Was Romil's act appropriate or indecent?

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abhilasha_dream

@abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 6 years ago

#41

I am amazed at the different way a simple situation can be perceived.

A person's simple conversation and action is twisted and put across in so many variations of human emotions that I get amazed.

Dipika went into changing room to help her friend. (By the way there were few other people too like Shiv ashish who were helping Sree to change) and then Dipak also walked in to watch Romil change his lowers. 😆

Romil who was already present from before changed his lowers not minding Dipika's presence.

Dipika felt uncomfortable and left the room.

She shared her uncomfortableness with her close friend - KV just like how every human does.

Romil came out and she told him about her uncomfortableness in her calm voice.

Romil simply asked - " if it looked wrong" which proves he was aware of Dipika in there but he ignored her and did not feel it was wrong to change his lowers in front of girls.

( Romil comes in those type of people who doesn't care who is watching them, they are shameless and can change even in the middle of a busy road. Such people exists and I have witnessed it personally)

KV gets amazed at his question and gives a reaction of "Excuse me".

Dipika said - "yes"

Romil apologized .

Things got sorted.

Nowhere did I see any planning or plotting here. It was plain human reaction how we all behave in our day to day life.

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MadOwhat

@MadOwhat

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Posted: 6 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Basilisk

Surbhi never made tall claims that she settles issues one on one with the individual to avoid conflicts...blah blah...Jagat mata did...unless she lied just to justify to the caller and Neha

black - looks like even Semantics got re-engineered overnight😆...couldn't see any relevance whatsoever

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@MithiBani

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Posted: 6 years ago

#43

All 🤪 and 🤔 and the snide comments about the flawed logic/opinion on why she is okay with a bare chested Kv and Sree's indecent dance, Sre's workout clothes, Shiv in his whatever-the-shit-he's-wearing..chk out Specter's gifs. 😆 Yes, that is the opinion some people have and sly digs are useless. 🤔Well, she is obviously not uncomfortable with those nice men but got uncomfortable seeing Romil change. She did try to make an issue of it and Romil nipped it in the bud by apologizing. Yes she did. She is UNCOMFORTABLE according to her own convenience. No, not bizzare logic. 🤔 She just dislikes Romil and hence the drama. Also, again...why was she there? Yes, WHY was she there? Perfectly sane logical question. She knew they would be changing. I think she made Romil uncomfortable. 😆 I feel like using this 🤪 now. 😆

That being said, Romil should've been more aware that Sree was with his caretaker and the caretaker should've told Romil to wait until she'd left. If we accept that Romil made a mistake, we gotta accept that it was a mistake on Dipika's part too. She had no business being there.

Edited by MithiBani - 6 years ago

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MadOwhat

@MadOwhat

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Posted: 6 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: Basilisk
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Besides in Dipika's own words ...she believes in sorting issues with person individually instead of discussing it with others to avoid conflicts...this came up when she was trying to justify her action of not telling Neha about Sree's threat to expose

And she did sort it out with Romil. She mentioned how uncomfortable it was and he apologized.

Please read my comment and your reply...are they coherent ???...especially highlighted one in bold ...these are Dipika's words not mine

Btw She was telling KVB...incidentally Romil walked her way while she was discussing it...so the question was not intended by design

Infact the the relevant subject is ...

" Was Dipika's reaction insensitive and directed with a plan to defame a fellow contestant for an unintentional act, without seeking clarification ??...Is it appropriate to to stoop so low for the game ?? "

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Specter

@Specter

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: intruderfast
Deepika Jo BHI Kare it's her fault. Romil to Sant aadmi hai Bhai.
Romil himself is saying sorry but Nahi phir BHI Galti Deepika ki hi hai😆
Now I am prepared to hear counter arguments that Romil is a gentleman.
Well if Romil is a gentleman to apologize, Deepika is a nice lady to just put across her point without creating a fuss.
And Kudos to KV also for not milking the situation.

I hope they don't make issue out of it, like last week to send jail they picked something which Romil said in fun. If Dipika and gang doesn't make an issue later of this then it is fine.

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MadOwhat

@MadOwhat

Sparkler

Posted: 6 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: MithiBani
All 🤪 and 🤔 and the snide comments about the flawed logic/opinion on why she is okay with a bare chested Kv and Sree's indecent dance, Sre's workout clothes, Shiv in his whatever-the-shit-he's-wearing..chk out Specter's gifs. 😆 Yes, that is the opinion some people have and sly digs are useless. 🤔Well, she is obviously not uncomfortable with those nice men but got uncomfortable seeing Romil change. She did try to make an issue of it and Romil nipped it in the bud by apologizing. Yes she did. She is UNCOMFORTABLE according to her own convenience. No, not bizzare logic. 🤔 She just dislikes Romil and hence the drama. Also, again...why was she there? Yes, WHY was she there? Perfectly sane logical question. She knew they would be changing. I think she made Romil uncomfortable. 😆 I feel like using this 🤪 now. 😆
That being said, Romil should've been more aware that Sree was with his caretaker and the caretaker should've told Romil to wait until she'd left.

Bold - even her logic of confronting issue is convenient ...not logical..

Blue - Precisely...and so does KVB...a nice duffer green ball who can easily be used to demonize Romil

Red - Romil couldn't keep Sallu waiting in the Akhada because AyaJi had to put nazar ka tika on baby Sree before the task...the guy may have been anxious and in a hurry to reach the Akhada

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MadOwhat

@MadOwhat

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Posted: 6 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Specter
I hope they don't make issue out of it, like last week to send jail they picked something which Romil said in fun. If Dipika and gang doesn't make an issue later of this then it is fine.

Gut feel...we haven't seen last of it

...but lets wait and watch

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-Halo00-

@-Halo00-

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Posted: 6 years ago

#48

This discussion thread is way longer than it should be. It's a non-issue. He didn't think much of his actions, Dipika did, he was surprised and apologized.

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adventurousman

@adventurousman

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

#49

She was okay with shree changing? shiv's shorts are shorter than romils boxers but that's okay? Tomorrow romil will wear swimming trunks shorter than his boxers and that would be okay? Kya drama hain. He shouldn't have apologized. You're uncomfortable it's your problem