So disappointed- DT NOTE PG 11

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

Am i to understand that a wife has to act physical and pally with a male cousin in front of her husband all the time and expect ulta HIM to understand ?

And walk off to maika with attitude instead of correcting her own behaviour ?

And what should husband do ...tolerate this BULL like a wuss ? Then he is understanding and nice husband ? Why , just coz wife has pretty face ?

And should wife share husband wife secrets with outsider all the time and tell HIM her feelings and not talk to her husband and this is ok ?

Really ? What if Zain had acted this way with his female cousin under Aliya's nose ?

That Zubbu must be flung out of the house . Whole day he is between husband and wife and husband must listen like a wuss to endearment terms like Zubbu and Aalu without bristling ?

Where is the paak threshold of a muslim marraige which i love ?

Aaliya should come back on her own and apologize and Zubbu must be thrown out .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago

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Aishah Khan

@Aishahh_24

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Posted: 11 years ago

I had the SAME thoughts gosh!

After Zain told her clearcut what was troubling him and why he found Zubbu so irritating, YET it didn't click Aaliya's brain what Zain actually meant. I thought she would atleast apologize in the message. But no, Aaliya finds Zain wrong in all this, when it is clearly Aaliya's fault.

Having fun with your cousin is fine, but only to an extent. Why couldn't she see that it was irking Zain so much? She could've atleast cleared it out with Zain that, no, she doesn't have anything brewing with her cousin. But wow, she left to Bhopal to give him time for introspection when it is HER who needs time to sort out things.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

Please , CVs should not show such wrong things to young girls there about to get married , their marraige will end before it even began if they start behaving like Aaliya . No husband ...i repeat NO husband will like this kind of intimacy between his wife and male cousin . Zain was decent enough to let that Zubbu stay on in his house but that does not mean u should take advantage . Aaliya cheapened marraige , period . So sorry but pretty face is not the only rocking thing in marraige , cultured behaviour is too . She walked off to maika for a misunderstanding ...left marraige for that Zubbu ? And kootchie coos all day long with that Zubbu on the phone , in parties , in front of Zain and CVs r giving this bullshit a comedy flavour ? What , do we expect cuckolds for husbands or real men ? She should be blasted by her mother and Suraiyya both . And Zain should NOT go to fetch her at Bhopal she should come back on her own .

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Annie

@annie07

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Posted: 11 years ago

Really now? Which century you belong to?

Firstly she didnt get physical and he is her cousin and best friend. And We live in a progressive society where both husband and wife are equals...

Besides there is nothing wrong in sharing things with your cousin, or is it a prob coz he is male...

Yes, Zubbu's interference can be irritating, but Aaliya was unaware abt it causing misery to Zain and moment she did, she immediately stopped divulging details abt their relationship to him...

She has all right to walk out of the house, given the way her husband treated her and mouthed words to her ( coz if u didnt notice, he was no saint either, he sloshed himself with drinks and then went off dancing with others girls), but she hasnt left him, just gave him space...thats how u would expect a modern smart intelligent lady to behave

Lastly, I do not knw you are a girl or a boy, but either ways the mentality sucks...women arent doormat anymore...

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Aishah Khan

@Aishahh_24

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: annie07
Really now? Which century you belong to?

Firstly she didnt get physical and he is her cousin and best friend. And We live in a progressive society where both husband and wife are equals...

Besides there is nothing wrong in sharing things with your cousin, or is it a prob coz he is male...

Yes, Zubbu's interference can be irritating, but Aaliya was unaware abt it causing misery to Zain and moment she did, she immediately stopped divulging details abt their relationship to him...

She has all right to walk out of the house, given the way her husband treated her and mouthed words to her ( coz if u didnt notice, he was no saint either, he sloshed himself with drinks and then went off dancing with others girls), but she hasnt left him, just gave him space...thats how u would expect a modern smart intelligent lady to behave

Lastly, I do not knw you are a girl or a boy, but either ways the mentality sucks...women arent doormat anymore...

Your points are valid. I do agree. But how come Aaliya didn't realise when Zain gave her a hint so many times? I know it's fine to have fun with your cousins. I'm not against that fact, But here I don't like how Aaliya just left. She could've atleast told him that there is nothing wrong between her and Zubbu before leaving?

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Annie

@annie07

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Posted: 11 years ago

Married and soon to be married girls...should take lesson from Aaliya...

She was amazing and with such maturity she handled situation is what is expected for a successful marriage. She realised that he husband is upset, at something which is irrelevant and he needs to figure it out... Now had she tried to point it out, he would have been further angry or she could have resorted to tears

But she did the smartest thing...left him alone to introspect and think and realise what went wrong

and she doesnt even expect him to come and get her...she never said that, she said I will be back...Wow, what a woman...

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Annie

@annie07

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Aishahh_24

Your points are valid. I do agree. But how come Aaliya didn't realise when Zain gave her a hint so many times? I know it's fine to have fun with your cousins. I'm not against that fact, But here I don't like how Aaliya just left. She could've atleast told him that there is nothing wrong between her and Zubbu before leaving?

He never gave her any hint... till he manhandled her in party...

and besides, even Zain doesnt doubt that she has a thing with Zubbu, if u saw the episode yday...so why should she clarify that?

He was only irritated and angry at Zubbu's interference in their lives and his own insecurity that his love for Aaliya may not be reciprocated.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

Whatever I said has nothing to do with my gender or a woman being a doormat . Women not being a doormat does not mean u behave this way . U cheapen marraige and then stalk off to maika with attitude , and thats not being a doormat ?Wow .😆 Whatever happened to accepting responsibility of ur own deeds ? Women who r not doormats like their husbands acting this pally with girl cousins ? Women r not doormats then what men r impotent wusses who must never take offence and constantly look at their pretty thobda ? 👎🏼 for this stupid track and that irritating Zubbu is oh so not needed in this serial . And it won't do ANY harm to make Aaliya apologize for a change .

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addictv

@addictv

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Posted: 11 years ago

i DISAGREE !! coz both aloo n zubbu r not doing anything wrong..its just zain felt insecure, as for the first time he saw aaliya sharing her feeling with her childhood frnd( after zain falling for her)...

sumwhere zain also knows that aaliya wont cheat him...so DONT BLAME AALIYA FOR THIS !!