Jen: 'Calling Maya negative is really not doing it justice' - Page 4

Originally posted by: Darciny

All the instances you have mentioned are the preleap incidents. And I have clearly written above that preleap maya was still grey. But what about post leap? Seems like you overlooked all the times Maya was wrong!.

Vandana was wrong with her OTT antics.. no doubt about that.. But does that give Maya a free pass to wreak havoc? She did the right thing by moving out of the house when Vandana was getting too much. But what was the need for her to destroy that family when Arjun went to meet them after 3 years.

Originally posted by: kavsy

About Arjun, it was already said in many posts. He always thinks about his convenience. If Arjun had to go out &n get the surprise for Maya, what business he had to booz in the restaurant just cos his friends provoked him. What business did he have to bitch about Maya to Saanjh? what business did Saanjh have to call Arjun at the late night & almost kiss him? And that Holi incident. It all began with that.

Originally posted by: Darciny

It did not begin with that. Maya was always insecure of Arjun and Saanjh's friendship. That was clearly visible when she broke the glass out of jealousy during the party. But the point of discussion is not Maya's insecurities (fyi I also believe her getting insecured of Sanjh-Arjun's friendship is completely normal). the point of discussion is Maya's actions. She has a problem with Saanjh Arjun friendship, so go and talk to your husband about it. Do not go and manipulate situations at your own whim.

Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

Communicating her problems isn't that easy for Maya...If she was able to communicate by words instead of actions curing her would have been easier... Sanjh somewhat knew Maya's insecurities as the latter warned her so Sanjh should have been careful even Arjun should have been careful...From Arjun's side Sanjh-Arjun's bond can not be termed friendship as Arjun was never a good friend to Sanjh even from Sanjh's side its not friendship its deep rooted love Maya is insecure of...So, Maya didn't have any problem with their friendship she had problem with Arjun lying to her when he went to meet Sanjh her friend (which is not "normal")

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Murdering someone doesnt make someone negative, unless we know why the person killed. Murder can be an act of self defense which happens impromptu. Action and intend of action decides positive or negative.

Also just because you show some sacrifice for name sake and harbour unworthy thoughts in your minds then also you dont become positive. You can show yourself to be a mahan while harbouring illicit feelings from inside.

Originally posted by: Darciny

I agree with you that Arjun and Saanjh are at fault and they should have been more responsible. But my question is that why should everyone around Maya has to act responsibly and sensibly, but Maya is free to do whatever she wishes in retaliation to people's actions. Even she should exercise caution when dealing with others. Her psychological issues are not an excuse for her to ruin people's lives.

P.S. let's agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: kavsy

@Darciny Maya knows that if she talks to Arjun about it, what he will say. He will say that she is jealous of his friendship with Saanjh like he said to Saanjh before his wedding. Even Arjun never made a point to tell Maya about his likes & dislikes but he started bitching about Maya to Saanjh. Is that normal? If Arjun behaved sensibly & responsibly, she would have trusted him. But, no one has been sensitive towards her or made any efforts to heal her.