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Posted: 7 years ago
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Aditya is still struggling with himself..he never showed any anger or frustration to zoya when she scolded him abt leaving..infact he couldn't even face her..likr zoya said..he knws he is wrong..he is wrong to run away like a coward..wrong to lie to closeones..hence he couldn't meet her eyes when she was scolding..becz thts against the very essence of aditya hooda..real aditya always faced his.problems..faught cried struggled but always let others be with him...this aditya is in trouble.. this.person is not yet over the guilt of being a big factor in his failed marrg..he needed support and assurance from that very night..but he was too.alone..and he went away.too soon to.paris for.anyone to.help him..he wanted to tell her its very difficult for.him to.leave but he had no other way ...but when she said she doesnt trust him..thts when he reacted..he showed anger..he treasures her trust more than.anything..thts the biggest factor in aditya zoyas relation...when zoya said tht..even though she is.literally right to.say that..from his.point of view..he was still hurt tht she said she didnt trust him..even tjough he lied abt.staying on..what he said abt leaving zoya has been difficult was truth..and she didnt believe him..
I agree his anger was pretty childish..and zoyas was matured..we got a glimpse of prrv zoya and aditya today..its not abt character growth..its their raw human feelings..i dnt want zoya or aditya to be always right and wrong..its always the middle.path in real.life...yes its selfishness to leave family..but how can one be selfless.whn all his being is suffering...and abt anger..when our closeones dnt understand our feelings..evrn if we dnt explain thm..we expect their full trust on us..thts whats going.on with aditya...both aditya and zoya behaved like normal real human beings..thst what i felt..
The good thing is..aditya wont go now..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I feel Adi is mature enough now but is not able to control his anger!
There is a difference between running away and taking time to understand yourself!!
Accept he is wrong, he shouldn't have lied.
But he is taking time to understand himself. I don't think that if you are taking time for yourself that means you are selfish.
He had moved on from Pooja but not himself. He is still left deep into guilt.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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And about anger thing he wasn't angry on her questioning him.. He was angry when she raised the topic of trust...
Personally speaking I will also get angry if a person I considered mine questions me about trust..
Though Zoya was right on her side at questioning him but Adi was also right on his side..

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Posted: 7 years ago
#24
I agree Adi was wrong today. Zoya's anger was justified. One thing I liked about Zoya today is she fought for his family and not for herself. What Adi did with her is called cheating and using her for his own benefit but she was more hurt that Adi is once again running away from his responsibilities and his family. She was upset that Adi was being a coward and running away from problems instead of facing them.

In the beginning of the episode, Adi said that Zoya and his family is not his destiny. He has to back for self discovery again. So what exactly did he discover about himself all these 6 months? He looked like a lost and depressed guy in Paris. After returning to India, he looks so much better.

How did he expect Zoya to understand him when he was proved to be a cheat and a coward?

Adi is still immatured impulsive childish and I don't think he is ever going to change. He just stopped being sarcastic and calm. If the cvs didn't change his characterization after 6 months leap then I don't think they will ever change him.

The problem is tomorrow he will save Zoya's life and Zoya will forget everything and become his friend. I hope from tomorrow onwards, Zoya will try to change him and make him more matured.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: deeps07

Aditya is still struggling with himself..he never showed any anger or frustration to zoya when she scolded him abt leaving..infact he couldn't even face her..likr zoya said..he knws he is wrong..he is wrong to run away like a coward..wrong to lie to closeones..hence he couldn't meet her eyes when she was scolding..becz thts against the very essence of aditya hooda..real aditya always faced his.problems..faught cried struggled but always let others be with him...this aditya is in trouble.. this.person is not yet over the guilt of being a big factor in his failed marrg..he needed support and assurance from that very night..but he was too.alone..and he went away.too soon to.paris for.anyone to.help him..he wanted to tell her its very difficult for.him to.leave but he had no other way ...but when she said she doesnt trust him..thts when he reacted..he showed anger..he treasures her trust more than.anything..thts the biggest factor in aditya zoyas relation...when zoya said tht..even though she is.literally right to.say that..from his.point of view..he was still hurt tht she said she didnt trust him..even tjough he lied abt.staying on..what he said abt leaving zoya has been difficult was truth..and she didnt believe him..

I agree his anger was pretty childish..and zoyas was matured..we got a glimpse of prrv zoya and aditya today..its not abt character growth..its their raw human feelings..i dnt want zoya or aditya to be always right and wrong..its always the middle.path in real.life...yes its selfishness to leave family..but how can one be selfless.whn all his being is suffering...and abt anger..when our closeones dnt understand our feelings..evrn if we dnt explain thm..we expect their full trust on us..thts whats going.on with aditya...both aditya and zoya behaved like normal real human beings..thst what i felt..
The good thing is..aditya wont go now..



I Liked your comment. People here starts thinking that i am Opposing Aditya. I am not, i dont want perfect leads too. I just posted to get others POV. I want to know how others take the episode that's all.

I just want to understand Aditya a bit more. And i hope he will realize ZOYA's pov too. Running away neither did him any good in those 6 months nor it gonna help now. He needs to realize it. The decision of NOT going to Paris should not be only Zoya but that also that he can't move on without the help of near and dear ones.He needs to keep them in loop too.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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No No No ..I think adi's outburst was most natural given his character development and it's not really selfish ..he wants more time to introspect and what not ..he thinks the folks around him are better off without him ..he doesn't know what value he has in the lives' of his near and dear ones ..he has had the biggest jolt of his life ..his whole life thus far according to him had been a joke ..the one person he trusted in his whole life was pooja and she betrayed him without him even knowing he was partly at fault ..so come on ..we gotta cut him some slack ..he doesn't even know the existence of pure souls like zoya and doesn't even realize that he can have so much value in someone's life ...his leaving is not selfish ..it's just desperation to seek isolation to understand what went wrong ..i'm with him ..and I think zoya will make him realize his self worth ..so looking forward to this ..loving BP to the core and so happy that CVs didn't drag this fight and zoya is back to understanding Adi ..love the new segments and all ..


Originally posted by: alizia_malik



Exactly. I saw that selfish trait so clearly today. Only falling in love or being attracted to someone is so different then respecting that person. I think that's what they need to deal with from promo line " Bharose ka Rang". Just not going away to Paris now is not enough to say he has good intention or what not. He really needs to show care and respect for others. He has start priotizing others before him. Hope Zoya's love is gonna do that for him.

Edited by vandana21 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet0910

Yeah like i expected him to b a changed person after the leap who will think abt others b4 himself after self realisation n isolation bt it turned out he went just to run away frm everything n not for finding himself but just to find a new life in new place. N still is thinking only abt himself over others. Only zoyas growth is balanced now, y cant cvs balance both the leads growth equally. Y should he need only zoya to change him, y he cant do it himself? well but thats how indian dramas work. so b it.

How will u get the INTENSITY then😊
Ya it's Indian drama nd if Adi changes HIMSElf na no kick will be in story
Also ADI just don't know to move on as he was shown emotionally weaker than Zo before itself
He broke down in front of Zo many tyms earlier also
I think ZO changing/helping Adi will be one of the MOST INTENSE PHASE
So CVs planning for that I think
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenakkl

How will u get the INTENSITY then😊

Ya it's Indian drama nd if Adi changes HIMSElf na no kick will be in story
Also ADI just don't know to move on as he was shown emotionally weaker than Zo before itself
He broke down in front of Zo many tyms earlier also
I think ZO changing/helping Adi will be one of the MOST INTENSE PHASE
So CVs planning for that I think

Yeah that's wat i said too. Its just to add drama, angst n intensity they r showing adi such a selfish n weak character. I love adi n so dont want his character to b butchered. Like wen zoya was always crying n was doing wrong things ppl voiced their opinion abt zoya being shown as a weak character becos they didnt like it. They didnt care for her growth n intensity at that time too. Same way we r voicing our opinion abt how adis character rn is not very likeable n justifiable although we understand its required for the story to move forwrd in indian dramas. Simple.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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No dear he is not the same person. He is not that Aditya Hooda. He believed in himself, when he would say something then he directly saw the other person's eye. When Zoya was in denial mode that Aditya was shown her the light. But that Aditya was gone. Sakshi & Pooja's diary actually have killed that Aditya to prove their misdeeds right. Yup he was insane today to some extent but do you see his eyes? That says it all. He doesn't not believe in himself. He doesn't feel worthy of Zoya's friendship. But that person is continuously worried for Zoya. Yup from outside many person will think he is thinking only for himself. But here he is broken to an extent but apart from Zoya can anyone from his family finds tphat he behaves abnormally peaceful sometimes? Everybody has moved on but he has stood 6 months before. His time has stopped. He loved himself before. If anyone loves himself more that does not mean he is not matured. There is a say that if you can not love yourself then you can't love anyone. But for true happiness everybody has to move on. Zoya has moved on in real sense but Aditya has not. Move on does not mean he has to kill his inner child. Move on means he has to accept he is a human being. He has also many flaws. So he has to accept those flaws & rectify it. Pooja's diary & Sakshi's accusations have diverse affect on Aditya. Only Zoya can show this light to him. Zoya has to brought that self belief in Aditya but for this Aditya has to restored her faith. But he is falling for Zoya before actually moving on from his past. This is really going to be difficult for him.
Edited by CaramelCritters - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rabialuvsadiya

I Know adi was really at his fault what ever he says to Zoya was wrong and any person who get that level of angerness has a reason if u see that he was calm when Zoya was scolded him but not one but two tym he got frustrated when Zoya says how she can believe him again a d it is obvious adi had broke her trust how can she trust him believe him.

But one thing also adi got frustrated due to trust factor.
You saw in that truck scene even in court track he wants only Zoya trust and understanding which Totally lack there may be he got irritated may be he wants Zoya to understand his pain but it didn't happen may be it is reason.
But trust me my heart goes to Zoya today adi should had share her should not had lie to her.



Actually my heart goes out to Adi.I feel Zoya is being selfish and thinking for herself ...humare azeez dost. If that is so why can she not understand his angst? He is full of pain when he says how difficult it is for him to be away from her but Zoya is looking at the situation from her side only...not his. That is the feeling I got specially with HC's matured acting.

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