What would you do if you were in Arjun's place?

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FreeTheNipple

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Where am I fighting, yaar?..have an SOH, peeps 😆

I'm simply countering viewpoints yaa😆

Yeah ofcourse. 😆

Your other post was literally an open invitation to create a warzone there. 😆

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Bharathi_gurti

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

No one should get into his place.,the unlucky guy and God has betrayed himlike how he betrayed Maya in her childhood days...may be this adamnt love of Arjun can help Maya if she is supposed to redeem as per the makers..

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Piyushfanatic

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Penfolk
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By the way when exactly was it shown arjun married her knowing she's a psycho? All I remember is jahnvi making up stories to prove that she's the pill taking psycho and not her daughter.
And as far arjun knowing that she's not mentally fine or is depressed is okay, but arjun never knew she's a sadist, an ocd patient added to many other disorder holder.

See season 1 episodes... Arjun has called her psycho before marriage.. even . Before Maya started loving him..yaar pls watch beyhadh properly n then argue. Esp with me.

But Arjun knew saanjh was very pure sane person. Y he never fell for her??; Lol

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Piyushfanatic

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

So the show is about the hot romance between a psycho lady & her loyal dog, you mean??😆..no wonder I don't find it appealing...

Yes.. so what now.

Who is asking u to watch... Just quit

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Piyushfanatic

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism
I agree with you Veronica Arjun loves Maya and has accepted to be her wafadar kutta (he doesn't like it in fact no one would like that everyone has self respect, but his self respect takes a back seat when it comes to his love)
So how is it possible for a kutta to take decision of taking his mistress away from her mother when she doesn't want that??

Or how can he take her away or towards someone?? She will make the decisions and maximum that Arjun could do is accept it and he accepts every decision of Maya so what else

Chillax... I said this . " If I were Arjun" i wud have done it. I wudnt b a dog itself in first place. U guys taking it literally ..see topic heading lol

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FlauntPesimism

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Veronicalocks

Chillax... I said this . " If I were Arjun" i wud have done it. I wudnt b a dog itself in first place. U guys taking it literally ..see topic heading lol

Ok I understood, but then you would have to leave Maya because Maya wouldn't let anyone less than a kutta to be with her and leaving her after marriage could have been devastating for you, and you fell for Maya's false acquisition on Ayan so you are definitely not at par with the intelligence to Maya

What you would have done comes with a t&c of what you could have done

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Kaushitaki

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

I ain't arguing with you in the first place. And as much you watched beyhadh I too did. Calling someone psycho, daayan, churail, bhootni doesn't mean he knew she had serious mental illnesses, of which he came to know after marriage. She was extremely strict a boss, locked up people in bathrooms and all and handed termination letters now and then. Such people are called psychos not because we know their backgrounds but because we see them behaving over the top. Don't friends call us weird at times? Does that really mean they consider us seriously psychotic?

If arjun really knew that maya is sick and mad, the first thing he would do immediately after marriage when she was normal momentarily was to start some counselling sessions by some good doctors. He wouldn't have waited for maya becoming worse every passing day. The thing is he has come to know maya is pathetically and dangerously psychotic after marriage. What he believed initially was Maya was an OTT boss, and next that she was depressed because aswin tortured her, and lastly after marriage he knows she's a psychopath and nothing less.

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Kaushitaki

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

And what is this logic that arjun didn't fall for saanjh because he likes psychotic individuals over normal people? Shit man. Arjun didn't fall for saanjh because it didn't click. That's all. And he fell for maya because he was astonished seeing her cross almost oceans to save him. A girl who hardly knew him doing so much for him, touched him. Whereas saanjh has always been his friend and she doing a lot for him was always considered her duty by him. That's all.

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Fragrance63

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

I really feel bad for Arjun.

He is a simple person and is not at all worldly wise and manipulative. Right now he is struck between the devil and the deep blue sea.

I always thought of him as the most decent of all the characters here. He is being blasted both in the show and in various forums and social media for imaginary reasons like he does not love Maya, he only wants her money, he is disloyal, etc. His only problem is that since he is not worldly wise he does behave in an immature manner at times.

Maya was right when Maya said to Ganesh ji in season 1 that Arjun is very 'bhola' and Saanjh is also right in saying that he is a 'duffer'. And it is natural that he would blurt out his feelings at times to his own dear ones like his brother.

I never doubted his honesty and his love for Maya. His show of hatred for Maya in the initial episodes of season 2 were due to his frustrations at not being able to do anything. So my trust in Arjun got vindicated yesterday when he told Vandana that he loves Maya.

No one would want to be in Arjun's situation. Kudos to him that he has kept his sanity intact till now. It's natural. It has not been shown whether he talked to Maya about her condition and suggested professional help. If not he needs to do this now. And if yes and if Maya has refused to listen to him, he should force her now before things get worse. Maya needs professional help to heal and Arjun has to become strong to remain by the side of his wife whom he has never stopped loving.