Hypocrisy - Page 4

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Originally posted by: Harshadholic

Okay

1. We cannot understand why two strangers will fall in love because their respective partners had an affair and were bumped off, so we quit

2. Why did Zoya who knows absolutely nothing about business and aditya come together to run the deceased Yash aroras financially sick company, sorry makes no sense hence we quit.

3. Why is aditya hooda a 32 year old successful pilot behaving like a child, pumping his own money to pay Yash aroras debts just to check and challenge Zoya, create all sort of obstacles , irritate her , eat her head and then save her. Boss this is contradictory, aditya hooda is not my cup of tea so we quit

4. Why is Zoya not like Maya, which women of this age is so dumb, meek, abla nari, submissive, why cant she give it back like Maya. Maya fans ? Zoya can never be Maya. Thats it bye. Major loss of fans actually.

5. Bela track, so damn boring, rajma , adma ka sadma, virani , rajveer, court case. Random tracks, no cause and effect. Cbi and lawyers are made to look like cartoon characters. Jungle track is to fill episodes. Jail and water tank clips are a rip off from popular soaps. No content. See you bye.

6. Pak poosh and dairy, a woman glorifying her husbands love affair, greatest sin on this earth, mil , wife making adi a scapegoat. Sorry we were watching this show only for Jenshad but this too much. Bye and we will never come back.

Forced leap by makers

7. How can Zoya successfully run this her event management company , no flash backs, abrupt transition from someone who knew nothing to a successful business woman. Where is adi, what was he doing in Paris, we havent got any episodes about Paris

8. How can Adi be Zoyas best friend? She cant notice the physical chemistry and the vibes from this person. Aditya has so much time to realise this love, this woman has no feelings. Zoyas character isnt upto the mark , so we quit

9. How long we have to bear this anniversary and Sakshi tamsha, oh my Zoya is still in her friendship zone. We cant bear this.

10. Then comes the third angle, okay we switch off our tv sets till such a time that this actors role ends.

11. Finally from Nikaah to Shaadi, such a strange wedding, to promote other serials, some ramdom actors come and arrange the rituals, vfx snake from Naagin is also there. Where is our old Bepannaah. We will skip the episodes till Zoya and Adi reach Hooda house.

12.OMG no romance and BM track has started. We are so done with this show.

13. We had to bear rajma, warshad? Wanjana now its Zoya vs Anjana

Saas Bahu concept. Okay i better watch Kzk why BP.

14. Last but not the least religion, rituals, festivals, birthdays, anniversaries , celebrations are either not shown properly or there is no need for the story line to consider all this? Sentiments are effected. We dont to do anything with this show.

15. Dupes, BD, bad editing , loose ends, unfinished tracks especially of Arnoor where before a track begins it ends. Cant stand all this. Goodbye

If each and every section of the fandom and viewers give up on BP, what is this if not hypocrisy.

Actually religion and God has nothing to do with BP, most of the characters are atheists.

Its nothing but a bad phase, bad luck which has no end.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Thought of putting one more thing. I am a Hindu Brahmin girl. In my community post marriage during grihapravesh the girls name is changed by the mother in law. And from that day she is supposed to be called only by that name. During my childhood this was practiced strictly. I don't know the maiden name of the ladies married into my family as they were called by their given name. Over the years the strictness has reduced still name is changed. Though everyone in my hubby family including my hubby addresses me with my maiden name if any pooja happens the priest asks what is my given name in my sasural. And he uses that name only. Same thing happens in my community temple if any pooja needs to be done in my name. I am a girl who had arranged marriage. My hubby family love and respect me as their daughter in law. Still they follow the tradition and to be frank my hubby at times do feel happy when I am called by the name given in his family. A kind of apnapan u say. The major reason I write with my name given in my sasural and not my maiden name. So my identity gone if I accept the new identity too. Or should I have shouted u can't follow traditon. My name can't be changed. Certain truths of India u have to accept. Can't bring feminism and rebellion in all aspects.

Agree with you to some point but not entirely. it should be the girl's choice finally what she wants to do. Which religion, custom, ritual she would like to follow. you are happy to accept your new name so that is fine.But if some girl likes to keep her maiden name there should be no compulsion

so all these comments about Zoya's bindi or lack of it is irrelevant unless it relates to her look ...not the custom. There are thousands of hindu married women ...me included ...who do not use the vermillion either in the maang or as the bindi. I have always opposed the compulsion as it is not mandatory for a Hindu man to have any sign that he is married ...only the women need to have it..

Originally posted by: Subha_2601

Well said

yaar! In these 7 months, I have found 7000 reasons given by people to quit watching the show and frankly speaking, most of them have not made any sense to me.

As u said, some wanted

to see Maya in Zoya so they quit. Some couldn't understand a pilot turning into a businessman and quit. Some quit because PooSh were having affair. Some quit because Adi realized his love first. Some quot because Arshad turned out to be positive. Some quit because they didn't wanted to see AdiYa doing romance after marriage. Now people are quitting because Zoya us wearing mangalsutra and saree and
putting bindi.

Why only BP has such kind of viewers?

Ikr most of the complaints about BP have been baseless. why would anyone want Zoya to be like maya. The two characters are miles apart from each other and that's a good thing shows Jenny is a versatile actor. Zoya as a FL isn't even bad IMO have seen far worse. Bepannaah was never centred around religion except the riot week if people were so serious about religion , they shouldn't have signed up for this show coz none of the characters are deeply religious.

@nayana I am a feminist. I have fought my way through a very patriarchal community. Coming to name. You have not understood me. During grihapravesh mil calls u the name and u have to respond yes. The power to call u a name rest with your mil not u. At that time either u can respond yes or create a scene there. Now a days many new MILs decide not to change their DIL name and at that time call her with maiden name. For me that's the best way of changing tradition. When u have power use it the right way so that atleast in ur family the regressive tradition is stopped and soon what happens in the family becomes the norm. That is what u call bloodless revolution or revolution of love. It was me who started the trend of wearing thin mangalsutra instead of heavy chain put during wedding. I spoke to my husband on the difficulty to wear it due to practical reason of travelling alone to work. He obliged and got me a trendy chain. Now among both our relatives along with heavy chain,thin chain is put during wedding itself. One family statement and other wearable option. I also don't wear sindoor or toe ring or the sacred thread. None complains. So it is up to u how to change also.u can shout and change. Or u can wait for the right time to initate change which will give peace also.

Originally posted by: Harshadholic

Okay

1. We cannot understand why two strangers will fall in love because their respective partners had an affair and were bumped off, so we quit

2. Why did Zoya who knows absolutely nothing about business and aditya come together to run the deceased Yash aroras financially sick company, sorry makes no sense hence we quit.

3. Why is aditya hooda a 32 year old successful pilot behaving like a child, pumping his own money to pay Yash aroras debts just to check and challenge Zoya, create all sort of obstacles , irritate her , eat her head and then save her. Boss this is contradictory, aditya hooda is not my cup of tea so we quit

4. Why is Zoya not like Maya, which women of this age is so dumb, meek, abla nari, submissive, why cant she give it back like Maya. Maya fans ? Zoya can never be Maya. Thats it bye. Major loss of fans actually.

5. Bela track, so damn boring, rajma , adma ka sadma, virani , rajveer, court case. Random tracks, no cause and effect. Cbi and lawyers are made to look like cartoon characters. Jungle track is to fill episodes. Jail and water tank clips are a rip off from popular soaps. No content. See you bye.

6. Pak poosh and dairy, a woman glorifying her husbands love affair, greatest sin on this earth, mil , wife making adi a scapegoat. Sorry we were watching this show only for Jenshad but this too much. Bye and we will never come back.

Forced leap by makers

7. How can Zoya successfully run this her event management company , no flash backs, abrupt transition from someone who knew nothing to a successful business woman. Where is adi, what was he doing in Paris, we havent got any episodes about Paris

8. How can Adi be Zoyas best friend? She cant notice the physical chemistry and the vibes from this person. Aditya has so much time to realise this love, this woman has no feelings. Zoyas character isnt upto the mark , so we quit

9. How long we have to bear this anniversary and Sakshi tamsha, oh my Zoya is still in her friendship zone. We cant bear this.

10. Then comes the third angle, okay we switch off our tv sets till such a time that this actors role ends.

11. Finally from Nikaah to Shaadi, such a strange wedding, to promote other serials, some ramdom actors come and arrange the rituals, vfx snake from Naagin is also there. Where is our old Bepannaah. We will skip the episodes till Zoya and Adi reach Hooda house.

12.OMG no romance and BM track has started. We are so done with this show.

13. We had to bear rajma, warshad? Wanjana now its Zoya vs Anjana

Saas Bahu concept. Okay i better watch Kzk why BP.

14. Last but not the least religion, rituals, festivals, birthdays, anniversaries , celebrations are either not shown properly or there is no need for the story line to consider all this? Sentiments are effected. We dont to do anything with this show.

15. Dupes, BD, bad editing , loose ends, unfinished tracks especially of Arnoor where before a track begins it ends. Cant stand all this. Goodbye

If each and every section of the fandom and viewers give up on BP, what is this if not hypocrisy.

Actually religion and God has nothing to do with BP, most of the characters are atheists.

Its nothing but a bad phase, bad luck which has no end.

This one was best lol.. if your in Twitter please post this

this is all happened in Twitter you no what by the 2nd week when I Own you promo came all are started bashing Adi like one more gul type ML came this show turn out be same ITV show and still they saying same

and in the office track which not even started saying same old office romance gonna to came I'm quitting

and when the TRP was 2.2 in being some said this show it's TRP drama only by mentioning mathu Zoya SAAS bahu scene

^The most common complain of people who stopped watching the show is they expected this show to be a realistic drama with lots of logic in every episode. I am telling u all, if this show had not turned into a typical daily soap in the second week then it would not have survived for 7 months. It's trp would have gone below 1 long back. It's surviving only because it's typical daily soap.

Originally posted by: Harshadholic

Okay

1. We cannot understand why two strangers will fall in love because their respective partners had an affair and were bumped off, so we quit

2. Why did Zoya who knows absolutely nothing about business and aditya come together to run the deceased Yash aroras financially sick company, sorry makes no sense hence we quit.

3. Why is aditya hooda a 32 year old successful pilot behaving like a child, pumping his own money to pay Yash aroras debts just to check and challenge Zoya, create all sort of obstacles , irritate her , eat her head and then save her. Boss this is contradictory, aditya hooda is not my cup of tea so we quit

4. Why is Zoya not like Maya, which women of this age is so dumb, meek, abla nari, submissive, why cant she give it back like Maya. Maya fans ? Zoya can never be Maya. Thats it bye. Major loss of fans actually.

5. Bela track, so damn boring, rajma , adma ka sadma, virani , rajveer, court case. Random tracks, no cause and effect. Cbi and lawyers are made to look like cartoon characters. Jungle track is to fill episodes. Jail and water tank clips are a rip off from popular soaps. No content. See you bye.

6. Pak poosh and dairy, a woman glorifying her husbands love affair, greatest sin on this earth, mil , wife making adi a scapegoat. Sorry we were watching this show only for Jenshad but this too much. Bye and we will never come back.

Forced leap by makers

7. How can Zoya successfully run this her event management company , no flash backs, abrupt transition from someone who knew nothing to a successful business woman. Where is adi, what was he doing in Paris, we havent got any episodes about Paris

8. How can Adi be Zoyas best friend? She cant notice the physical chemistry and the vibes from this person. Aditya has so much time to realise this love, this woman has no feelings. Zoyas character isnt upto the mark , so we quit

9. How long we have to bear this anniversary and Sakshi tamsha, oh my Zoya is still in her friendship zone. We cant bear this.

10. Then comes the third angle, okay we switch off our tv sets till such a time that this actors role ends.

11. Finally from Nikaah to Shaadi, such a strange wedding, to promote other serials, some ramdom actors come and arrange the rituals, vfx snake from Naagin is also there. Where is our old Bepannaah. We will skip the episodes till Zoya and Adi reach Hooda house.

12.OMG no romance and BM track has started. We are so done with this show.

13. We had to bear rajma, warshad? Wanjana now its Zoya vs Anjana

Saas Bahu concept. Okay i better watch Kzk why BP.

14. Last but not the least religion, rituals, festivals, birthdays, anniversaries , celebrations are either not shown properly or there is no need for the story line to consider all this? Sentiments are effected. We dont to do anything with this show.

15. Dupes, BD, bad editing , loose ends, unfinished tracks especially of Arnoor where before a track begins it ends. Cant stand all this. Goodbye

If each and every section of the fandom and viewers give up on BP, what is this if not hypocrisy.

Actually religion and God has nothing to do with BP, most of the characters are atheists.

Its nothing but a bad phase, bad luck which has no end.

@subha BP was never supposed to be a show like POW bandi yudh ke. People need to know it was a superb story with no usual trp drama and it aired at 10:30 in SP. The max trp it got was 0.6 and thankfully it was a finite series of 120 episodes. Even then SP cut its 7 episodes as trp went as low as 0.3.People need to understand BP is trying to tell a story within the restraint of a daily soap. It's scripted compared to many other soaps that are airing and its script is its problem too. As people don't have patience seeing drama after drama in narration style.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@nayana I am a feminist. I have fought my way through a very patriarchal community. Coming to name. You have not understood me. During grihapravesh mil calls u the name and u have to respond yes. The power to call u a name rest with your mil not u. At that time either u can respond yes or create a scene there. Now a days many new MILs decide not to change their DIL name and at that time call her with maiden name. For me that's the best way of changing tradition. When u have power use it the right way so that atleast in ur family the regressive tradition is stopped and soon what happens in the family becomes the norm. That is what u call bloodless revolution or revolution of love. It was me who started the trend of wearing thin mangalsutra instead of heavy chain put during wedding. I spoke to my husband on the difficulty to wear it due to practical reason of travelling alone to work. He obliged and got me a trendy chain. Now among both our relatives along with heavy chain,thin chain is put during wedding itself. One family statement and other wearable option. I also don't wear sindoor or toe ring or the sacred thread. None complains. So it is up to u how to change also.u can shout and change. Or u can wait for the right time to initate change which will give peace also.

@shruthi you got me wrong. I fully agree with what you say about bloodless revolution ...ie if that is possible in every case.You are lucky you were able to make the changes subtly ...not everyone has the ability. your education helped yo to do it the right way. And your will to accept and adjust. not all can comprehend the results of compromise and not all reap the rewards of compromise.In some cases the more they have compromised the more they have been oppressed making revolt a necessity.

But the bigger picture should be for a silent, bloodless, tactful revolution. There I agree with you. But the majority do not fall in your category. In north India as well we have name changes at the time of marriage. My brother's wife's name was changed as we already has another family member with that name ...not as a traditional custom...but my sil revolted and insisted on keeping her maiden name leading of course to much confusion and sometimes hilarious situations in the family.