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Posted: 7 years ago
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Its getting too much now. Complaints, complaints n complaints. We complain a lot with every track. Y do we want a perfect storywriting n flawless show? Cant we b happy with anything? Some wanted zoya to change n become strong n not be so weak n cranky baby b4 leap n so they complained abt her character weakness. N now wen we got a confident n strong bubbly zoya with her innocence n naivety intact then also we r not satisfied? Actually wat do we want? Some want adi to b back to his old self soon, some want him to return to his pilot job, some want him to go to mussorie n find poosh mystery along with zoya, some want zoya to become shy n awkward every time she sees adi like older zoya used to feel n some want her to understnd adi by seeing his face that something is wrong with him. So many things we all want n so little patience.
Oh now some wants them to live in past n keep remembering poosh n their fbs! Why should they remember cheater poosh n their fbs wen its already a closed chapter? To have more pain?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rs..shailu29



ppl sometime takes that route of changing themselves if they are attached to someone they try to take there behavior to themselves ...

losing a close one makes them do so ..
my experience when i lost my mom i started of behaving like her until my hubby pointed it out .
if the person is close to ur heart ppl tend to inherit them completely ..

serial it is shown ott 😆


You guys make sense, but sighhh! I wish I could share the excitement as well. Something's not working for me. Perhaps, I just need a break, or give the writers some time.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet0910

Its getting too much now. Complaints, complaints n complaints. We complain a lot with every track. Y do we want a perfect storywriting n flawless show? Cant we b happy with anything? Some wanted zoya to change n become strong n not be so weak n cranky baby b4 leap n so they complained abt her character weakness. N now wen we got a confident n strong bubbly zoya with her innocence n naivety intact then also we r not satisfied? Actually wat do we want? Some want adi to b back to his old self soon, some want him to return to his pilot job, some want him to go to mussorie n find poosh mystery along with zoya, some want zoya to become shy n awkward every time she sees adi like older zoya used to feel n some want her to understnd adi by seeing his face that something is wrong with him. So many things we all want n so little patience.

Oh now some wants them to live in past n keep remembering poosh n their fbs! Why should they remember cheater poosh n their fbs wen its already a closed chapter? To have more pain?


I am not complaining. Just expressing myself.
I even admitted that it maybe my own bias that's clouding my judgement. I think we should let people convey their povs, instead of developing a herd mentality.
If someone feels Adiya should remember Poosh because it feels a little unnatural for them to not mention them at all then I think we should let them.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Flame.


@Bold - that's the exact Zoya that I loved and adored as I said in my original post. But, for some reason I unable to wrap my head around the current Zoya given the context. Apologies for miserably failing to pinpoint my exact grouse with the current situation, but I can't help but feel that there is something amiss. I am only guessing it is the change in Zoya that I feel is a little OTT - and its not Jenny's acting I am talking about. Perhaps, the writers should have shown the change happening gradually and not have straight away jumped 6 months ahead - again i am only guessing ( I know I am being annoying with my 'guesses', but can't help 😆)

On the other hand, I feel they have handled Adi pretty well. Despite showing him depressed and tired, they have still retained some old part of his character which is his core nature - childish. I don't think Adi will ever give up his childish acts as its just part of who he is, and even in a depressed state of mind it still somehow comes out when he is with his friend Zoya. But, his current childishness is clearly different from his previous behavior. Earlier he used to be carefree types, but now it feels like he is burdened or tired even when he smiles, or indulges in kiddish acts like flower stealing and stuff. He was normal when he spoke to Zoya, smiled and all, yet something seemed off about him. It wasn't the old Adi at all and i am surprised Zoya didn't pick it up or even ask him if everything was okay with him. When you're depressed only someone who really knows you well can detect the problem, as it doesnt always mean being externally gloomy 24/7. Despite his childish acts, the change in Adi is very clearly visible.

I agree with u on it. I too feel they shouldn't have shown the leap. I wanted to see how Zoya solved problems by thinking the way Adi thought, how she made ZoSh successful in mere 6 months when Yash failed to do so in so many years. Even though I too miss that innocent Zoya but I am liking independent Zoya too. Maybe because we're not used to seeing FLs like her. We all know how FLs of other shows are. Zoya is quite progressive compared to other FLs. I loved yesterday's scene where the constable wanted to talk to Aditya but Zoya arrived and handled the situation all by herself. That's called Feminism. In all daily soaps, we have seen the men handling such situations but for the first time, we saw a woman handling such kind of situation perfectly even in the presence of the ML. I would rather want to see this Zoya everytime.

Aditya looked depressed till Wednesday's episode. Yesterday he looked fine to me. He has toned out a bit though, he is not that talkative and sarcastic but still I saw the old Adi yesterday in his scenes with Zoya and Arjun and that's why I am not able to connect to him. I still feel they should have given at least a week time to Adi to change himself.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Flame.


I am not complaining. Just expressing myself.
I even admitted that it maybe my own bias that's clouding my judgement. I think we should let people convey their povs, instead of developing a herd mentality.
If someone feels Adiya should remember Poosh because it feels a little unnatural for them to not mention them at all then I think we should let them.

I m just saying the world doesnt revolve around us n doesnt act according to wat we wish. Ppl can ofcourse have different povs but is it healthy to always keep complaining abt each n everything thats not going according to wat we wish to see? Isnt there a thing called patience n adjustment? I m sorry to say but i m really tired n sick of ppl always complaining abt each n everything since start. i have been on this forum since start n never saw even one day without someone complaining abt one thing or other. So much a person can bear thats y i vented it out now. We should learn to actually ignore minor flaws n loopholes if we want to enjoy a show. same goes for life too. We cant enjoy life if we dont ignore small prblms n worries of life. At the end of the day even God cant satisfy all human beings with all their wishes, then we cant expect perfection frm human cvs who will satisfy all the wishes of so many different fans of the show.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet0910

Its getting too much now. Complaints, complaints n complaints. We complain a lot with every track. Y do we want a perfect storywriting n flawless show? Cant we b happy with anything? Some wanted zoya to change n become strong n not be so weak n cranky baby b4 leap n so they complained abt her character weakness. N now wen we got a confident n strong bubbly zoya with her innocence n naivety intact then also we r not satisfied? Actually wat do we want? Some want adi to b back to his old self soon, some want him to return to his pilot job, some want him to go to mussorie n find poosh mystery along with zoya, some want zoya to become shy n awkward every time she sees adi like older zoya used to feel n some want her to understnd adi by seeing his face that something is wrong with him. So many things we all want n so little patience.

Oh now some wants them to live in past n keep remembering poosh n their fbs! Why should they remember cheater poosh n their fbs wen its already a closed chapter? To have more pain?


It's literally not possible for everyone to like every aspect of a show at any given time. Our expectations vary vastly and so does our perception of what we consider as organic progression of a storyline and the characters.

IMO this makes for an engaging viewing experience. We get to share our different interpretations and (in some cases) try to convince others why our POV makes more sense. If everyone reserves any concerns, dissatisfaction they have till they see what's going to happen next then there will hardly be any discussion. It will mostly be gushing and fangirl-ing. I'm just really glad that people are being so thoughtful and polite in critiquing.


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Posted: 7 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: geet0910

Its getting too much now. Complaints, complaints n complaints. We complain a lot with every track. Y do we want a perfect storywriting n flawless show? Cant we b happy with anything? Some wanted zoya to change n become strong n not be so weak n cranky baby b4 leap n so they complained abt her character weakness. N now wen we got a confident n strong bubbly zoya with her innocence n naivety intact then also we r not satisfied? Actually wat do we want? Some want adi to b back to his old self soon, some want him to return to his pilot job, some want him to go to mussorie n find poosh mystery along with zoya, some want zoya to become shy n awkward every time she sees adi like older zoya used to feel n some want her to understnd adi by seeing his face that something is wrong with him. So many things we all want n so little patience.

Oh now some wants them to live in past n keep remembering poosh n their fbs! Why should they remember cheater poosh n their fbs wen its already a closed chapter? To have more pain?


Nobody's complaining. It's a healthy discussion about what people are liking or not liking about the show. Everybody doesn't see the show with the same perspective, right? We can agree to disagree with each other.
I don't want them to live in the past. I just feel that it's unnatural for them to not even mention their spouses once in a while. They were in love with Pooja and Yash and they were married to them, it's only natural that sometimes you miss them even though you don't want to. I'd have loved to see Zoya's monologue on how she proved Yash wrong about judging her intellect and how she actually proved her worth by making Zosh a success. Anyway, to each his own.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Tulip - I love the independant Zoya and was quite sad when I thought Zosh would shut down permanently after it got locked during the Jungle track, as I never wanted Zoya to return to Mussorie and her protected castle there, and yes, needless to say I liked yesterday's scene as well. This is the only Hindi show I watch right now, so no idea about other shows, but I am aware about the trend of the OTT, super chirpy female leads.
I am not really complaining about the scenes, as I think they are very very adorable. But like you are unable to connect to Adi, I am unable to connect to anything right now. I am obviously willing to give it all time though.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#39
i feel zoya is almost the same it is just that she is more confident and vocal with everyone ..
in 6 months lots of things have changed for Zoya and that journey has not been shown to us hence may be feel like that ..
Zoya is the same with Aditya .. she is still very frank to aditya the way she was prior to leap .. its just that circumstances prior to leap was a lil tensed but she has never been hesitant to say anything to aditya.. whether she was angry, upset or irritated with him she has been honest to him n confronted him upfront ..

she has been comfortable back then to express her thoughts and it is the same now ..

Its just Post leap life is good for zoya so she is all cool and happy with him ... after 6 months gap she is too excited to share everything .. so it is okk ..so when she hugged Aditya it was a friendly and an innocent hug to a friend .. its just aditya was taken aback with the change .. he dint expect ..

They were always very good friends who have gone out of their way to help each other .. so i dont find anything weird nor i thought she is too comfortable .. she has always been at ease with him ..

coming to aditya .. i m lil confused as to what it is going in his head ..why he came for few days and why he wants to leave asap ... i think we all assuming he came due to zoya's speech but there could be more to it .. so i guess few more episodes we vl get his side .. just one monologue of aditya and it vl be clear ..


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet0910

I m just saying the world doesnt revolve around us n doesnt act according to wat we wish. Ppl can ofcourse have different povs but is it healthy to always keep complaining abt each n everything thats not going according to wat we wish to see? Isnt there a thing called patience n adjustment? I m sorry to say but i m really tired n sick of ppl always complaining abt each n everything since start. i have been on this forum since start n never saw even one day without someone complaining abt one thing or other. So much a person can bear thats y i vented it out now. We should learn to actually ignore minor flaws n loopholes if we want to enjoy a show. same goes for life too. We cant enjoy life if we dont ignore small prblms n worries of life. At the end of the day even God cant satisfy all human beings with all their wishes, then we cant expect perfection frm human cvs who will satisfy all the wishes of so many different fans of the show.


Geet, like you said we all need to make adjustments when it comes to life, but this is a freaking TV show, and I believe people do deserve to complain, rant, or rave about what they want or what they don't want in a show. Even the highest rated shows like Game of thrones have complaining fans, and it only helps the show when the fans are having a healthy discussion. From the time I have been on the BP forum, I haven't seen a single hater here, therefore, if there are differing opinions, it only shows people are expectant and want more from the show.

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