What right does Divya have? - Page 2

I haven't seen all the episodes, just been reading the updates. But if D did promise to not come in between Bindiya and Amar, there's nothing wrong with that.

But if she promised to being Amar and Bindiya together, then that's just silly. I think til now, Amar has given enough proof that he has no such intentions about Bindiya!

I felt lawyers use logic, and logic dictates that you only make a sacrifice where your sacrfice will bear fruit, was she so SURE that her sacrifice will bring Bindya and Amar together and Amar would forget Divya and fall in love with Bindya?
Anyway ladies I give up, forgot that it is hard to argue with you females. You have your opinion and I have mine, and I am sticking to it.

Originally posted by: inavars

I haven't seen all the episodes, just been reading the updates. But if D did promise to not come in between Bindiya and Amar, there's nothing wrong with that.

But if she promised to being Amar and Bindiya together, then that's just silly. I think til now, Amar has given enough proof that he has no such intentions about Bindiya!

No she hasn't promised anything about bringing AB together, she just promised to leave them alone.

Nazmul, ofcourse its up to you. 😊We lawyers (or potential lawyers) do not necessarily have to use logic when it comes to love...in fact its not necessary for the two to be linked.

Originally posted by: nazmul

I felt lawyers use logic, and logic dictates that you only make a sacrifice where your sacrfice will bear fruit, was she so SURE that her sacrifice will bring Bindya and Amar together and Amar would forget Divya and fall in love with Bindya?
Anyway ladies I give up, forgot that it is hard to argue with you females. You have your opinion and I have mine, and I am sticking to it.

😆😆😆 You make lawyers sound as if law and profits are all they think about. Lawyers have hearts too, you know! They're allowed to throw logic aside once in a while!😛

And besides, I'm sure by now the creatives have completely forgotten that they said D's a law student!

One thing I noticed with not all but many NRI youth is that their value systems and thought process is ditto copy of their parents, and their parent's thought process is stuck in the 70s or 60s, not realizing that the youth in India are progressing fast, making their own choices and decisions.

Well not ditto copy of our parents but yes there are many youths in the UK for example, who are more 'traditional' or 'backwards' than the ones in India. But I can't really say for sure as I'd be making a generalisation.

To give an example divorce rates have gone up drastically in India or Bangladesh(where I am from), and many aunties in Canada or UK see this as a bad thing thats happening back home but it is not the true picture. Young people unlike before are educated, they are not dependent on their husbands any more, and they think more rationally, they will not ruin their life living with a person whom they do not have a good relationship with, sacrifice herself just for the sake of her parents. The point is lots of NRIs are stuck in 60s or 70s but I don't expect a successful lawyer to be stuck in 60s or 70s.

I think it depends on the situation. It can vary from household to household. Some the children over compensate for not having been brought up in India and the traditions. It also depends on whether they were born there or not. A lot of factors are involved an to characterize is hard...I don't understand why being modern has to tie in to divorce rates. Educated people also make compromises, and marriage required compromise and sacrifices, whether it is the girl or the boy. Why get into a marriage if you're not willing to make some?

Regardless of what Divya's profession is it will reflect what she's raised to believe, and what her experiences have taught her.

Okie so... I finally watched the episode and Divya does tell Bindya that Amar only belongs to her so yeah.. I agree with the starter of this thread. She can make Amar hate her but that does not mean he is going to like Bindya now.. if their love was soo strong to begin with, why would he fall in love with D now? D should not be talking for Amar..

Originally posted by: nehlove

Okie so... I finally watched the episode and Divya does tell Bindya that Amar only belongs to her so yeah.. I agree with the starter of this thread. She can make Amar hate her but that does not mean he is going to like Bindya now.. if their love was soo strong to begin with, why would he fall in love with D now? D should not be talking for Amar..

I don't think that she is talking for Amar. She jsut doesn't want to come in between two friends. Bindiya also threatned suicide...regardless...what she felt for Amar...logically would anyone want that on their conscience? Since she's come Amar has forgotten about Bindiya, is what Bindiya told her. She feels she is at fault, and is consoling Bindiya...not necessarily talking for him