How strong women let emotions become their weakness

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I felt really bad for Shehnaaz today. However childish she acts, she has a very strong personality and a vibrant screen presence.


Shukla has been obnoxious from the start, but Shehnaaz stood with him like a rock. It is so ironic that she is known as a flipper, but truthfully, when it came to Shukla, she never backed down. The only time she flipped is when it was about others in the group, whom she had no reason to care about, which is totally fine.


It was sad watching her emotionally break down today. This is what happens when you emotions get the best of you.


This is a classic example of emotional abuse, Shukla has always been very passive aggressive towards her. Trademark narcissistic behavior. How you may ask? Whenever she has taken a stand for someone he dislikes, he has always made her feel like she is stupid. Shehnaaz letting emotions take control of her, strives for his validation. Once he is satisfied with the consolation she provides, he lets her breathe easy, lets her get comfortable and he strikes again.


WTH?


He also made some very personal remarks to her, about not being sagaa to her own parents. How dare he? That to, to someone who has been by your side when nobody else was? Who talks like that? His intention was to hurt her on purpose, so that she has an emotional breakdown.


He NEVER saved Sana whenever he had the chance. It is not even about saving. A lot of times, we do things for loved ones simply with the intention of making them feel happy.


I really feel Shukla purposely chose this timing because its close to the finale and he realized now that Shehnaaz can be a serious competition to him.



I really want her to give him the taste of his own medicine. If she can stand by you, she can also be your ruin. She should have walked away long back, but koi nahi. Still not too late. I want her to make his journey hell now.


I felt like Asim was the only one who could actually understood what Sana was going through, because this is the exact thing Shukla did to him. The feeling of not being valued or respected by someone you care about is painful.


She should have seen this coming, but even headstrong people can care about people. Ofcourse, when the very same people backstab you, you should fight back.


Sana should be a badass bit** now. I want her to give him hell.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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No strong woman would ever resort to showmance for a reality show.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: InspectorShirke

No strong woman would ever resort to showmance for a reality show.


See I get what you mean, but Sana's biggest weapon was being unpredictable, which I think she used it quite well. It was only when it came to Shukla, that her true personality went down the drain, which is sad.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Well said, completely agree!

But if she flipped to Asims side then Shukla will definately raise his hands on Asim and u know what she should do it. If shukla can make her jealous by sitting with her enemies then so can she!

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Originally posted by: Desi-Videsi

Well said, completely agree!

But if she flipped to Asims side then Shukla will definately raise his hands on Asim and u know what she should do it. If shukla can make her jealous by sitting with her enemies then so can she!


I swear! She should make his life hell now

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I have not watched today's episode nor do I want to- Mahira and Sid both are enough to ruin my viewing experience.


I think the expectation from Sid for Sana is that she should walk off quietly into the sunset but I also hope that Sana makes life miserable for this miserable excuse of a human being.


However Sana may yet forgive and forget -she is that kind of weird and it's not like she can completely avoid him.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: dahibhalle

I have not watched today's episode nor do I want to- Mahira and Sid both are enough to ruin my viewing experience.


I think the expectation from Sid for Sana is that she should walk off quietly into the sunset but I also hope that Sana makes life miserable for this miserable excuse of a human being.


However Sana may yet forgive and forget -she is that kind of weird and it's not like she can completely avoid him.


Wishful thinking I say. I want her to finish her journey in style. Aise ro dho ke barbaad kardegi nahi toh.


She is capable of making him suffer because even she knows how to push his buttons. He has always under-estimated her.


On a side note, do watch it! Mahira madam got a taste of her own medicine, bada mazaa aaya 🤣

Edited by .FemmeFatale. - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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I haven't watched the episode yet, but saw the snippets on social media. Can't believe he went so below the belt for a person who stood by him through thick and thin.


What a disgusting human to make a comment about Sana's personal life that she may have shared with him in confidence!


I want Sana to rise from the situation and emerge stronger.


She's capable of doing that - hopefully she can keep aside her emotions and take him on. He needs to understand the power of a strong woman who he has treated shabbily throughout.


If she hits back at the bully, I'll cheer for her - that will be poetic justice.

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Originally posted by: Grebn

It's funny because she doesn't even need Shukla to be popular. She should be able to understand that she's top 4 material in the show on her own.


Sana, Stop going back to Shukla every time he humiliaties, and character shames you!


It's pretty telling that when Sana had a mental breakdown because of Shukla in the past, it was Asim the one to console her and Shukla was smirking. Yet for some damn reason some Sana fans bash Asim, and still support Shukla. Weirdos!


I completely second that. She should show him the middle finger and never look back!

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Originally posted by: girlie_giggles

I haven't watched the episode yet, but saw the snippets on social media. Can't believe he went so below the belt for a person who stood by him through thick and thin.


What a disgusting human to make a comment about Sana's personal life that she may have shared with him in confidence!


I want Sana to rise from the situation and emerge stronger.


She's capable of doing that - hopefully she can keep aside her emotions and take him on. He needs to understand the power of a strong woman who he has treated shabbily throughout.


If she hits back at the bully, I'll cheer for her - that will be poetic justice.

Tathastu tathastu! 😆

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