Asim STILL is a good friend to Rashami!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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So we all saw the conversation yesterday where Himanshi is talking about Rashami to Vishal and Asim. I see a lot of people strongly bashing Asim for it and that surprises me on several levels. First it is VERY apparent that Himanshi is trying to manipulate him (she respects Umar’s wishes when he told her not to confess but not when he told her to not affect the ViRaSim bond) and I hate that Asim fell for it. He did try to stop the conversation initially but here he is sitting with someone who is sent in as a connection to advice him and whom he loves, adores and trusts completely (how I wish that wasn’t the case!). Vishal too is a good friend and hence it is not like he is listen ining to people who have bad intent for Rashami bitching her out. These three ViRaSim might share a bond and of course they are bound to have some doubts about some of the things that they do and here we saw that. They are bound to feel something when they feel like they aren’t being supported the way they want to be. I love Asim so I really wish that he wasn’t manipulated into doing that but it is clearly not as bad as the stans are making it out to be!. I am sure Rashami too has doubts about Asim and Vishal and of Devo was a bad connection like someone else and told her something maybe we would have heard it and that would have been ok! Because friends have doubts but that does not make their entire friendship void.
another thing people question is why Asim likes Vishal as apparently Vishal has done ‘nothing’ for Asim. Sometimes you just bond with someone and don’t need them to do anything. To suggest that we should only love those people who do something for us is rather silly. They clearly have a great brotherly bond.


You hail Devo as Rashami’s one true friend but she has gone against Rashami numerous times during the game, involved in strategizing against her and even flirted openly with someone who openly mistreats her. She came outside and often tweeted against her and her last visit she insinuated that she is faking this entire angle with Arhaan. She is given a clean pass now but Asim can’t be a true friend who just voiced a doubt only once but still always staunchly supports her. Why the double standard?

Asim holding that opinion does not mean he does not care for Rashami or will not stand for her and be her friend. It does not nullify his concern and friendship for her and I am shocked to see some people declare things as so black and white. Shades of grey, my friends!. Life doesn’t work like that. Rashami too said Asim pushed first ad I expect maturity from you Shukla kinda insinuating to someone who hates and bullies Asim that she doesn’t expect the same from him. But afterwards we saw her concern and friendship for Asim so it wasn’t like that and friends have ups and downs but the downs don’t nullify the love and support. That one moment should not lead to Asim’s friendship being labeled as dikhaawa as we need to grow up people! Let’s rise above over reactions and hyperbole

I love Asim so much and want him to win. I also really like Rashami and respect her. And I really really want Colors to stop giving so much screen time to Himanshi when we clearly tune in for other people!. If we wanted her there, we wouldn’t have voted her out. But I get it they paid big bucks for her and want to get their money’s worth.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Bang on post 💯. Thanks for posting this😊

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Thank you that was strong and much needed !


Whatever people are saying here that he back bitched he did not he just put forth his opinions which he has already questioned with rash about what in her mind regarding Sid .

If People would rather have her friends with Shukla then please be my guest

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..WitchGrave..

Thank you that was strong and much needed !


Whatever people are saying here that he back bitched he did not he just put forth his opinions which he has already questioned with rash about what in her mind regarding Sid .

If People would rather have her friends with Shukla then please be my guest

Yes if people cannot see how much this alliance has supported and boosted Rashami too then I don’t know what to say. Asim can’t have an opinion about something?. I am sure Vishal too does things that irk him and he given the chance he will speak about those too. I understand fans getting angry because I would have done the same in their position but where I think they are unjustified is them saying everything Adil does with Rashami is fake now. Are you kidding me? He can’t have one doubt or opinion but still love his friend?. Also he has already indicated this to Rashami that this aspect confuses/irks him.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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This was a one time thing and it wasn't a big thing either. Asim stood up for Rashmi many times. They both seem to care for each other genuinely. I am willing to overlook this and continue to trust Asim. We will see if things change in the next week.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Umar thanked Rashmi . Asim isnt gonna break his bond with her so easily

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Much needed post !

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Yes ! I have seen many declaring Asim as a back stabber, a fake friend and so many other things and I feel it's nothing but making a mountain out of a molehill!


Rashmi herself kept mum when Arti was bitching about Asim in front of her

She herself changed her statement during the horse task.

First she herself went to Shukla and showed her concerned towards him ! This is AFTER Shukla had a huge fight with Asim where he pushed him and abused his father!

Rashmi went upto him and told Shukla that he needs to be careful and AGREED that Asim pushed first !

Later on, on the same day he changed her statement in front of Asim !


I don't think a HUGE issue was created that point!

Rashmi still is Asim's good friend and they keep giving each other support and good advices as well


Yesterday also Asim FIRST told Himanshi to not talk about Arhaan - Rashmi but she insisted!

Then Vishal agreed with her !


Asim did say that Rashmi changes her statements which isn't entirely wrong!

He FURTHER said that EVERYONE IS PLAYING A GAME HERE !

Which again is true

All of them including Asim, Shukla, Rashmi , Sana etc are here to win the game!


Rashmi - Asim are still friends !

Asim was with 2 people who he is close with....He has a very natural bond with Vishal while he loves Himanshi....he trusts them so if they are saying something and are on the same page Asim is bound to listen ! Yet he told them that everyone is playing here


Also Himanshi at times confuses me ...at times I like her and at times I don't so I will reserve my judgement on her


So, all in all Asim didn't do anything drastic for people to call him backstabber and a fake friend and like u said he is still Rashmi's friend

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Only two weeks are left... Asim and Rashmi both have done enough for each other in the game.... Fans want their respective favorites to be in top 2...Asim is not here to play for Rashmi.... If he had to go against her, he would have when Parag and Jariwala tried to steer him against Rashmi and Vishal... He laughed it out and showed his support for Rashmi.... He stood for Rashmi and Vishal's entry in elite club... He was pushed by Sid and had to face abuses by everyone in his team... He was all alone there.... I didn't expect Rashmi to join in and fight for him.... Same goes in WKV when Asim was defending himself all alone where Shukla had 4 people speaking for him.... Again, I didn't expect Rashmi to support Asim because Asim is very much capable of taking a stand for himself....

Rashmi sat there when Arti called Asim the most inhumane person in the house.... I did expect her to tell Asim that he is inhumane....


Asim stopped Himanshi from talking about it... Now, Himanshi is obviously more important to him than Rashmi, because this alliance with Rashmi is not likely to turn into chadhi-buddy wala friendship... They will go their separate ways after bigg boss but Asim wants to live his life with Himanshi for some reason unknown to me 🤦‍♀️..... Asim didn't even agree to anything, which he already hasn't told Rashmi on her face....


Friendship doesn't mean "My friend is epitome of perfection".... Friendship means accepting people for who and what they are and standing with them..... Which Asim is doing again to make Rashmi win the task... Which will actually help Rashmi in the game 🙄

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Posted: 5 years ago
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A much needed post 👏👏

If one small mistake nd you are labled as backstaber forgetting neumors times youve stood there for ur friend then idk what friendship is.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Fandoms are dramatic, all of them are. 😆 The fact that this scene was shown in the same episode as the Rashmi HK conversation happened just made the matter look worse than it actually was. I personally was kinda annoyed with Asim for a while as well yesterday, but I cannot disregard his friendship for this petty incident. I mostly have problems with HK bringing in the Arhaan nonsense anyway.

Both Asim and Rashmi have been good friends for each other, and with just two weeks left, I do hope that they continue to be the same.

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