Zoya is not a child, stop treating her like one.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey everyone, I haven't seen the whole episode yet but I have seen bits on instagram including the precap and there is something that really bothers me about Zoya's parents.
I know it is every parents' wish to see their child well settled and married, but aren't children allowed to have feelings too?
Why do Waseem and Roshana (Roushanak?) keep forcing Zoya to interact with Arshad when she has told them a million times she is not interested. She agreed to meet with him for sake of working in Hooda house but why does Waseem think one meeting will change a betrayed widow's perception on marriage?

Roshana who was giving Zoya such hardcore life advice about how she failed to be a good wife was asking Zoya to be silent when she was voicing her disinterest in Arshad baffled me. Roshana, herself, pointed out the failings in ZoSh's marriages yet she expects her daughter to jump in that same "aag ka dariya" she once went through again? And even if Roshana asked her to be quiet because Arshad was there, shouldn't they just be transparent with him? Why are they so afraid of hurting his feelings yet no one gives a damn about what Zoya thinks.

Why is no one concerned that Zoya's past still might've scarred her? ZoSh were married for 5 years. Zoya loved Yash and he cheated on her then died with his lover. Why is no one having a conversation about that? Zoya has moved on from her past but any girl would be scared of a marriage again after what Zoya went through.

Heck, even if she's not scared. The Siddiqui parents have no right to keep pressuring their child to marry this guy.
I'm not saying this blinded by the intent that I want her to marry Aditya, not Arshad, but rather as a woman. It's high time everyone starts taking a girl's choices into consideration.

In the original title song, there is a line "bikri hoon har jagah main ret ki tarah" during the female part and it's sooo apt for Zoya. She's always spread apart to others' whims.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I know Ishana. I agree with you.

She has gone through so much. And yet her parents seem like kuch bhi ho gaye par Aditya Hooda se dur rakho. Chahe usse pasand ho ya na ho.


I don't like Wasim from before. But Roshana I really did not like her today.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Totally agree. Why force her to meet this guy arshad when she has made it clear she is not interested. I am surprised too as why neither of them have thought of the fact that Zoya was married before for 5 years, yash cheated on her. She would be scared of marrying again.
Edited by Cherryfairy - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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They need to let her breath peacefully.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with you...zoya loved yash soo much that she left her parents for him and lived in her own world were yash was her everything...and what she got in return?? Her husband of 5 years cheated on her with someone else wife and even impregnated her...how can a women who have gone through all this feel good about getting married again...how can she even imagine the horror of falling in love again...Siddiqui parents need to understand their daughter..She has the right to take her own decisions...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Waseem never thought of Zoya marriage in those 6 months. In fact, he was happy with the way Zoya's life was shaping. He never really thought that Zoya needs a life partner. There's another major reason Waseem was happy with Zoya's life was there was no Aditya in her life. When she went to the cross to pray, he told Roshna that happiness is in their lives because Aditya is no more part of their lives.
After Zoya brought Aditya back into her life by risking her own career, Waseem got panicked. He is scared that just like she brought Adi back into her life, she may even choose him as her life partner and if he refuses, she will again revolt and leave him. So before she takes any such step, Waseem thought if he brings a third person, that is, Zoya's husband between AdiYa then Zoya will have no choice but to leave Adi.

Waseem only wants to throw Aditya out of Zoya's life that's why he's forcing her to marry Arshad but little does he know that AdiYa bond is so strong that it may be little shaken due to turbulences but will never break. It didn't break even when AdiYa were away from each other for 6 months. It will never break no matter how many Arshads Waseem brings.

I liked the precap where Zoya made it clear to Waseem that she's not going to leave Adi. For her, only friendship matters and not love. She has already chosen Adi over Arshad. Now if Arshad and Waseem still try to break AdiYa bond, they will never be successful
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Mujhe toh ek baat samaj nahi arahi hai why few ppl are worried that Zoya will fall for arshad 🤣 I read someone's tweet 😆 audience are not stupid to accept anything cvs throw at them and
neither cvs are stupid to show something like this 😆 Zoya saw Anjana in the hospital which indicates she will be the first to know about that psycho lady's real face and for her to expose Anjana, Zoya has to become hooda house's bahu and be there for Aditya when he comes to know about his mom. This arshad is only here for a month maybe less depending on ratings.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Waseem is hopeless typical conservative father who wants n thinks that watever they think abt their child is the best decision n they have seen the world more so they knw better n hence forces their decision on their children n a child is left with no choice but to accept it under their pressure. 😡
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Posted: 7 years ago
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the only reason why wasim is doing this to throw out aditya from zoya's life .. hmm lil does he know that by doing this he just bought them even more closer ...
he vl surely put pressure on zoya and may be zoya vl be pushed to accept the same ..
but in all this AdiYa vl just get more closer ..

hmm Arshad seems too good to be true !!! lets c how things turn up ..


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Posted: 7 years ago
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I am super uncomfortable with the Siddique's promoting Arshad as love interest for Zoya.
She does deserve a second chance, but what these have been doing...is it believable that a women who had been cheated can fall in and out of relationships so easily?? Especially when Zoya is so much more clear about her thoughts and feelings.
Sadly Siddique's haven't really felt herloss if they did they would have never taken a decision for her. Instead would have left it to her to decide the best.

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