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@esha yes Zoya had truly loved Yash. Yes Yash never tried to understand her.
@happy we will have to see how it goes.
@sonia if the child is Adi's then 🤢. This was what I had put in an earlier post also. The diary tells Adi was not satisfying her romantic needs. So let us say she fell out of love with him and started romancing Yash. But if she is carrying Adi's baby means, she was romancing Yash and at the same time sleeping with Adi. What a mess. What did she wanted for God's sake. If she loved Yash, she can go fine. But how can she decide for Adhi's kid without letting him know. How can she abort his baby or how can she allow Yash to give baby his name hiding the truth from Adi. Adi has a right on the baby. And if Sakshi Mata knew this, how in the world she also hid this from Adi. How can both mother and daughter deny Adi the right on his child.
@vintage sorry dear I am not aware of any such thread.
@priyyam thank you. yes if we understand our epics all the knowledge is there not just to see the difference of Ram and Ravan but also to recognize Ravan who has the mask of Ram.😃
@Soverign Zoya sacrificied her family for being with Yash and Pooja was willing to sacrifice Adi for Yash. The question is was this man worthy of such a thing. He was borrowing left, right, centre, didnt had a steady career. Never tried to build a proper family life with his wife. Only knew some words and had charms to woo the woman. But yes both the ladies wanted Yash.
@Hend dear Hend though I dont want to delve into religious aspect in deeper sense, if your religion has taught the woman has the right to correct the husband if he goes wrong, the women in your community need not have to knock at the door of Supreme Court to get justice for being the victims of Triple talaq. Yes I know as per your religion there are certain guidelines given for doing talaq. I have listened to those debates where many knowledgeable people from your community were speaking on how it should be done the right way. But there was another section who vociferously argued for instant talaq even through whatsapp as valid and woman is on the streets with kids.
In Hinduism also there are clear guidelines given for the duties of husband and wife. Infact our epic Ramayana shows the way to live the life right way as Narayan himself came with his consort Mahalakshmi and lived the life of the normal human being going through all trials and tribulations. It is not some words that are written for us on how to lead a good life, but in fact our God has shown us how to live with his life. It is not preaching, it is in action. And that knowledge of living a good life is given to Arjuna by Sri Krishna during Mahabharatha war which we call Bhagavad Gita. That book is life. Secondly in Hinduism woman are not asked to follow husband alone, but husband also has to follow his wife. The saptapadi or seven rounds husbands walks in front for four rounds and wife walks in front for three rounds. It is she who completes the marriage. The right to put the garland is given to the lady first in our religion.
But unfortunately just like the feud of triple talaq these noble things are hidden and wherever men get right to assert themselves get highlighted. I only mentioned that in my post.
Secondly u said if your husband is wrong you have to correct. How do you know he is wrong. Our epics Ramayana and Mahabharatha gives guideline here also with the leading ladies of both epics standing up for themselves. Sita in rejecting Rama and doing bhoomipravesh and Panchali by questioning the adharma in the infamous hall of dice and refusing to adhere to husband's decision of keeping her as a pawn in the game of dice.
But how many read, understand these things. If everyone takes it the right way then people dont have to fight for gender equality.
Jhanak
