Of myths that mystify - Page 3

yeah we dun get ndtv either

And i have never watched Ekta's epics before either.

Ekta wont give up Sanraj.. but SR is a big NO from everyone.. DM doesnt deserve this for a loooooooong time.. he has gone miles backwards and it will take much time for him to come forward and do all those fixing and BR eyes again to reach the destination SR.

I haven't given up on SanRaj and don't think ever will....for me no SanRaj = no Bandini. I think we need to give this track more time to see how it unfolds......agree that DM has treated Santu harshly but he just found that he was kept in dark about the death of his son and his sister's past for decades and that too by the people closest to him.....don't expect him to think things through and react logically....right now he is hurt and angry and just reacting to what he just found out by lashing out at people who he feels have wronged him....wouldn't anyone have reacted the same way. If after finding out something like this, had he reacted calmly and logically, wouldn't he have seemed more like a machine than a human being? If you found out something like this, would you actually be able to think things through logically right away and judge fairly who is to blame or not....I think not. DM needs time to come to terms with what happened and make his peace with it before we can expect him to think logically and judge fairly as to who is to blame or not and even then he might not forgive Santu completely for keeping something like this from him even though I think he will be repentant for his harsh treatment of her and may even understand her intention of trying to avoid hurting him.

And Santu being who she is and loving DM the way she does and knowing how badly he is hurting right now, does anyone really expect her to leave him at the most difficult time of his life? And should she really? Do we really expect her to do that when she didn't when he treated her far worse? Doesn't DM deserve her understanding, sympathy and support during such a major crisis of his life the same way we expect DM to understand why she kept something like this from him and judge and treat her fairly and be repentant of his treatment of her?

Lets give DM some time to accept Santu wholeheartedly....

i'd say expecting him to react to this news calmly and logically would have been unrealistic given his hot headed nature. a meltdown, anger, grief are all acceptable.

Even though i think Santu is very spineless, i have to say i admire the way she has so much patience and strentgh to quietly go through every single horrible thing meted out to her (although its wrong for her to do so) Love is Blind, thats all i can say

Originally posted by: gawker

i'd say expecting him to react to this news calmly and logically would have been unrealistic given his hot headed nature. a meltdown, anger, grief are all acceptable.

but to label santo an enemy publicly and go on about a possible *dand* and telling her its good they didn't share a physical relation is bordering on psycho.

he's a man double her age with enormous life experience, going by his achievements. his age and experience should have earned him some wisdom and grace. god knows santo has ample of it.

He had just found out that his child had died and his dead wife and sister had not deemed it necessary to let him know of the fact and his current wife had also been part of this ongoing deception.....he felt betrayed and angry and hurt, would we really have expected someone to employ wisdom and grace in this situation no matter what their age or would we have just expected them to just react to the news. People say things they shouldn't and don't mean in anger and regret later, I know I have. Should he have overlooked the fact that Santu kept this news from him and not been angry at her. Why are we only talking about what he said to Santu, didn't he hit Maulik, was that right? What was Maulik's fault in all this, all he did was hid the truth from DM which is exactly what Santu did? We all know how hot-headed DM is, he has been know to react first and think later, was he to change his character all of a sudden in this situation, would it ring true if he did.....this is the same DM who hit his adult son Maulik with his chappals in front of the entire family when he found out he had been drinking and some of us even applauded him for it, and now all of a sudden we expected him to not lose his temper when reacting to this deception from his wife and sister? Really?

Originally posted by: gawker

i'd say expecting him to react to this news calmly and logically would have been unrealistic given his hot headed nature. a meltdown, anger, grief are all acceptable.

but to label santo an enemy publicly and go on about a possible *dand* and telling her its good they didn't share a physical relation is bordering on psycho.

he's a man double her age with enormous life experience, going by his achievements. his age and experience should have earned him some wisdom and grace. god knows santo has ample of it.

EXACTLY! what made me angriest the most was the way he totally and completely humilliated her in front of everyone by saying "thank God we didnt have a physical relationship"