I understand his frustration on Surbhi but saying your tissues were nothing was kinda u know n regarding he nominated himself for Dipika but saying even she wouldn't have done it, was mean as help karne baad bolna u see maine Kiya wo bhi na kare shows arrogance n he may not know Gauhar but Gauhar has fans n being rude to her also showed arrogance. Gauhar wanted to test the bond n he failed in it.
Surbhi ke saath toh he was totally pissed off. One cannot deny even after all her provocation n all he helped her many times. This time uska sabr toot gaya tha.Yes, I agree he was arrogant. Mainly, he was angry with Dipika bcoz she did that task of Romil. So he did not wanted to ask her. He is fiercely loyal n expects the same from his near n dear ones. N then Gauahar did try to poke him by saying that shows us ur gameAfter there was no way he was going to DO that task.