Divya's Style - Page 2

She looks bland, just my opinion. I dont try to force my opinion on others like some people 😊

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Mind what you say! No-one is saying she looks ugly or fat. We are bothered with her hairstyle.

We are criticising but there is no need to over the top with it.😕

Good hairstyle or not, Divyanka is still the most beautiful face on television!

I am relatively new to this forum and I joined it mainly because I have become a BIG fan of SD and their chemistry and basically everything about them. I just love them. Also, when I saw SD interview on tellybuzz, it felt like they also read the forum and take healthy criticism from their fans in their spirits and try to improve upon it.

In that context, everyone should have the right to express their opinion about what they feel about them and people should not force their opinions on others. I used to think of IF as a forum where people have a right to express themselves. It doesn't seem to be the case though?

Please correct me if I am wrong.

I have to say I never found Vidya beautiful. I thought she looked old and plain. I don't think ishika meant that she IS ugly and fat but the way she is dressing and doing her hair is unflattering to her...just like how i thought she looked old, but that doesn't mean she IS old. Divya is stunning though. How you dress and present yourself can make an enormous difference in how you look.

It's also not very realistic. She was born and raised in London. OK so she is married into an Indian family, that's fine. She can wear Indian clothes. But she doesn't have to look so plain and old fashioned, and do her hair like an old woman 😕 At least with Vidya it made sense and suited her background and personality. This way of dressing and doing her hair doesn't match her at all.

Originally posted by: nature-4-BMTD

I am relatively new to this forum and I joined it mainly because I have become a BIG fan of SD and their chemistry and basically everything about them. I just love them. Also, when I saw SD interview on tellybuzz, it felt like they also read the forum and take healthy criticism from their fans in their spirits and try to improve upon it. In that context, everyone should have the right to express their opinion about what they feel about them and people should not force their opinions on others. I used to think of IF as a forum where people have a right to express themselves. It doesn't seem to be the case though? Please correct me if I am wrong.

yes we are allowed to critise but if one is to say a persons fat and ugly, how is that something to improve on you know what i mean...the way this person said this [divz is fat and ugly] wasnt clear meaning we dont know what she really meant. express yourselves YES, but critisize knowing that SD are reading this and they read something and try to improve upon it...hope you all understand what im getting at 😕

i have made a post about this as well
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I agree with you that Ishika didn't mean that Divz is ugly and fat and I feel that even if she did mean, she has the right to express her opinion and she should not be shut up by other members who might have a different opinion.

What bothers me is that do you have to say only good things about SD and even the "not so" good things in a sugar-coated way in order to be active on this forum?

Originally posted by: mushtari

yes we are allowed to critise but if one is to say a persons fat and ugly, how is that something to improve on you know what i mean...the way this person said this [divz is fat and ugly] wasnt clear meaning we dont know what she really meant. express yourselves YES, but critisize knowing that SD are reading this and they read something and try to improve upon it...hope you all understand what im getting at 😕

What she might have meant was she "looks" fat and ugly... She certainly is not... we all know that... but how you dress can make you look different and all that is very important in this industry. We as fans want them to reach higher and do better... right?

We have to love and praise SD all the time to post here it seems. What if some of us do not agree with her style? It is not just her hairstyle that some of us do not like. Some members just try to make them the best thing ever and dont leave room for other membrs opinion

I like Divya's look right after the reincarnation, but now i feel she looks tired

Originally posted by: nature-4-BMTD

I am relatively new to this forum and I joined it mainly because I have become a BIG fan of SD and their chemistry and basically everything about them. I just love them. Also, when I saw SD interview on tellybuzz, it felt like they also read the forum and take healthy criticism from their fans in their spirits and try to improve upon it.

In that context, everyone should have the right to express their opinion about what they feel about them and people should not force their opinions on others. I used to think of IF as a forum where people have a right to express themselves. It doesn't seem to be the case though?

Please correct me if I am wrong.

Ofcourse they are allowed to criticise, if that wasn't the case then why would the petition be made in the first place? But calling a celebrity 'ugly' is against the I-F rules and it is derogatory. Its the words that the member used which were a bit too much to be classified as 'constructive criticism'. Everyone in the forum criticizes but there is a line which should not be crossed otherwise it becomes offensive.😊

sharad#1- Thats not the case at all. SD are criticized and they appreciate the feedback we give them. But I don't think 'ugly and fat' were the correct terms to use or am I wrong here?!😕 Imagine a celebrity coming on here to read that they are called ugly, its not nice is it? We even had a topic where we said Divya has put on weight but no-one offended anyone there because it was done in a cordial manner.

P.S If some people feel that we only praise SD and Dulhann then maybe they should look back at the forum. 😛