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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: TheUnique

I don't get this ! The topic was on how a member attacked Tanvi for a mere fictional character!

So the topic was Tanvi being a victim of online abuse over here for a fictional character.
Then comes the comments of how Saanjh a fictional character is called a honewrecker and a s**t ...which is so not right.. cuz people are again attacking fictional ch hiding behind their computer screens ! What sense does this make going by the main post!

I thought the topic was meant to be about how people get carried away over fictional characters that they start losing their senses and start making personal attacks! So the main point being people should stop over reacting over fictional characters. So y is Saanjh another fictional character is brought in here and her bashing is considered wrong and people who do that are being mocked at ! Isn't she also a fictional character?
So u r telling Maya can be called a rapist and ppl should not go overboard about it... but Saanjh cannot be called a s**t and a honewrecker! Just like you say she is neither... so in this case neither is Maya a rapist cuz she definitely was not shown taking advantage of a drunk Arjun & neither was Arjun seen protesting against her moves... irritated maybe but not fighting at all to push her away.. which he could have done easily!

The topic wasOriginals should be banned cuz of her deragotory comments but now this topic has taken a complete different turn about how this place is a Maya shrine where it's supposed to be a Saanjh shrine I guess cuz she's the real holier than thou character! Poor Tanvi is getting sidelined over here and fictional ch Saanjh gets to be the matter of graver concern here now.

@ Caput Draconis ...before dismissing ppl with comments like 'oh please you ppl r not important enough to be discussed at our CC ' & belittling them I say why don't u first get the real picture that goes on and ask your friends about the amusing walks they take around the park ! I am sure Khushi will be glad to enlighten you on these matters cuz by now she is very rich! 😆😉
I am sure she could not have made fun of kavita's comment over here so CC is the best place to do that without anyone protesting! So I guess we can conclude by saying we are important enough for people deciding to leave this forum. Important enough to make a million topics about how dear Saanjh gets bashed by your so called unimportant members!
Important enough for you to lose your temper and get into personal attacks with them .

This post gets made for Originals abusive behavior... the member concerned though seems to be unaffected by it and not even seen having an ounce of remorse for her actions ! She is seen challenging people to talk directly to her if they have a problem instead of making a post! I think she has a point there. I guess tanvi could have just PMd her about how terrible she felt about that remark and wanted an apology... sometimes this things can work wonders then bringing in faujs to protest!
Originals by the way has said she's going on a vacation to Venice and will return after a month... which I guess she will just keep low now and come back with a new ID ! Since she claims to be a IT student don't think she will have much problem in getting back here. So nothing can be done about originals being banned.. but if we would have asked her or rather Tanvi could have pmd her for an apology I think it would be better.

Now before u accuse me of stalking your CC I did get pms earlier about members being ridiculed at and their ideas being mocked at but never paid much heed. But now I decided to do it and what did I just come across... that the CM had to make a note to tone down their discussion about the park cuz they don't want a mods note! 😆 But dear don't worry we don't consider you guys important enough to go and report about your CC... U can be rest assured! 😆

I think I made myself clear.. U can continue with quoting me and highlighting my points but maybe I won't be able to answer now cuz I m on my way to Uni.. so maybe later! 😃


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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kavsy


And what did Saanjh do with a married man in a drunk state? When that was called as a rape you guys have overreacted. Maya is his wife and Arjun gave her the consent. How can it be called a rape. Has he now kissed Maya in his hatred too?


if he is in his sense den its not rape n sanjh never kissed a married man , she stopped , dekhte hai maya rukti hai ki nahi
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: CaputDraconis


This is NOT about Tanvi being a VICTIM. This is about the mentality of the OFFENDER. What part of it do you NOT understand?


OK let's say Tanvi's comments are wrong to begin with (actually they are), but does it warrant for such a crass reaction from OF? Do Saanjh enthusiasts go around calling members of the forum as homewreckers, wh**es and what not? Jeez!


I have never seen any fan of maya commenting saanjh fans are homewreckers or something crass.
If anyone made such comments do u think those could sit silent until now ??
Without any proof dont say things assuming whatever comes in your mind.
Yes i agree we called saanjh names and thats a char for gods sake but never called any real person like that.

Ask tanvi how i, isha and katrina congratulated her fr her promotion and said even the things we argue r only linked with characters & genuinely commented opn her post but she didnt even reply or comment to me idk what so bad i did to her but then i dont care. Bcz ppl here care and get offended more abt fictional char.
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Posted: 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: TheUnique



Instigation leads to ppl making the heinous crimes ...I guess u r not aware of these facts 😃



But that isn't a legal defense

If a person kills a thief who had stolen his wallet being instigated, the fact that the thief had stolen his wallet will be no excuse
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Posted: 8 years ago
I am on IF since past 8 years. (been a silent reader before making an ID for sometime) and I am a silent member in this forum too from the very beginning of the show. in this time i have seen such posts/comments about many members/actors. (Talking about whole IF not only this Forum)

I REALLY want to ask is "Rape" such a small word for people to use/abuse it like this? so easy? go and ask a rape victim how it feels when someone kills your soul... and in return its YOU who needs/should/expected to feel ashamed and small..! wishing a member gets/or getting rape... what if someone says this same thing to your family member... how will you feel? for heaven's sake rape is NOT a joke! its not only here... I have been seeing this EVERYWHERE in IF..

the word rape is used like its such a normal thing.. like oh hello you got raped? cool! umm... your sister got raped? wow congrats!

in this India forum the word "rape" has been used in multiple ways
- an actor was called a rapist...in return a member said did he rape your mother
-an actress was called "rape victim" for her expression
- a member was called "sexually frustrated" and needs to get "gang raped"

there are many many more examples I have seen in these years... when this forum is "India" forum where I have heard/seen women getting compared with Durga/Laxmi and Beti is Beto se badhkar, save betiyan campaign.
such a shame that being a woman you use this word like its a joke to laugh about!!


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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nithunavi



I have never seen any fan of maya commenting saanjh fans are homewreckers or something crass.
If anyone made such comments do u think those could sit silent until now ??
Without any proof dont say things assuming whatever comes in your mind.
Yes i agree we called saanjh names and thats a char for gods sake but never called any real person like that.

Ask tanvi how i, isha and katrina congratulated her fr her promotion and said even the things we argue r only linked with characters & genuinely commented opn her post but she didnt even reply or comment to me idk what so bad i did to her but then i dont care. Bcz ppl here care and get offended more abt fictional char.



She didn't say that Maya fans comment Saanjh fans as home wreckers, she said that Saanjh fans do not get instigated and call Maya fans as home wreckers or sl**ts when Saanjh is called so like Originals fan did say about Tanvi r**ed when tanvi spoke of Maya being r**er,

Just explaining

Anyhow Moral policing is not allowed in IF so I think this discussion is futile and probably not permitted
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism



She didn't say that Maya fans comment Saanjh fans as home wreckers, she said that Saanjh fans do not get instigated and call Maya fans as home wreckers or sl**ts when Saanjh is called so like Originals fan did say about Tanvi r**ed when tanvi spoke of Maya being r**er,

Just explaining

Anyhow Moral policing is not allowed in IF so I think this discussion is futile and probably not permitted

Yup, moral Policing is not allowed as long as it's not defensive. One member throws disgusting comments at another so she needs to know that people don't find it okay, especially since the mods who should be doing this job are absent.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

@ The Unique:

Well, even you will admit that the "rich" comment was totally uncalled for, yet, hilarious at the same time . 😆...N I say this without any malice...

N I mention it at times in good humour...But if Kavita gets offended, won't do it, promise.. 😃

(Btw, I have mentioned it on the main forum too...If u wish, will pm you the link where it's been used 😆...)



Khushi I did find that comment hilarious & I did not mean to say that you were wrong or anything .
But it was jus meant t for Caput who went on to belittle people by saying they are not important enough to be discussed at her prestigious CC 😆

But I also find Original's comments hilarious like when she said ''u lowlife bacteria '' ...i mean who calls anyone lowlife bacteria 😆 She's just extremely immature & I don't think she even understood how disgusting her comments sounds !

Also the post she made on who will murder Saanjh ... Saanjh's a a fictional character right ? .. i don't understand y u guys take so much offense on that ! I found that topic hilarious too
Also Isha's posts on ArYa r so totes hilarious & she comes with the most unique thoughts !😆

Someone called Maya a transvestite in this very topic & that's her reason for Arjun not touching Maya in spite of her being so beautiful ! 😆
Edited by TheUnique - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

Yes I'm sure she went to her and cooed and whispered magic words in her ears. When the innocent, gullible girl didn't agree, she would've tortured her and put a gun to her head and said WRITE IT!! With all the power in the heavens and HELL I command you to type it!

Can we stop justifying people's actions by saying xyz provoked xyz to do it?
Rapists and criminals are all innocent then. They are PROVOKED by the victimized parties no? EVERYONE is responsible for their own actions. nobody can PROVOKE anyone to use words like s**t mistress rape etc..

Maya is Mars? What's wrong with being mars? I say Mars is friggin awesome. Im gonna go live on Mars when Tesla makes it happen.😆




@bold: Now you are justifying your actions. Then even we are not wrong in calling Saanjh a home wrecker & a characterless woman. The first mistake Saanjh made was calling her best married friend in the late night. Which decent person will do that? Would you be fine if it happens in real life & comes to your doorstep? Saanjh does not think about her parents.

I won't be surprised if you call Maya a shani devta too,😆
Edited by kavsy - 8 years ago

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