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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont get it .. how is she cheapening the marriage? Seriously i dont get it! Now i might just fear hugging my cousin and doing some cute handshakes in front of my husband because am cheapening my marriage.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with u...aliya could hv understood after all party drama wht exactly zain is feeling abt her relationship with zubbu bt instead of clearing his doubts she went to her parents house thereby leaving a msg n putting all d fault on zain..though i dn't mind her going to bhopal bt she must first hv clear the misunderstandings...n if she really wants to discuss her prbs abt her relationship with zain then aayat is there living with her in the same house...y she chooses zubbu instead of her...i mean if i hv my real sis n cousin bro i will defo discuss my prbs with my sis rather than my cousin bro doesn't matter how close we r in childhood.Itz ok if u r too close with ur cousins bt after marriage things change a lot.If anybody is there in zain's place he will definately get jealous...so i think zain is right at his place.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Gaganjot-

I dont get it .. how is she cheapening the marriage? Seriously i dont get it! Now i might just fear hugging my cousin and doing some cute handshakes in front of my husband because am cheapening my marriage.

certain mindsets never change, Gagu, and we still harbour those thoughts where a relation of boy and girl other than siblings is constantly scrutinized
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I won't respond to bashing posts , personal comments or report 😊


i simply want CVs to read a contrary view . Giving space does not mean walking out on a marraige for some stupid third person . After what he was exposed to for days why won't he slosh himself with drinks then what he will slosh himself with sharbat ? And believe implicitly in wife ? I so disagree .


She has not walked out on the marriage!!! She even said in her letter that she will come back, how much more explanation do you want?! And what about what Aaliya was exposed to for months? I don't see you mentioning that, shouldn't she be able to retaliate for that, what she has faced is much worse than what Zain has faed. Accused of robbery, twice, being shouted at by Zain for no reason, continuously being reminded that she has no place in Zain's life etc... But still she hadn't left and she still hasn't left.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey Kool, I didn't know you watch BI too. Yes, it annoyed me that Aaliya failed to understand why Zain was so hurt in regards to Zubbu but I do not blame her for leaving. It is like Aaliya told Zain, one minute he is sweet to her and the next he treats her like crap. I'm glad there is space between them and am happy about the fact Zain is not running to bring her back home right away, let them be apart from each other for a while, it is needed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SunShine_A

certain mindsets never change, Gagu, and we still harbour those thoughts where a relation of boy and girl other than siblings is constantly scrutinized


I know Ashlesha.. but this is disturbing. Being a woman, I find it as an insult. Its like questioning my character for the person who I am... Anyway for me both zain and aliyah have done good and bad things.. they are equally at fault for the confusion...but no one's intentions were to hurt the other...

Anyway am out 😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Im sorry to say but im highly dissapointed after reading ur post.
I dont think Aliya's behaviour was at all inappropriate.Zubbu is her cousin and best friend,They grew up togethor so obviously they share a special bond.Just becuz Aliya is married now she has to forget all the special people in her life and start ignoring them.Aliya didnt even hug Zubu they just shared their special hand shake and even when they danced there was distance between them.
I dont think a post like this would have would have been made if it was Zain instead of Aliya.
Its 1 sets of rule for boys and another for girls,Sad!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This post is another proof of why people say "A woman is another woman's biggest enemy."

However,Every opinion is welcome in such public forum but such opinion,atleast I don't welcome.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just because you share a good rapport with a opposite gender person marriage does not get cheapen
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Man, this was what I meant about Aaliya being put up on a pedestal...
Let me ask you something; did you actually watch the episode last night?
For one thing, Aaliya never said that she was wrong or was leaving him...she only said that she left to give him time to think about what happened. She clearly said that she would be back. So how on earth did you understand that she left for good? And for a third person? Don't make me laugh.
Suddenly, giving your husband place to think and considering his feelings is cheapening the marriage? Wow.

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