Hey!!!!!!!!Hema....I have been watching ur posta and beleive it or not i luv to read all ur posts the ques? u've asked that Santu as a Mother an a wife what shud she follow as u r single..i think i can answer to a little extent as i'am both a mothr an a wife.....firstly when a wife becomes a mother her whole an soul time gets dedicated to the kid ...she always protects her frm all the situations good or bad teaches to face them an keeps all her secrets frm everybody even her hubby as a father cannot become a mother and vice versa...for certain things mom is reqd and for some things dad is reqd...she has to hav a balance betn the kids and hubby and create a path betn them as told by Baa in one of the epi...is absolutely correct....keep the good work on...