Originally posted by: IncyWincySpider
As far as i can remember, even if talaq is said thrice be it in the state of anger or not it is still considered as proper divorce and he can't take her back unless she marries someone else and vise versa...
It is not considered in anger that is true, they wait it out and land on a decision. Before divorce interference from elders of the family is also advised. The elders should sit with the couple and explain how disliked Divorce is by Allah and try and sort out the issue. There are many details.
Husband when gives divorce doesnt equate to get out of my house.
"O Prophet! when you divorce women, divorce them for their prescribed time, and calculate the number of the days prescribed, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah, your Lord. Do not drive them out of their houses, nor should they themselves go forth, unless they commit an open indecency; and these are the limits of Allah, and whoever goes beyond the limits of Allah, he indeed does injustice to his own soul. You do not know that Allah may after that bring about reunion. "
Surah talaq verse 1
Also the husbands can take back their wife before the time of iddat, and if the time has passed.
And when you have divorced women and they have ended-- their term (of waiting), then do not prevent them from re-marrying their husbands when they agree among themselves in a lawful manner; with this is admonished he among you who believes in Allah and the last day, this is more profitable and purer for you; and Allah knows while you do not know."
" Surah baqarah verse 232
Hope that clears the confusion :)