Analysis + Similarities and Differences - Page 4

Or do you want us both to make it together? I'm sorry I didn't quite understand you.

yes, the series is over, but the writing about the characters doesn't end

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For aditya, there is a situation similar to that night

When Zoya was planning aditya's birthday, she didn't tell him what she wanted to do to him at first aditya didn't get angry when he felt angry when he sees a picture of Pooja wearing a saree and sees Zoya wearing the same saree (here he saw Zoya like Pooja) and his words that he said were not to Zoya but to Pooja they both hurt each other in words and do not understand each other aditya misunderstood Zoya and Zoya didn't understand aditya but although he hurt her but later ran behind her (when she learned divorce papers) but didn't talk to her later, he learns from a third person (Sakshi) that she is given by the saree here knowing his mistake اe also knows that he misunderstood

that situation looks exactly like that night

in both situations aditya was angry and hurt and didn't understand Zoya and saw Zoya like Pooja and the words he told her not to her but to Pooja and he needed a third person to understand his mistake and why she did it

in both situations Zoya crossed the line and did what she saw from her point of view that it was right but she was wrong somewhere and couldn't understand the reason for his anger or what he felt and why he said those words and what is his view in the end)

his feelings that night:

he was guilty of killing his father,his mother and brother say he is a murderer ,anger, hurt, and felt that Zoya like Pooja (his words were not her but to Pooja) + and he was a bad husband and he was too late For pooja (he couldn't save their marriage and also couldn't save his child) for Zoya (he couldn't save her or stop her from doing the deal) but he also ran behind her later though he was hurt by what she did but didn't talk to her and later knew a third person (Nani) knew that nothing had happened between her and Rajver and that he had mistake)

in the end all i can say in every situation is for them there is always the right side and the wrong side

and yes Rajver made a smart plan and made them separate😭

First, thank you

and no need to apologize i asked for help because i found a problem how to start i would start yesterday but i was busy i started writing today and things are good now

i have thought to write similarities and differences in points, i will write at the beginning and maybe you can complete (if you like) i do not know that it is possible to end today or tomorrow

all in the end we write the differences and similarities of these characters and enjoy 😊

I can't even be mad at her these two are always crossing all limits for each other, no sense of personal space 🤣. Barging into each others houses and breaking things, to kidnapping, to making inappropriate comments when they were strangers, even when Aditya talked about love not being forced he let go of her for only a minute and than he pulled her close again when she insisted she doesn't love him. Problem is it gets worse every time. Aditya went crazy trying to save her from marrying Ashard, but he had people to call him back to reality. Zoya herself and Zoya's mom when he went too far. I think the problem with Zoya is she was both times isolated from the people she listens to. Aditya and her mom. You are right she did cross limits, like Aditya often did she just needed a rebuke like Aditya got. To bring her back a little.

OK, thank you, yes will write after you. And yes will enjoy. Would like to also write about the rest of the characters after Pooja and Zoya. I wouldn't mind if you are up to it. They each have a story.

yes you can't anger them (what they do or what they say) you can never hate them

yes she needs to be rebuked Sometimes to know where she was wrong 👏

i also hope that i can write about the rest of the other characters because i love them so much❤️

i wrote it that way i do not know what was good or not 😕 i wrote a little

There were two women in aditya's life but there was a big difference between them:

- Pooja: Her husband has a childish side and a man who has a lot of flaws but she didn't like his childlike side and she didn't accept or love his flaws and saw his dark side only but zoya: loved his childlike side a lot she saw his dark and good side and learned that he had a lot of flaws but she loved him and accepted him as he was (with his flaws and good and dark side) but she looked at his good side more than his dark side

- Pooja: she had a lot of problems with his flaws or he didn't understand her but she didn't have the courage to communicate with him and tell him what she wanted face to face, so she wrote a diary and blamed him but Zoya: she didn't need a diary to blame him she had the courage to tell him face to face what his mistakes and what his flaws

- Pooja: Although she married aditya of 5 years didn't try to change his flaws or make him a better person but Zoya: although she knew him for a short time but made him change to a better person

This is a simple parallel between Pooja and Zoya but there is a difference between their characters:

1- Pooja: When she was hurt by aditya she was telling her mother bad things about aditya and blame him and she told her mother everything But when Zoya was hurt by aditya she could tell her mother why she separated from aditya and his words, but she didn't want to say bad things about him and she didn't want to blame him even if what he said was wrong and she also didn't tell her mother because of what had happened that night, there was something between her and him only

2- zoya in arshad track she was in the place of Pooja pooja: She began to feel confused about her relationship with yash and loved him even though she knew that her relationship and feelings to yash were very wrong but she didn't try to get away from him or cut off her relationship with him (she could get out of the relationship with yash or aditya but she was in the end with a relationship with two men)

From the beginning Zoya told arshad that she didn't love him (she didn't lie to him) later she learned that she loved Aditya, but she would marry arshad and because she promised her father that she would marry him she tried to stay away from aditya, but in the wedding day she felt she couldn't love arshad and could not make him happy here Zoya chose to tell the truth (she chose to get out of this relationship)

Pooja: put all the blame in aditya because of her relationship and love with yash (because of her mistake) but Zoya :could blame her father or arshad (because of her mistake) but she didn't blame anyone

Zoya was herself childlike and carefree like Aditya, while Pooja was more serious and mature (according to outside appearances). I have often found that people with childlike natures (not neccessarily childish) can be more forgiving (like kids) and see the people they love or worship in a more positive light, they believe in them, forgive easily, forget wrong doings easier, (don't always keep a record of wrongs) and find it difficult to hide their feelings, while in the world we live in, we as adults are more judgemental especially to the ones we love, sometimes because as adults there is a lot of responsibility that comes with the word and cannot afford to tolerate certain behaviours first within ourselves than others, because we are supposed to be examples, leaders, parents, pioneers of life, we are supposed to have certain things figured out at a certain age and often when we see people of our own age group who do not meet certain level's of percieved maturity we lose our patience with them, sometimes rightly so.

Both Aditya and Zoya are childlike so they both often have to step up and become the adult for each other, while they can safely indulge in childish acts as they both understand this language and nature within each other. that is why they could be and show their best as well as their worst to each other and since they were unable to hide things from each other for long things could be quickly dealt with before they became a growing wound. Where as Pooja fell into the trap most adults do, filling in a role, the role of a responsible wife, friend, at some point a girlfriend without taking the time to simply enjoy life, yes she saw him in a dark light, but yes Zoya saw him at his darkest and his lightest, she saw both his best and worst and because she is childlike she mostly remembered the best. Pooja in the end could not see all of him as she did not understand his Love language nor he hers, because they were not all there with each other, in her eyes he was a child she needed to take care of and not a husband and in many ways it was true, Aditya and Pooja, because of secrets, ignorance, and just simply not being in the same page grew apart.

We as adults often forget to look at the whole picture, we often linger on the flaws or dwell on the perfection and ignore the flaws, we often forget that like the japanese broken plates, one can put them back together by filling the cracks with gold ending up with an even more beautiful and more valuable/priceless dish than you had before. We often throw away what we have, not because we don't still love it or its broken, but because the world, society, tv, environment, family has taught us this is not what a husband is supposed to look like not realizing, Love is more than a feeling. It is more than having someone take your breathe away with their beauty or heart warming words, you don't just wake up one day and realize that you have been together for 50 years and it has always been smooth sailing, sometimes you have to get up, pull your sleeves up and get your hands dirty, fight for your marriage, get help for your marriage, pray for your marriage and not find the easy way out.

The problem is we become adults with little training, we train to be professionals all our lives and we still struggle yet in those childhood years we spend little time in teaching and preparing each other on how to take on life as an adult in how to handle finances, often because our parents don't either which is something both Zoya and Pooja struggled in, in marriage in friendship etc yet we expect our kids to know by incstinct how to nevigate adulthood.

Pooja's mother was single while Zoya's was married and often we learn or rebel against what we grew up seeing. I don't know why Pooja's mom was single, so maybe Pooja mostly went by what she saw as positive marriage maybe on tv, while Zoya grew up with a more stable family and yes loved all things romantic as she was cacooned by her family from life trials, cacooned by her rich and stable family life as she saw her parents in a lot of seasons in life still together, so she knows that even if your love is not perfect you still love them.

Both Pooja and Zoya hid things from Aditya infact I can't think of anyone close to Aditya who didn't keep things from him and try to manage his life for him, Zoya was just the least secretive of them all, she was a bad liar and truth followed her,