Was Romil's act appropriate or indecent? - Page 4

Originally posted by: MadOwhat

Can you enlighten ...why she had to tell KVB???

Mature people confront the individual and sort it out one on one ...bitching behind the back reeks of mala fide intentions...sensitivity is a 2 way street

Originally posted by: Basilisk

Yes I can enlighten you but I don't think you will be able to see past your blind hared for her. But still I will try.

I don't see it as bitching. She was sharing something with a close friend. That's what we humans do in real life as well, you know. If we have a problem we share it with family or a close friend. And that's exactly what she did.

The definition of bitching is Repeatedly saying something over and over, or rather whining about it, therefore destroying the point you were trying to make and making you look like a complete bitch because no one is listening to you. (credit to Dr. Google here).

From what I saw in the episode she wasn't doing that at all. She mentioned it once to KV and as soon as Romil came outside she told him it was uncomfortable. Romil apologized and the end.

Edit: Not sure why some words are in blue but whatever. You get my point :)

Originally posted by: MadOwhat

This discussion is about Dipika ...not about my choice...but I get it ...it's a convenient diversion 😆

Nah not a diversion. Just what I've noticed.

I get you point ...since there is no rationale ...you are clutching on to semantics @Bitching to avoid the enlightening

Going by definitions of words is the most rational thing. 😆 If it is not in your eyes than let's agree to disagree here.

In real life you are not bottled inside a house ...there is no force to co-exist like BB house...keep it contextual

Sure. But even in BB house people DO have emotions. They haven't left their emotions outside of the house. And bonds form naturally no matter if you are in real life or in BB house. If you can make enemies inside the house then why not friends? And if she wanted to confide in her friend, KV, then she is free to do so. Just like how Surbhi confides in Romil all the time because even they share a friendly bond. Here it seems like you're clutching onto semantics. You can't erase your emotions no matter if you are on Earth, Mars or BB house. That's common sense.

...In BB house you confront the person individually ...unless the intention is to make an issue...and Dipika has taken a cheap shot...and showed lack of sensitivity

I think you should learn the difference between conversing with an individual and making an issue out of something. Two very separate things. This is my first time watching BB but you are a regular aren't you? So if even I can understand what it means to make an issue out of something then you definitely should be able to.

Besides in Dipika's own words ...she believes in sorting issues with person individually instead of discussing it with others to avoid conflicts...this came up when she was trying to justify her action of not telling Neha about Sree's threat to expose. And she did sort it out with Romil. She mentioned how uncomfortable it was and he apologized.

Originally posted by: Basilisk

Originally posted by: Basilisk

I get you point ...since there is no rationale ...you are clutching on to semantics @Bitching to avoid the enlightening

Going by definitions of words is the most rational thing.