About Rashmi and Arhaan one last time - Page 2

Originally posted by: MUNNII

But initially she admitted before Debo that Arhaan is her friend right?

Even Arhaan said same to Mahira

Yeah both of them denied being a relationship early on. But I do not see a major issue in that as a lot of celebrities do not divulge their actual relationship status. As per my understanding, they were dating for sometime, and boosting Arhaan's career was one of the major reasons she signed this show this time. They had probably planned for a 'friends-to-couple' showmance in the show as well. However, then Arhaan got evicted within a week and became really desperate to come back. Hence, the cringy interviews about the proposals and marriage, etc. So Arhaan came back, proposed to her and even planned for a marriage inside the house for a longer stay, without even consulting her.

Originally posted by: Sunflowerangel

I m sorry but I don't understand. So you expect her to come and tell everyone whom she is dating. It's for her to decide. I don't see other contestants talk about thier personal stuff, thier past affairs or even present.

This is happend in all seasons.

We dint even know manveer gurjar was married. He was winner.

Why is she questioned??

You should ask BB for showing us this confused scenario .

My question is based on what i have seen in BB..

Originally posted by: SilentSilver

Yeah both of them denied being a relationship early on. But I do not see a major issue in that as a lot of celebrities do not divulge their actual relationship status. As per my understanding, they were dating for sometime, and boosting Arhaan's career was one of the major reasons she signed this show this time. They had probably planned for a 'friends-to-couple' showmance in the show as well. However, then Arhaan got evicted within a week and became really desperate to come back. Hence, the cringy interviews about the proposals and marriage, etc. So Arhaan came back, proposed to her and even planned for a marriage inside the house for a longer stay, without even consulting her.

This POV I can agree with you.. But this clarity is not given by Rashmi herself.

Originally posted by: MUNNII

You should ask BB for showing us this confused scenario .

My question is based on what i have seen in BB..

Absolutely it's the makers who have played a huge game of thier own for trp sake.

I m not saying Rashmi is abla naari. But she is not a liar.

She is definitely emotional.

Originally posted by: MUNNII

This POV I can agree with you.. But this clarity is not given by Rashmi herself.

She was never asked about anything about the relationship prior to the marriage-child revelation, she was questioned more about her infamous house keys. 😆

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

My opinion in this matter is that Rashmi and Arhan both are lying... Arhan's girlfriend or whoever she was ruined this whole set up for them.... I just don't believe that she is in love with someone and she neglected the point of his uncle telling her that he is married with a child... After coming to know about it from Salman... What more confirmation she needed if his uncle already told her... Then she proposed or confessed her love for him within 48 hours (She cunningly blamed Asim for this 🙏).....someone who has been in industry and living on her won since she was 15 can not be this naive, these people have to grow up earlier than their age...

But then my opinion doesn't matter, it's her life and she can do anything she wants

Exactly..this is my opinion too. If she wanted to marry Arhaan and his uncle had already planted a seed of doubt about his marriage and kid which Salman also confirmed, who in their right mind would propose the very next day.

Did you notice, when Salman was asking her if she knew things about Arhaan, her first words were 'Marriage'?..this was her reflex action which happens automatically without thinking.

Originally posted by: Dedhshani

Exactly..this is my opinion too. If she wanted to marry Arhaan and his uncle had already planted a seed of doubt about his marriage and kid which Salman also confirmed, who in their right mind would propose the very next day.

Did you notice, when Salman was asking her if she knew things about Arhaan, her first words were 'Marriage'?..this was her reflex action which happens automatically without thinking.

Please read my post. Point 4,5,6 explains everything you are asking.

Originally posted by: Sunflowerangel

I m really so bored with the way people are making a big deal out of everything. So 1 last time I wanted to put across my pov on what happend between them in BB.

1) Rashmi signed BB with a condition to get Arhaan in BB. I don't see anything wrong in this as friends refer each other for work.

2) They did not plan for any unnecessary ott romance. We saw they were very decent.

3)he proposed she accepted.

4)salman exposed arhaan. Rashmi accepted she knew about marriage but not child. Now the reason why she did so, although she did not know about the marriage was simple. She protected him. Now when Salman asked aapko Pata hai she used the word 'marriage' . Reason was she looked at Arhaan n remembered the whole astrologer thing which he happily denied. That's how she could relate and use word marriage.

5) after 48 hrs of talking to him she was ready to forgive him give him a chance. I don't see anything wrong. It's her decesion. She is emotional about him.

6) I want to put one more strong reason why she forgave him. She respects Salman a lot. Salman came in the house to sort out things. If we remember he clearly told her, yes Arhaan lied he was wrong but if he has done so much for you there's nothing wrong in giving him a chance if you want to. So yes she wanted to give a chance and also took Salman suggestions and confessed love for him. Again her life nothing wrong.

7) again next wkv one more drama about house keys, arhaan misusing her, guests coming, her brother showing mirror etc. Then Vikas gupts entered n convinced she should take a break. She was worried n told arhaan she needs a break. Let's go out n settle.

8)Arhan left. Fast forward connections week. Himanshi got worried for her brother bitched about her. That's when her Fuse blew and she told that she dint know either marriage or child which is true. She was furious that he was crying behind her back and she protected him for no reason. She decided to put a full stop.

Now where is the lie. It's a simple case of betrayal, trust in relation gone wrong.

I'm glad she realized and took a stand.

Rashmi has not lied.

She doesn't have to lie. She is not that needy for fame.

#6 is very important for #5!

Totally totally it was Salman’s doing.
It was very clear , Salman was leaning towards and making Rashmi accept Arhaan’s mistake, forgive and move forward.

We also need to know that these people who are inside, have no clue which of their conversations go out, how it looks from the other side of the camera, how it gets interpreted.

Now, Rashmi cannot tell Salman, bcos of you, i forgave Arhaan.
She had to thread her path carefully and when Salman was subtly giving her advise to move forward, she just did that and that acceptance in front of camera after “48 hrs”.

People who now judge, is not in Rashmi’s place. And it is also easy to make comments now, in retrospective. Not when you are that person, not when you have no clue what is the whole truth.

Don’t see anything she did was wrong, nor that fumbled, or that she got entangled in the explanations or whatever.

Rashmi tried to do her best!
Kudos to her for handling herself with utmost dignity 👏

Originally posted by: MUNNII

But initially she admitted before Debo that Arhaan is her friend right?

Even Arhaan said same to Mahira

This is something i have been saying on every thread related to tge issue since very long.

Rashmi took up the show to help arhan gain visibility. But they mutually decided not to act very lovey dovey as a couple or stay as friends. Although i feel arhaan before entering the show wanted to hype his entry so had articles on him proposing to Rashmi spread. Just guessing from his attention seeking tactics... when he entered, true to what they said they actually did not really behave much as a couple ...i think Rashmi had hoped that Arhaan will be liked without his name being linked to her, any sane woman would... ! When arhaan got evicted very soon after coming out he realised he could have stayed longer had they milked the love angle more and started giving interviews left right and centre about giving the public a love story that they will enjoy so he should be given another chance... when questioned why he is suddenly talking about a love story he said i realised in these two weeks how much i love her...clearly a contrived response to save face... started paid trends to enter once again... as soon as je went in , he did not waste any time and gave her the ring.... if you saw the proposal, Rashmi was again n again gesturing to him through expressions and even words that he should not do it...not infront if everyone....because this is something they had not planned on doing.... but arhaan was desperate for his second stint.... she did not even wear the ring and only kept it with herself... this shows how conflicted Rashmi was with the whole thing unfolding when she had no inkling of what arhaan was upto outside..she did not know what interviews he had given and what he has told about their relationship status...

All this ofcourse im guessing by her few statements to debo and Paras earlier and her dumbfoubded reaction to the proposal.

Originally posted by: bee5

#6 is very important for #5!

Totally totally it was Salman’s doing.
It was very clear , Salman was leaning towards and making Rashmi accept Arhaan’s mistake, forgive and move forward.

We also need to know that these people who are inside, have no clue which of their conversations go out, how it looks from the other side of the camera, how it gets interpreted.

Now, Rashmi cannot tell Salman, bcos of you, i forgave Arhaan.
She had to thread her path carefully and when Salman was subtly giving her advise to move forward, she just did that and that acceptance in front of camera after “48 hrs”.

People who now judge, is not in Rashmi’s place. And it is also easy to make comments now, in retrospective. Not when you are that person, not when you have no clue what is the whole truth.

Don’t see anything she did was wrong, nor that fumbled, or that she got entangled in the explanations or whatever.

Rashmi tried to do her best!
Kudos to her for handling herself with utmost dignity 👏

Exactly Rashmi could not say that loud in front of Rajat what Salman advised her.

So the makers have really played to either generate trp or use this as a topic they could pull more often in many wkvs to generate trp plus pull Rashmi down.

She is no doubt a rock solid woman. Hats off to her. She is living in between people who set a trap for her.