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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with ur every word. No matter what intention Waseem has, but he doesn't get a right to fix Zoya's alliance against her wish. His protectiveness or hatred for Adi or anything else...nothing can justify this!
N about thinking about Zoya's past, well that has been my complaint with the story since Adi's realisation episodes. There are just not bothered to link the present with their past. AdiYa accepted their mistakes, apologised to their late spouses, immersed their pic in the lake n bid them aakhri alvida n that was it!!! It looks as if they have taken some oath that they won't even take PooSh's name! But this is not how a person moves on in a moment. It is a continuous process, isn't it? I m glad that they are over them in their routine life, but this is unbelievable that their past doesn't haunt them even in the situations like love n marriage etc. I still have my hopes that one day we will get an elaborate intensely emotional scene on this where they connect their past, present and future, have their respective insecurities n help each other deal with them, feel the differences n emerge stronger. That's when the "move on" stage will be completed according to me.

N Roshana being the mother of Zoya, I hope she understands the emotional turmoil this alliance brings in her daughter's life n she has a word of wisdom with her rather that being a spineless wife to Waseem.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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The real questions raised kind of get lost in the comments. Isn't it high time in Dramas to show that a woman can have a say. Why in Indian dramas a daughter can only show her love or respect for family by following each and every order of family. Isn't a person has more right upon their own life? Can't she object the decisions thrown her way without discussions or getting her side of the story? If she did then how she is disrespecting her father or family? I NEVER get this logic. To agree for marriage just because your father said so.. for whatever reason it may be.. sounds sical and illogical and impractical . Almost all the dramas are based on this logic, either she gets married due to some so called "majburi" or family ijjat against her wishes. What message are we trying to convey here??

But yeah if you keep all logic aside and see it as just some timepass (though shows highly impact audiences) then yeah whatever is going.. let we also go with flow.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thanks for all your input guys, I'm going to wait to watch the episode later and then respond to you all individually. I'm just so confused about what's going through Waseem & Roshana's head...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nerdgal

I know Ishana. I agree with you.

She has gone through so much. And yet her parents seem like kuch bhi ho gaye par Aditya Hooda se dur rakho. Chahe usse pasand ho ya na ho.


I don't like Wasim from before. But Roshana I really did not like her today.


I was ok with Waseem, he reminds me of my dad and most desi fathers I know who are overprotective but he really crossed a line with this marrying Arshad crap. I'm so over Roshana🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cherryfairy

Totally agree. Why force her to meet this guy arshad when she has made it clear she is not interested. I am surprised too as why neither of them have thought of the fact that Zoya was married before for 5 years, yash cheated on her. She would be scared of marrying again.

It really sickens me. After watching the episode too, when she tried to open up to Arshad about her past he brushed it off🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: shabla

I agree with you...zoya loved yash soo much that she left her parents for him and lived in her own world were yash was her everything...and what she got in return?? Her husband of 5 years cheated on her with someone else wife and even impregnated her...how can a women who have gone through all this feel good about getting married again...how can she even imagine the horror of falling in love again...Siddiqui parents need to understand their daughter..She has the right to take her own decisions...


Pooja was preggers with Adi's baby, not Yash's 😕
Though I concur with you.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Tulips-

Waseem never thought of Zoya marriage in those 6 months. In fact, he was happy with the way Zoya's life was shaping. He never really thought that Zoya needs a life partner. There's another major reason Waseem was happy with Zoya's life was there was no Aditya in her life. When she went to the cross to pray, he told Roshna that happiness is in their lives because Aditya is no more part of their lives.

After Zoya brought Aditya back into her life by risking her own career, Waseem got panicked. He is scared that just like she brought Adi back into her life, she may even choose him as her life partner and if he refuses, she will again revolt and leave him. So before she takes any such step, Waseem thought if he brings a third person, that is, Zoya's husband between AdiYa then Zoya will have no choice but to leave Adi.

Waseem only wants to throw Aditya out of Zoya's life that's why he's forcing her to marry Arshad but little does he know that AdiYa bond is so strong that it may be little shaken due to turbulences but will never break. It didn't break even when AdiYa were away from each other for 6 months. It will never break no matter how many Arshads Waseem brings.

I liked the precap where Zoya made it clear to Waseem that she's not going to leave Adi. For her, only friendship matters and not love. She has already chosen Adi over Arshad. Now if Arshad and Waseem still try to break AdiYa bond, they will never be successful


It baffles me how a father, who is supposed to love and protect his daughter more than anyone else in the world, literally is asking his daughter to give her life away to another man in order to satisfy his whim of keeping her away from Aditya. Wth is wrong with the Siddiquis?

What surprises me as well is how they don't take Zoya's thought processes into considerations at all. It's like they're punishing her for her mistake of marrying Yash.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cherryfairy

Mujhe toh ek baat samaj nahi arahi hai why few ppl are worried that Zoya will fall for arshad 🤣 I read someone's tweet 😆 audience are not stupid to accept anything cvs throw at them and
neither cvs are stupid to show something like this 😆 Zoya saw Anjana in the hospital which indicates she will be the first to know about that psycho lady's real face and for her to expose Anjana, Zoya has to become hooda house's bahu and be there for Aditya when he comes to know about his mom. This arshad is only here for a month maybe less depending on ratings.

The way she was looking at Arshad in the hospital today was probably why everyone went overboard. Our fandom is notorious for overanalyzing the slightest of details😆
I think she may see reason in marrying Arshad, though I don't think she'll fall for him.
I'm so glad to know Arshad is a finite character, he's eye candy but this third angle makes no sense and jealous Adi is behaving kind of crazy tbh.😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet0910

Waseem is hopeless typical conservative father who wants n thinks that watever they think abt their child is the best decision n they have seen the world more so they knw better n hence forces their decision on their children n a child is left with no choice but to accept it under their pressure. 😡

What I'm surprised is that this is the same Zoya who had told her father that she is going to do as she pleases and he can't stop her when she wanted to open back PooSh's case. Waseem is stupid to think he can control her
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mans1234

the only reason why wasim is doing this to throw out aditya from zoya's life .. hmm lil does he know that by doing this he just bought them even more closer ...

he vl surely put pressure on zoya and may be zoya vl be pushed to accept the same ..
but in all this AdiYa vl just get more closer ..

hmm Arshad seems too good to be true !!! lets c how things turn up ..



Waseem is ruining his daughter's life tying her to a loveless marriage in order to just keep her away from Aditya🤢 I really don't understand his problem with Aditya in the first place.

Arshad doesn't seem good at all to me 😆 I hated how he brushed off Zoya when she was telling him about her previous marriage, like dude maybe she wanted to tell you she's not ready?

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