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I ship Poonam N Priyom. I do not support Priyom's flirting .But he understand Poonam better than any one .She gives her the space and that's why Poonam behaves normally with him .The Poonam with Priyom is the real Poonam.Were as with Lakhan she is suppressed and cannot behave normally.
I am also shocked to see many rooting for Poonam N Lakhan.This shows our society has not changed.Why Poonam as to correct Lakhan and make him love her .Why always girls r show sacrificial lamb in the shows. In many shows hero will be arrogant but heroine has to correct him and make him fall for her. CV's giving wrong message to society.By showing you should adjust with abusive relationship.I want CV's to make Poonam a strong a girl.Who can stand up for her rights and have the guts to end her engagement with Lakhan.
I ship Poonam N Priyom. I do not support Priyom's flirting .But he understand Poonam better than any one .She gives her the space and that's why Poonam behaves normally with him .The Poonam with Priyom is the real Poonam.Were as with Lakhan she is suppressed and cannot behave normally.
I am also shocked to see many rooting for Poonam N Lakhan.This shows our society has not changed.Why Poonam as to correct Lakhan and make him love her .Why always girls r show sacrificial lamb in the shows. In many shows hero will be arrogant but heroine has to correct him and make him fall for her. CV's giving wrong message to society.By showing you should adjust with abusive relationship.I want CV's to make Poonam a strong a girl.Who can stand up for her rights and have the guts to end her engagement with Lakhan.
I ship Poonam N Priyom. I do not support Priyom's flirting .But he understand Poonam better than any one .She gives her the space and that's why Poonam behaves normally with him .The Poonam with Priyom is the real Poonam.Were as with Lakhan she is suppressed and cannot behave normally.
I am also shocked to see many rooting for Poonam N Lakhan.This shows our society has not changed.Why Poonam as to correct Lakhan and make him love her .Why always girls r show sacrificial lamb in the shows. In many shows hero will be arrogant but heroine has to correct him and make him fall for her. CV's giving wrong message to society.By showing you should adjust with abusive relationship.I want CV's to make Poonam a strong a girl.Who can stand up for her rights and have the guts to end her engagement with Lakhan.
I don't support Priyom's behavior and I also don't want Poonam to re-form any one that includes Priyomand Lakhan .WhatLakhanet did with Poonam in the shop is a kind of abusive according to me. Poonam is not puppet.That she has to do whatever Lakhan wants.
I watched many soaps .Were they portray women controlled by men.Women do all the sacrifice .As a viewer of the show I have right to point out plus and minus of the shows.Always cannot praise a show and CV's .Some might like what shown and some might not like what shown.They will point fingers at CV's .If they show something wrong according to me.I will express it in the forum.If what I have expressed is against IF rules.Mods will take necessary action against me.I did not pass any judgment .I just shared my view and what I see in the society .
Originally posted by: Mystique.Kishi
Sharing your views and criticizing the show is not what upset me in the first place.. Go ahead and do it.. Criticise Lakhan and the CVS to your hearts content and we will defend it since that is our right.. And we will do it with politeness with no ill feelings.."I am shocked to see so many Lakhan poonam shippers. This shows that our society has not changed " explain to me again why our existence is so shocking to you and why you feel that our existence is a very indicator of the fact that the society is still primitive.. Contrary to your belief we are not dumb.. We understand exactly what you mean and we take offense. And tell me why should we not feel offended by that.. You are not authorized to pass judgment and yet you did judge us. And tried to indirectly dictate our choices and shame us for it.. So pardon me if I chose to respond with a what the heck.Share your views, do not try to shame and question others for theirs
Originally posted by: quintessential
To be brutally honest I do not appreciate the lack of conversation between Lakhan and Poonam. Of course Poonam is shown as a timid and shy girl who doesn't have open conversations with anyone but Priyom. But Lakhan isn't the kind of man to not talk. I really do like Lakhan and the layers in his character are very intriguing and will be interesting to watch when they unfold, but why did Lakhan not think once to ask Poonam what actually happened on the first day of college? When he knew that Pooman would never step forth and exaplin the whole situation why did he not take the initiative? Why did he not believe in the girl he loves? Why did he not even give her a chance to explain herself? Why did he believe in all the 'kahi suni baatein' from people who didn't even witness the whole situation of mild ragging unfold in person? What does this say abt Lakhan? Is he easily manipulated? Does he not have a thinking and anylizing system?
I don't believe it's just that. What would have poonam said to him anyways? She did sing and was not much too bothered by it. And it was not her fault at all. She was just enjoying her new found freedom. What chuniya did was convince Lakhan that his fiancee is being bullied and he reacted. But there is more to it. Poonam is the girl who have not even properly smiled in front of Lakhan and then to get to know that she actually sang in front of a bunch of strangers. Can you imagine what that must have did to him? She deprives him of the pleasure of even looking into her eyes.. It must have eaten away at him. And he was hurt and he reacted in the only way he knew.. He lashed out and made poonam feel the same way he is feeling. I think "the waning moon" written by SenbonZakura describes it perfectly . That is just my take on itOkay, let's just assume for a moment that even after answering all those questions Lakhan has a very high potential for growth as a character, which he does and which would be beautiful to watch.But what he did with Poonam in the clothes shop is just inacceptable. Making her wear all the clothes once? Fine. After she is done putting on all the clothes and you have made her feel like shit abt singing, You make her try on ALL the clothes AGAIN?? Man, can't u c she is clearly uncomfortable about this whole procedure?What I really expect from Lakhan and Poonam in this show is humongous 'Character growth and development'. Nothing feels better than watching two highly flawed characters evolve in the most beautiful ways. It isn't necessary for them to fall in love. May be if their friendship is shown before the love, it would prove a lot more effective.Now there's our bad boy Priyom. I guess a lot of people have diverse views and definitions on 'bad boys' but mine is very simple. A 'bad boy' is basically any boy who considers himself a womanizer and is one. On top of that he is also effortlessly charming and good looking. A bad boy is also someone who loves the females but makes it very clear that this is a no-strings attached kind of a situation. And this is exactly what Priyom is and Lakhan is not. I do not disapprove of Priyom's ways. He isn't hurting anyone while he does what he does. He isn't getting the girl pregnant. He is keeping it very casual and literally just about the physical pleasures.But Lakhan according to me isn't a bad boy. He in fact is the good one. He is the one who is loyal. He is the one who protects the girl he loves for danger that isn't even certain. Of course his ways of showing care are very different form the standard ways if showing care but that is what is so 'hatke' about him.To be honest, I equally like both the couples and haven't been able to make a concrete decision as to which side of the fandom I m on. But just wanted to contribute my view on the whole subject here.P.s. the view and definition of a bad boy are purely mine. And others may have different views. And that's totally OKAY.