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'U weren' perfect... Ur marriage wasnt perfect'...
'U had ur mistakes... U never understood her'...
Hey ppl... u myt hav understood to whom does the above lines refer to?!... Here I mnt gonna takes sides or support Adi's impulsive nature, his wrong act of arresting Dr Innayat etc etc... I m gonna talk of the emotional hit which he got frm evrybody in the wrong way!
The above lines r something evryone told him... be it Sakshi, Arjun, Zoya... directly or indirectly!! N ya agree with them... completely agree! Adi had his own set of mistakes... yday when he said he was perfect... he was wrong! (I felt it was ryt if we talk of loyalty...) I mnt cvs to justify Poosh EMA... but my point is AdiYa wr somewhere wrong (whch doesnt give license to Poosh to betray them)
So let's see... the following characters n the way they tried to make Adi understand his flaws n faults!
Pooja - The wrong but portrayed as bechaari girl!... His childhood bestfrnd, wife... she tried to make him realise what she wanted... poetry, party etc etc... but she nver spoke to him directly of what she actually felt n needed! Infact I feel she just gave up on him n her marriage the moment she fell in love with Yash! The things she actually had to say Adi... she went on writing in that diary?! Like dea... things don' get solved by calling ur partner kiddish or naive n gng on writing it in the diary being a victim! All she ever said to him is 'Tum bade kab honge?'... N knowing Adi she knew Adi wud come to know nothing from it!
Sakshi - The so called mother of Adi since so many years!... What did she do to Adi? When Pooja betrayed Adi... she supported Pooja... even convinced her to come back... without Adi knowing it! Adi wud stay in his la a land of evrything being ryt n perfect!
After Pooja's death... Sakshi nvr confronted the broken Adi abt the same... or atleast made him understand his mistakes, Pooja's pov n her mistakes... nothing... she kept crying n evn even went on to say that 'Pooja didnt sign papers coz MAYBE she had changed her mind'
Did she evr sit beside him n tell him what he ought to know? NO
Infact... she went on to BLAME him NOT CORRECT him when he told her to leave the house n was already hurt by the fact Sakshi too betrayed him! Knowing him... was it the ryt time to say all that?!... I don' think so! She nvr revealed Pooja had his child n now went on to slap him when he uttered all that against her daughter... whereas she already knew... many things r still hidden from Adi!
Arjun - The person who has always been shown ryt! Adi's brother... the one close to him... All this time... he had Pooja's diary... the diary which she has been read by Adi first! He read it... kept quite n then handed that diary to Zoya!! Did he ever try to tell Adi... that this is what Pooja felt n expected?!... Did he ever give that diary to Adi n tried correcting him?! NO. All he did was understand Pooja but not his own brother... n while leaving the house... BLAME Adi n leave?!
Zoya - The one who once told him she trusts him the most n then the same one who blamed him for what his father did! Zoya's words always affect Adi... n when she cud have actually made him realise his faults n flaws ... she went on to justify Pooja n Poosh along with it! They no more required anything... but it was Adi who requires to knw facts n truth! How can we expect Adi to agree to Zoya's 'U rnt perfect'... when at the same time she is calling that EMA 'paak'?! Zoya was ryt in understanding her mistakes... but this made her justify her husband's actions! She expects Adi to realise his mistakes but at the same time give Poosh izzat se alvida?! Was it evn even the ryt time to tell Adi he wasn' perfect n give their cheating spouses izzat se alvida... while handing over Pooja's pregnancy report n have undergone the same pain?! Knowing him... how cud she actually think he wud accept his mistakes... when he is being told his wife had someone's baby in her womb?!
How can anybody expect him to understand his faults when he wasn't evn made to understand n correct them... whereas he was just blamed for why his wife chose another man?!
The two lines at the beginning of the post ... which can shatter somebody... were the lines which shd hav been told to him in the right manner rather than blaming him at the wrong time!... Coz latter can obviously take that person in denial!!
