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Posted: 10 years ago
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Was missing the action for long time. My take ...

Priyom, feeling unsecured

A few episodes back, I had a feeling that Priyom definitely nurtures something for Poonam, but unknowingly deep down in his subconscious. I literally disgust his philandering ways, which boasts "76 encounters" till now. But he really cares for Poonam and always has been her man-friday until recently.

Now coming to the recent developments - Rekha preponing her son's marriage to grab that 10% share, Poonam severing all ties with Priyom as an outcome of Bindiya's taunts, Daadi giving him a lecture on "duniyaadaari". He seems quite adamant that he would make sure that the things (his relation with Poonam) remain as they used to be and nothing or nobody hinders that. Now, as things are not taking the route he wants (Poonam bypassing him entirely to have one-to-one conversation with Lakhan.), he is loosing his temper and even becoming a bit jealous; in short a feeling of insecurity is creeping up in his mind, regarding his rights on Poonam. And that has led him to utter those words to Lakhan. So again, though in a subtle manner, but identical issue as with Lakhan - ownership of Poonam !!!


Poonam, absolutely no vertebra

Poonam sunaofying Bindiya - praise-worthy; as she, due to whatsoever reason jealousy or anything, at least stood up for Maya. In retaliation, Bindiya did the same. If Poonam is clean and clear with her conscious and subconscious regarding her friendship with Priyom; then she should have given Bindiya back left-right-and-center and should have ended the matter then and there only, instead of putting all of her energy to prove Bindiya wrong and herself right, by severing all ties with Priyom. Instead of just ignoring Bindiya's words, she chose to complain against Bindiya to Lakhan just like a school-girl !!!! The result was horrid (I agree Bindiya, along with Mithilesh, should be punished; but that decision is to be taken by Maya.) - Lakhan beating Bindiya black and blue !!! The worst part was Poonam almost turning into a silent statue during the whole incident, which was being executed on her instigation, though passive, only; instead of giving it a try to somehow pacify him !!!

What goes around comes around. It did in the evening. Lakhan chose her as his victim to vent out his frustrations on Mithilesh and his own current state. He forced her to stand under a shower and continuously accused her as the sole person responsible for his ego getting hurt. And she just stood mutely digesting that bullshit, even in front of her parents. That was the worst part, as far as I'm concerned. How can a daughter silently tolerate her parents being treated by her would-be like they do not exist at all !!! I was simply disgusted by that particular attitude of her - absolutely no vertebra at all. The only words that applicable for her at the moment - "Those who commit injustice and those who forbear it, let them blaze like hay in the fire of your indignation" (Rabindranath Tagore).

Anyways, the probable outcome of this incident might be her crawling back to her insurmountable shell, thereby completely shutting down any probable communication channel with Lakhan. And may be this incident would give her a big thrust towards Priyom. Only time will tell.


Lakhan, wounded ego

Lakhan's uncontrollable anger along with his big fat ego would lead to his downfall in future, being helped by his impulsiveness and almost non-working grey cells.

He does not respect women, he has proven that again and again - snatching earrings from that lady and that too without any remorse, executing that shop incident to teach Poonam a lesson, beating Bindiya black and blue, torturing Poonam believing that she was the one who was solely responsible for his wounded ego. Though, I am least bothered regarding who ends up with whom, but I simply don't support this "the (silent) beauty and the (excessively violent) beast"' story; where the guy has the habit of venting his frustration out on this girl, whom he considers as his private property, which he solely owns even before marriage. It seems he gets a sadistic pleasure by torturing Poonam, who is timid and weaker than him thereby assuring him that she would never protest. Does this in any way reflect a very pure and sacred emotion called "love" ?!!! An emphatic "NO" from my end. Love is not about owning the person one loves, it's about surrendering oneself, without any condition, to the person one loves. I know that a guy like Lakhan can't really understand this hi-fi philosophy; but at least he should understand that Poonam is a living & breathing individual with her own thought process & will instead of a robot with which he can play whenever & wherever he wants to and that he must respect her.

His ego forces him to insult his elders from time to time. Previously it was Phulan Thakur, now it's his would-be in-laws. He has the audacity to continue with his torture in front of Mr. and Mrs Manjita !! He is assured of the fact that Manjita would never complain as he is loyal to Phulan Thakur !!! It seems, for him Manjita would always remain as an obedient servant of the Thakur clan, not suitable for any respect from his side.

And regarding that moistened eyes of Lakhan, during Poonam's torture sequence; it was not due to Poonam's ordeal, but was due to the fact that his ego got hurt badly and he was unable to do anything regarding the same i.e. in short his frustration !!!


So in a nut shell, before knitting a love-story, creatives must first transform the characters worthy enough to understand the concept of love. At the moment, as per my understanding, all three are not capable enough to do the same.
Edited by chandrima02 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22
well i m not getting any positive vines from poonam's bro entry as it was clrly stated donte,poonmi's bro is a devious character.he ll b definitely a laakham shipper but for his own good.he ll actually b like manchita who can do anything for laakhan. at this point more than making a siruatn where laKham come closer its important to wake both laakhan and poonmi up. someone needs to let laakhan understand that he needs to become a human first but lovingly. my sixth sense is saying donte ll actually pushed poonmi towards laakhan rather than making both of them realise each others pain. ITS ACTUALLY A BLOODY PRINAM LOVE STORY WITH LAAKHAN BEING THE ANTI HERO.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: chandrima02

Missing the action for long time. My take ...

Priyom, feeling unsecured

A few episodes back, I had a feeling that Priyom definitely nurtures something for Poonam, but unknowingly deep down in his subconscious. I literally disgust his philandering ways, which boasts "76 encounters" till now. But he really cares for Poonam and always has been her man-friday until recently.

Now coming to the recent developments - Rekha preponing her son's marriage to grab that 10% share, Poonam severing all ties with Priyom as an outcome of Bindiya's taunts, Daadi giving him a lecture on "duniyaadaari". He seems quite adamant that he would make sure that the things (his relation with Poonam) remain as they used to be and nothing or nobody hinders that. Now, as things are not taking the route he wants (Poonam bypassing him entirely to have one-to-one conversation with Lakhan.), he is loosing his temper and even becoming a bit jealous; in short a feeling of insecurity is creeping in his mind, regarding his rights on Poonam. And that has led him to utter those words to Lakhan. So again, though in a subtle manner, but identical issue as with Lakhan - ownership of Poonam !!!


Poonam, absolutely no vertebra

Poonam sunaofying Bindiya - praise-worthy; as she, due to whatsoever reason jealousy or anything, at least stood up for Maya. In retaliation, Bindiya did the same. If Poonam is clean and clear with her conscious and subconscious regarding her friendship with Priyom; then she should have given Bindiya back left-right-and-center and should have ended the matter then and there only, instead of putting her all energy to prove Bindiya wrong and her being right, by severing all ties with Priyom. Instead of just ignoring Bindiya's words, she chose to complain against Bindiya to Lakhan just like a school-girl !!!! The result was horrid (I agree Bindiya, along with Mithilesh, should be punished; but that decision is to be taken by Maya.) - Lakhan beating Bindiya black and blue !!! The worst part was Poonam almost turning into a silent statue during the whole incident, which was being executed on her instigation, though passive, only; instead of giving it a try to somehow pacify him !!!

What goes around comes around. It did in the evening. Lakhan chose her as his victim to vent out his frustrations on Mithilesh and his own current state, since she is the only one who is weaker than him. He forced her to stand under a shower and continuously accused her as the sole person responsible for his ego getting hurt. And she just stood mutely digesting that bullshit, even in front of her parents. That was the worst part, as far as I'm concerned. How can a daughter silently tolerate her parents are being treated by her would-be like they do not exist at all !!! I was simply disgusted by that particular attitude of her - absolutely no vertebra at all. The only words that applicable for her at the moment - "Those who commit injustice and those who forbear it, let them blaze like hay in the fire of your indignation" (Rabindranath Tagore).

Anyways, the probable outcome of this incident might be her crawling back to her insurmountable shell, thereby completely shutting down any probable communication channel with Lakhan. And may be this incident would give her a big thrust towards Priyom. Only time will tell.


Lakhan, wounded ego

Lakhan's uncontrollable anger along with his big fat ego would lead to his downfall in future, being helped by his impulsiveness and almost non-working grey cells.

He does not respect women, he has proved that again and again - snatching earrings from that lady and that too without any remorse, executing that shop incident to teach Poonam a lesson, beating Bindiya black and blue, torturing Poonam believing that she was the one who wass solely responsible for his wounded ego. Though, I am least bothered regarding who ends up with whom; but I simply don't support this "the (silent) beauty and the (excessively violent) beast"' story; where the guy has the habit of venting his frustration out on this girl, whom he considers as his private property, which he solely owns even before marriage. It seems he gets a sadistic pleasure torturing Poonam, who is timid and weaker than him thereby assuring him that she would never protest. Does this in any way reflect a very pure and sacred emotion called "love" ?!!! An emphatic "NO" from my end. Love is not about owning the person one loves, it's about surrendering oneself, without any condition, to the person one loves. I know that a guy like Lakhan can't really understand this hi-fi philosophy; but at least he should understand that Poonam is a living & breathing individual with her
own thought process & will instead of a robot with which he can play whenever & wherever he wants to and that he must respect her.

His ego forces him to insult his elders from time to time. Previously it was Phulan Thakur, now his would-be in-laws. He has the audacity to continue with his torture in front of Mr. and Mrs Manjita. He is assured of the fact that Manjita would never complain as he is loyal to Phulan Thakur !!! It seems, for him Manjita would always remain as an obedient servant to Thakur clan, not suitable for any respect from his side.

And regarding that moistened eyes of Lakhan, during Poonam's torture sequence; it was not due to Poonam's ordeal, but was due to the fact that his ego got hurt badly and he was unable to do anything regarding the same i.e. in short his frustration !!!

So in a nut shell, before knitting a love-story, creatives must first transform the characters worthy enough to understand the concept of love. At the moment, as per my understanding, all three are not capable enough to do the same.


100% agreement...nothing else to say...aur kya bolu...pura band baja ke rakh diya triangle ka..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: beatsdongandy

well i m not getting any positive vines from poonam's bro entry as it was clrly stated donte,poonmi's bro is a devious character.he ll b definitely a laakham shipper but for his own good.he ll actually b like manchita who can do anything for laakhan. at this point more than making a siruatn where laKham come closer its important to wake both laakhan and poonmi up. someone needs to let laakhan understand that he needs to become a human first but lovingly. my sixth sense is saying donte ll actually pushed poonmi towards laakhan rather than making both of them realise each others pain. ITS ACTUALLY A BLOODY PRINAM LOVE STORY WITH LAAKHAN BEING THE ANTI HERO.


Listen, PriNam is not my cup of tea to bear all their lovey dovey romantic antics. I love them as friends. But if they become lovers, the story will become diabetic. And Priyom, uske upar mera faith bahut kam hai...cos woh kuch zyaada hi acha hai...kuch aur bhi hona chahiye, jo abhi tak maine dekha nahi...there is something missing...is his character that simple??

And if Phoolan Singh by any chance chooses to give Poonam to Priyom, tab to ho chuka...and Poonam's brother, usko aane to do...if he is devious, then don't you think he can be sharp as well, and can create situations to push Poonam and Laakhan closer...anyway if PriNam happens, then I am bidding farewell.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree with chandrima.n i m not bothered about d triangle.my problem is they r showing one side totally black and one side totally white.white side's negativities r said to b silly things n black side's positivities r said to b out of ego only. so if it this much black and white why calling it a triangle??its a pure straight line then.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: beatsdongandy

i agree with chandrima.n i m not bothered about d triangle.my problem is they r showing one side totally black and one side totally white.white side's negativities r said to b silly things n black side's positivities r said to b out of ego only. so if it this much black and white why calling it a triangle??its a pure straight line then.


I too feel that Priyom is not completely good, there are some more things which is not yet out about him. I know Lakhan has many negatives about him, but he has positives. His negatives just negate his good things...He is grey with the shade of white less and black more...

Priyom has done good things as well, have not seen any other negative other than him being a flirt...I sometimes find him too good to be true...isme sab kuch acha kaise ho sakta hai...he is too white shaded...with no other shade, I am not willing to believe that
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Posted: 10 years ago
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same here.when ur calling it a lead u gotta make him realistic by giving different shades.thats how a story should begins.honestly,they r actually potraying priyom as an ideal person but in real noone is ideal.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#28
priyom character is really dull I hv nevr seen him doing any other thing thn just roaming around poonam and solving her prblm I wnt his scene with lakhan and want to see sm more shades and if prinam is going to be the end game thn I will stop watching begusarai
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Priyom isn't whitewashed, he isn't ideal... but the most imp character trait is he understands Poonam and she also connects to him...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And it cannot be lovely dovey love story even if prinam happens becoz of Lakhan angle...

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