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A.hemalatha.kini

@TOTAL-ROMANTIC

Sparkler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#61

Lovely Post Nikita & all f you have discussed everything so well..I have nothing left to say...But I still Love Santu & Dm...I am totally a hopeless kind...😍 Love-Hema

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love2211

@love2211

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#62

u write what i want also to say

that is exactly what come to my mind

they now like a stranger meet for first time so this happen to make them closer

Ruder words bring all the matter in front of DM so his reaction some how is expected

things will be just good

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kichwamaji

@kichwamaji

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#63

We are all comparing Rudr scenario to Anamika Scenario....hmmm....my take on it is that everyone

reacts to situations differently and according to their

nature.

Santu reactedd passively as that was her nature and

it is more acceptable in society to behave decently....

DM's reaction is also quite natural....his ego is hurt...it

is a male thing to react the way he did as this is the law

of nature, unfortunately.....I do not deny him that because

it shows a certain kind of posessive attitude concerning

Santu that he does not even admit to himself, however I

do not agree with his choice of words.....but you know what?

Any male would react that way all because his ego is hurt.

Sad but true....

Here, Santu should have opened her mouth....but she did not,

as is her nature, however infuriating. i do not agree with them

both yet I can not deny them their nature of handling things as

humans with totally opposie chatacteristics.....

Opposites attract.....be positive!!!😆

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s000

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Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#64

@khal - agree wiht your point when you say if DM need to stop rdur he may be pretending - but you never know

@kich👏🤗 - thats exaclty my POV -they both acted natuarlly if you look at the circumstance - thats exaclty what im tryign to say

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chalia

@chalia

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: kichwamaji
We are all comparing Rudr scenario to Anamika Scenario....hmmm....my take on it is that everyone
reacts to situations differently and according to their

nature.

Santu reactedd passively as that was her nature and

it is more acceptable in society to behave decently....

DM's reaction is also quite natural....his ego is hurt...it

is a male thing to react the way he did as this is the law

of nature, unfortunately.....I do not deny him that because

it shows a certain kind of posessive attitude concerning

Santu that he does not even admit to himself, however I

do not agree with his choice of words.....but you know what?

Any male would react that way all because his ego is hurt.

Sad but true....

Here, Santu should have opened her mouth....but she did not,

as is her nature, however infuriating. i do not agree with them

both yet I can not deny them their nature of handling things as

humans with totally opposie chatacteristics....

.

Opposites attract.....be positive!!!😆

Sadly this time, i do not agree with your opinion Kich.

Santu did not "act" passively here, she was shocked into a frozen state when Rudr heaped both verbal and physical assaults on her simultaneously. She did not expect this attack and was unprepared for a coherent reaction. She could not have "opened" her mouth. Some victims cannot talk for months, moving about afraid of their own shadows and small noises. They experience feelings of shame and guilt too.

What happened to DM is a mixture of things that hit him. A culmination of shock, denial, anger and helplessness. This happens to most people but what results depends upon which emotion rules the mind at the period of time. Coherent thinking should ideally take over depending on how strong the relationship between the man and his wife has been and the past history of trust and fidelity.

DM should have supported Santu atleast silently.

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s000

@s000

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#66

doc i agree with your point of shock - i mena its hard for to speak at that time

but doc he does trust her - what he said was in anger - okay may be wrong i admit

and i perosnally think DM supports and will - yep he should have yday but just watch ppl all is wwelll

everythign will be fine guys!

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chalia

@chalia

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: s000

doc i agree with your point of shock - i mena its hard for to speak at that time

but doc he does trust her - what he said was in anger - okay may be wrong i admit

and i perosnally think DM supports and will - yep he should have yday but just watch ppl all is wwelll

everythign will be fine guys!

After all outbursts everywhere Sapz, the CVs will twist the tale and make it so that "i had this idea of sniffing out the culprit. You should have trusted me to trust you"!😆

What he said in anger? If any "real" husbands had said such things in anger, i dread to think of the consequences. I on a personal front would not have tolerated this kind of behaviour and attributed it to "deep rooted true love".

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s000

@s000

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#68

yeh thats true doc

the CV's wil make it as DM trusts her - just not showing it (dont ask why)

but that is what is goign to happen - i bet its to get some sort of truth out

and i perosnally think kaddu is tryign to get the truth - shes involed with shanky

im glad everyone has calmed down today though - yday was a shocking day

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kichwamaji

@kichwamaji

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: chalia

Sadly this time, i do not agree with your opinion Kich.

Santu did not "act" passively here, she was shocked into a frozen state when Rudr heaped both verbal and physical assaults on her simultaneously. She did not expect this attack and was unprepared for a coherent reaction. She could not have "opened" her mouth. Some victims cannot talk for months, moving about afraid of their own shadows and small noises. They experience feelings of shame and guilt too.

What happened to DM is a mixture of things that hit him. A culmination of shock, denial, anger and helplessness. This happens to most people but what results depends upon which emotion rules the mind at the period of time. Coherent thinking should ideally take over depending on how strong the relationship between the man and his wife has been and the past history of trust and fidelity.

DM should have supported Santu atleast silently.

That is quite alright Doc.....I initially was upset that Santu did not open her mouth to speak, but came to the same conclusion that she was stunned into silence.....at the same time DM's reaction had nothing unatural about it, even though his choice of words were not acceptable....Anger makes one do and say so many thinks irrationally.

I say Santu is passive because it is not in her nature to say a bad word to anyone...even a slimeball like Rudr was only slapped, but her words to him were carefully chosen and spoken....This ia a vey positive trait.....her only drawback is she does not speak when she really should....especially to DM....but then such are the circumstances that have been created...(now I am deviating from the topic😉...so I will quit)!!

I will reiterate the fact that both are not wrong in their reactions in accordance with their nature to a certain limit, it is just infuriating to watch!!!😆

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kichwamaji

@kichwamaji

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: s000
yeh thats true doc
the CV's wil make it as DM trusts her - just not showing it (dont ask why)

but that is what is goign to happen - i bet its to get some sort of truth out

and i perosnally think kaddu is tryign to get the truth - shes involed with shanky

im glad everyone has calmed down today though - yday was a shocking day

So right Sapz....I like reading all the different points everyone puts out calmly....healthy, as

far as I am concerned, because sometimes you may see something in another's pov

that you missed in your own!!👍🏼