My thoughts on Rashmi, Asim and Vishal - Page 3

Vishal's initial friends in the house were pahira so i wont question their equation neither question vishal's soft spot for dem and vice versa!

Coming to rashmi and Asim, he himself said he is attached to Asim and Asim is his only connection! This simply means he have come to appreciate asim as a friend!

About Rashmi, him not considering her friend isnt that bad! It simply means, for him, she is a good acquintance or colleague and he have respect for her! She did him favors and if time comes, he too will do same!

Sana tried to turned him against rashmi, he silently listened and after sometime was chilling wid rashmi!

Rashmi does consider him a friend but it doesnt obligate that vishal should return same feelings!

I am saying this from personal experience! There are many classmates from school and college who will tell they consider me a friend but i dont return the feeling! I respect them and appreciate them for their love and do watever is in my power to make dem happy and not hurt their feelings! Its just that for me meaning of friend runs deep and i can count my friends on one hand. I have around only 10 friends from real world and online world 🤷 but there are many people whose company i enjoy, i respect them, adore them and will do anything for them just cos they consider me a friend - a small thing i cud do🤷 but they are not my friends!

I hope it was not confusing😆

You might be right but what is saw was vishal was listening to everybody's opinion as his mind was not at the right place to think logically

Paras openly talked about the penalty, Rashmi didn't; prolly that's why

When Paras said she's using everyone & all Vishal said I agree with you on 2-3 things said about Rashmi.

And I've seen Vishal coming off rude to Rashmi few a times even after they came together in a group. Even yesterday he shouted at Rashmi unnecessarily!

Would also like to add that I felt Rashmi didn't want to openly talk about the clause (She is being cautious of her words after the cameraman comment), but she wanted Vishal to stay.

I noticed this too but avoided writing it in another thread as I'm Pahira fan and so I thought only I noticed it. But looks like others noticed it too.

Asim was trying to hold his hand too but Vishal kept leaving it. Rasim were talking in an emotional way. But I think he was listening to Paras more because Paras know more about reality shows and legal terms so maybe he was more interested in that.

But he was fine with Rasim when all three were sitting together on the bed.

Originally posted by: peeyara

Vishal's initial friends in the house were pahira so i wont question their equation neither question vishal's soft spot for dem and vice versa!

Coming to rashmi and Asim, he himself said he is attached to Asim and Asim is his only connection! This simply means he have come to appreciate asim as a friend!

About Rashmi, him not considering her friend isnt that bad! It simply means, for him, she is a good acquintance or colleague and he have respect for her! She did him favors and if time comes, he too will do same!

Sana tried to turned him against rashmi, he silently listened and after sometime was chilling wid rashmi!

Rashmi does consider him a friend but it doesnt obligate that vishal should return same feelings!

I am saying this from personal experience! There are many classmates from school and college who will tell they consider me a friend but i dont return the feeling! I respect them and appreciate them for their love and do watever is in my power to make dem happy and not hurt their feelings! Its just that for me meaning of friend runs deep and i can count my friends on one hand. I have around only 10 friends from real world and online world 🤷 but there are many people whose company i enjoy, i respect them, adore them and will do anything for them just cos they consider me a friend - a small thing i cud do🤷 but they are not my friends!

I hope it was not confusing😆

Agree he need not be obligated to reciprocate the same feeling. That's OK. But my point was if he considers Asim and rashmi as people who are his acquaintance, even then I observed he ignored them and was rude yesterday. And this behavior was not only with Rashmi but also Asim.

So my opinion Asim and rashmi should not invest their time and emotions in Vishal. I think he has certain image of people which is hard for him to change.

Not to judge him. I get it that it's BB but really Pahira over Rasim?

Originally posted by: Sunflowerangel

Today when vishal n madhu had a fight, BB gathered them in the living room and gave a decision of jail for both.

Vishal decided to not take that punishment and asked to quit. Rashmi and Asim tried pacifing and explaining a lot.

I appreciate that paras mahira were genuinely concerned and also told him not to do so.

But my observation Vishal was listening keenly to paras mahira rather than Rashmi Asim. Rashmi requested BB for sometime.

I noticed that he chose to walk near smoke area to inform paras mahira that he wants to quit. Again after he finally decided to go in jail, that too because Rashmi Asim kept saying please don't do he was still looking at paras mahira for I don't know their opinion or whatever.

He was in jail, was talking to paras, even Rashmi Asim were again trying to calm him. But looked like he was more interested talking to paras. I saw him ignore Rashmi a few times.

Now my concern, if he does not like Rashmi.. (I m saying only Rashmi as this was his statement to paras that his bonding is only with Asim) then shouldn't he tell Asim that I m only comfortable with you. And also to Rashmi that I m not comfortable with you.

Why is he hanging out with Rashmi?

Rashmi was really feeling bad for him.

She is better off without Vishal. These are my thoughts.

Any opinions?

PS: I did feel bad for vishal for the horrible bashing he got from Madhurima.

I agree with you. Vishaal cant make up his mind on Rashmi so from Rashmi's POV he cant be trusted. Clearly she doesnt understand that. Vishal gets along better with Pahira because theyre childish and upbeat like him. Rashmi is very didi-like with Vishal and with pretty much everyone. Vishal has a lot of energy which Pahira entertain and appreciate fully better than Rashmi does. So i guess thats why he leans towards them . And he probably doesnt like Rashmi's friendship with Madhurima.

I blame Rashmi for not telling Madhurima what a rude **** she is. The behenji comment was uncalled for and Rashmi should have told her that.

I get why people think Rashmi was faking it when she cried as vishal was about to quit. For one..crying all the time is a bit strange..secondly i guess people dont get what was so overwhelming for Rashmi about vishal's decision to quit. I get it ..she was upset that Vishal's pride was hurt so badly that he was forced to decide to quit..she was in his shoes a few weeks ago during the aisi larki fiasco

Originally posted by: Sunflowerangel

Today when vishal n madhu had a fight, BB gathered them in the living room and gave a decision of jail for both.

Vishal decided to not take that punishment and asked to quit. Rashmi and Asim tried pacifing and explaining a lot.

I appreciate that paras mahira were genuinely concerned and also told him not to do so.

But my observation Vishal was listening keenly to paras mahira rather than Rashmi Asim. Rashmi requested BB for sometime.

I noticed that he chose to walk near smoke area to inform paras mahira that he wants to quit. Again after he finally decided to go in jail, that too because Rashmi Asim kept saying please don't do he was still looking at paras mahira for I don't know their opinion or whatever.

He was in jail, was talking to paras, even Rashmi Asim were again trying to calm him. But looked like he was more interested talking to paras. I saw him ignore Rashmi a few times.

Now my concern, if he does not like Rashmi.. (I m saying only Rashmi as this was his statement to paras that his bonding is only with Asim) then shouldn't he tell Asim that I m only comfortable with you. And also to Rashmi that I m not comfortable with you.

Why is he hanging out with Rashmi?

Rashmi was really feeling bad for him.

She is better off without Vishal. These are my thoughts.

Any opinions?

PS: I did feel bad for vishal for the horrible bashing he got from Madhurima.

Vishal ka problem ye hai ki Rashmi is friends with madhu from outside, hence he doesn't fully trust Rashmi.