The Curious Case of Saanjh Mathur: Assumptions

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Before I begin, I just want to say that in no way is this meant to be a bashing post but rather something that I've noticed across the course of the episodes. Anyone who bashes will immediately get reported.

Now, moving on.

Ever since the show began, we've seen Saanjh's unrequited love for Arjun. She's grown up as his best friend and along the way she fell in love with him. Various times she's tried to tell him of her feelings but has failed and now that Arjun has found his own love, Saanjh is going through a heartbreak.

With the way the writers have shown us Saanjh's character, I feel that she's brought this heartbreak on herself. Now I can already sense you're going "What the hell are you talking about?" but hear me out. The reason why I feel this way is because Saanjh's decisions have been all based on assumptions.

The first assumption is that Arjun reciprocates her feelings. This is mostly due to both Arjun's family and her own mother and brother egging her on and making her assume that Arjun loves her too. The next assumption comes when Arjun runs off to help Maya when Jhanvi collapses. She assumes that Arjun is running away and disrespecting her family. Although she understands afterwards, her anger is based all on an assumption.

More assumptions are made when Arjun patches up with his mother and again, Vandana and Ayaan tell her it's because of her only. Following which she once again gets heartbroken at seeing Maya taking Vandana's blessings and being the root cause behind Arjun rushing back to his mother.

The one assumption that had me going "Really writers? Really?" was recently when Saanjh makes her trip to Mauritius. She comes to the hotel and follows the clues Arjun "left for her". She assumes the notes are for her and that he is going to propose to her. Now hold up here. Arjun has no clue she's in Mauritius or that she is going to come there then why would he put together this surprise for her?

There are so many assumptions that are made on her part that does not make me feel bad for her one bit but rather she brought it on herself. This is where I'm calling out the writers again because they're just making this character crumble. The only thing that made me feel slightly bad was the actress. Her acting prowess genuinely touched my heart and her sorrow she portrayed made me sympathize with her. But then once again, that was soon wiped away when the mandir scene happened.

Yes, she found Maya's earring. No, that doesn't mean that Maya is a murderer. Could she be? Sure (if this is the case then the writers are losing their wit). Is she? We don't know. Neither does Saanjh. All these assumptions that are being made from her aggravates me because they have this character who is being portrayed by such a talented actress and all they're doing is making her less and less bearable with the way they're writing her.

I sincerely hope the writers can pick up their game with Saanjh. She can still redeem herself. No that doesn't mean she needs to turn negative (I'm looking at you, writers). Show us Saanjh. Not bebas and laachaar Saanjh, who is always crying or looks upset. Come on, get your characters developed well. Maya's not the only character on that show.

That being said, once again, I'd like to remind everyone to keep things civil and please for the love of God don't pick fights with each other or me just because you think this is a Anti-Saanjh post (it's not).

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sellysona thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post..
I never thought about it but yes saanjh does makes a lot of assumption...
She mostly livs in delusion which is no way her fault..she gets too much influencd by her family and vandana ofcourse..
Btw, seeing maya earring in mandir doesnot make her murderer.. I dont think saanjh thinks this. Bcoz saanjh doesnot know about pandit saying rude words to maya...also maya arjun did wnt to mandir last night so maya earring would have fallen that time.. And also earring was found outside temple and not outside pandit room...
No way saanjh can guess maya any involvement...if she does then she is just making excuses to wrong maya..
What i felt from last epispde, i think she was warning maya about arjun that she wont give him back if maya losses him..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I also want saanjh to overcome the rejection
And not try and win arjun
Because his feelings are clearly not the same as hers so she should realize that and just try to move on.
She can show eveyone that she doesnt need a guy in her life just to be successful!

Its true she makes many assumptions
And these assumptions land her in trouble
First she assumed that arjun loved her
Then she assumed that arjun is proposing her
Now she is assuming that maya has something to do with the pundit
She seriously has to stop making assumptions and thinking too much 😆
Edited by ishakumar - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I find her delusions to be minor character flaws that can be easily tolerable. It kind of makes her interesting to watch. BUT the love treasure hunt was plain stupid as you mentioned and Saanjh being a lawyer must know it better than anyone else that one doesn't assume anything based on prima facie evidences. Otherwise she's been the only consistent character for me in this show.
If there's any character that's disappointing, it's Maya. But since this post is dedicated to Saanjh, I'm not going to dwell on her.
Edited by CaputDraconis - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think cv's have purposely showed her character like this, she is far from lachar and bebas. at this point she is only delusional and slightly obsessed with arjun, which is why she can become grey in the future-not necessarily negative.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: CaputDraconis

I find her delusions to be minor character flaws that can be easily tolerable tolerable. It kind of makes her interesting to watch. BUT the love treasure hunt was plain stupid as you mentioned and Saanjh being a lawyer must know it better than anyone else that one doesn't assume anything based on prima facie evidences. Otherwise she's been the only consistent character for me in this show.

If there's any character that's disappointing, it's Maya. But since this post is dedicated to Saanjh, I'm not going to dwell on her.


I would love to read ur take on maya's character...if possible do make a separate post on it :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its true...aneri has a lot of potential...but the character of sanjh is so half baked just like arjun that its not stretching her as an actress...having said that i liked her subdued performance yesterday...i could feel a certain amount of zeal in sanjh which was missing before...the upcoming tracks wont always have exotic locations to woo audience...there the individual performance of each actor would play a major role in holding audience's attention...hope the makers realizes that and works accordingly...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sellysona

Nice post..
I never thought about it but yes saanjh does makes a lot of assumption...
She mostly livs in delusion which is no way her fault..she gets too much influencd by her family and vandana ofcourse..
Btw, seeing maya earring in mandir doesnot make her murderer.. I dont think saanjh thinks this. Bcoz saanjh doesnot know about pandit saying rude words to maya...also maya arjun did wnt to mandir last night so maya earring would have fallen that time.. And also earring was found outside temple and not outside pandit room...
No way saanjh can guess maya any involvement...if she does then she is just making excuses to wrong maya..
What i felt from last epispde, i think she was warning maya about arjun that she wont give him back if maya losses him..


Agreed 100% with u Sona .
But in the case of saanjh she still believes maya got arjun with wrong methods. And she doesn't love him.
She still believes arjun should be hers. And she thinks she is gonna show arjun real maya 'as she believes' there's another side of maya & she is going to get her arjun back. Now she will go after maya for clues to prove her wrong infront of arjun & vandana & Suman will only be supporting her.
But her delusions are wrong. She comes to conclusion too early. She needs to accept things. The right things will fall into right place then.
Arjun will one day definitely comes to know abt maya secret even though if saanjh doesnt even quest abt maya life.
Not many days it will be hidden. And it will depend on arjun what he will choose to do. But that doesn't mean he loves saanjh next min.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree on that the writers are making Saanjh seem all dumb & that whole thought that Arjun planned surprises proposing for her was heights... I mean he didn't even knew about her. Anyways, Saanjh & both families think of Maya as someone sinister & I feel one or two incidents like the Pandit's death & Saanjh gets clue of Maya being around would for sure assume worst about Maya like being murderer or something... Now Maya did something like that or not is different thing.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Your post is bang on 👏 Couldn have put it any better. Saanjh Mathur is all about assumptions and so are her family (excluding her dad, who is the only sane person among the lot 😆) and Arjun's 😳 Not just Suman but even Vandana is responsible for Saanjh's heartbreak. Them being supposedly mature and wise it was stupid to encourage Saanjh without letting her confess her feelings. Maya may not be the right girl for Arjun but doesn mean Saanjh is. Arjun has every right to choose the woman he will spend his life with and its not necessary that be Saanjh. And then comes Saanjh herself! I really couldn't empathize with her pain though my mom was terribly sad for her 😆 coz like u said she brought it on herself and all your points are bang on! Cant say more. Every instance u cited points out Saanjh always lives by assumptions. And though her assumption maybe right its still an assumption again. It was illogical on her part to assume Maya had a hand in the pandit's murder. It is true but yet had she known about the pandit's prediction and had she seen how it had affected Maya? Vandana still has a valid reason to not like Maya as she had seen a glimpse of her pagalpanti in the party. But what about Saanjh? 😕 Saanjh is beginning to get onto my nerves 😵

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