the drama and run with sympathy till finale.

Originally posted by: bee5

Totally totally it was Salman’s doing.
It was very clear , Salman was leaning towards and making Rashmi accept Arhaan’s mistake, forgive and move forward.

THIS.

I was so weirded out by how Salman spoke as if it was not a great deal. I believe that the channel also wanted to have Rashmi's wedding on the show and kept trying for it, but thankfully could not convince her.

Originally posted by: SilentSilver

THIS.

I was so weirded out by how Salman spoke as if it was not a great deal. I believe that the channel also wanted to have Rashmi's wedding on the show and kept trying for it, but thankfully could not convince her.

Agree, i was shocked when I noticed what Salman was doing.

Arti went ballistic right away when Salman revealed about the child & I expected Salman to give similar earful to Arhaan face-to-face.

But his tone from the moment he entered inside the house, was soft and it looked like he was speaking on behalf of Arhaan.

Who knew then it will all come back to bite Rashmi and people not just questioning her, but not even wanting to understand everything in its entirety :(

That day when Rashmi said, why do i have to live anymore, what should i look forward to anyway, it was so heartbreaking.

Look at the amount of scrutiny she has to go through compared to others! Just unfair!!

Originally posted by: bee5

Agree, i was shocked when I noticed what Salman was doing.

Arti went ballistic right away when Salman revealed about the child & I expected Salman to give similar earful to Arhaan face-to-face.

But his tone from the moment he entered inside the house, was soft and it looked like he was speaking on behalf of Arhaan.

Who knew then it will all come back to bite Rashmi and people not just questioning her, but not even wanting to understand everything in its entirety :(

That day when Rashmi said, why do i have to live anymore, what should i look forward to anyway, it was so heartbreaking.

Look at the amount of scrutiny she has to go through compared to others! Just unfair!!

Salman was speaking on the lines of 'everybody makes mistakes' and shit like that, which was so absurd. I do not like Aarti, at all, but that day her reaction was the one that made the most sense to me.

Goodness I know,. Her conversation with Aarti before the family visits just broke my heart. I just hope she gets the support she needs outside to deal with such situations.