Originally posted by: rainabow
well i guess my problem is that lots of people here have called kamya ugly on multiple occasions, but that gets overlooked. so it's like a double standard. it's not even as though anyone called divya fat and ugly--just that she LOOKS fat and ugly in the clothes and hairstyle she is wearing. but kamya has been insulted repeatedly, and no one steps in her defense (except me 😕). she's a human being too.
i don't mind toning down the language but it can't apply only to some characters and not others.
I agree totally with u here . People crticise Sindoora to the extent that she is called many times an ' ugly witch ' which seems to be ok .....when infact , the actress , Kamya , is very good looking . She is tall , slim , and as a younger Sindoora dressed elegantly . Her sleeveless blouse...stylishly dressed sari , loose hair and expressive brown eyes r really very pleasing to the eyes but viewers hooked onto the soap r really in no mood to appreciate this as Sindoora , with her constant wicked deeds has made them angry .
But what I feel is this .....everyone at that point know that the criticism is levelled at the hateful character of Sindoora . She has done so many hateful deeds that viewers have , in getting tuned to this soap , lost objectivity and find even her looks witchlike .....hateful and ugly . It is not Kamya who is ugly , it is Sindoora . And all the forum members understand this .
The same goes with all characters......thats only fair . The member who called Divya fat and ugly merely expressed her opinion . It is like this .....
Divya is gorgeous . Hundreds of members say this , right ?
No Divya in that dress looked ugly . Maybe ten members feel this as opposed to the hundreds .Ugly is the exact opposite of that word gorgeous ......and if the member felt exactly opposite , in what other way wud she express it ? If gorgeous is allowed , ugly is automatically allowed too , right ? These r mere opinions , and no one is talking of the actors .....only the characters ! If a coterie of AD fans immediately jump on her and give her kind of this message .....that hey , either praise her or sugarcoat the criticism to the level that it doesn't offend us [ yes ....more than SV actors Im afraid its the fans who r miffed 😊 ] .....isnt really fair is it ? Why , poor Ishika hurriedly changed ' fat ' to ' thick ' and it sounds so strange .....Divya looks thick and dowdy in the sari . Do we ever describe a person that way ?😆 Sindoora has been called ugly and Chachi , fat.....no one thought about the feelings of those actors ? Coz all know that we r talking about the characters . In fact , the actress who has done Chachi's role must be only well aware that she has got that role as she is overweight and so , suits it . So no bad feels there .
To your credit Reemz , you are so honest and also accomodating that one of the miffed members apologised and reached out to the others instead of staying miffed when u explained and reached out . This is very creditable .
Sorry if I have offended any one dears , just shared my opinion.