Of myths that mystify

Megha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: sg08

He had just found out that his child had died and his dead wife and sister had not deemed it necessary to let him know of the fact and his current wife had also been part of this ongoing deception.....he felt betrayed and angry and hurt, would we really have expected someone to employ wisdom and grace in this situation no matter what their age or would we have just expected them to just react to the news. People say things they shouldn't and don't mean in anger and regret later, I know I have. Should he have overlooked the fact that Santu kept this news from him and not been angry at her. Why are we only talking about what he said to Santu, didn't he hit Maulik, was that right? What was Maulik's fault in all this, all he did was hid the truth from DM which is exactly what Santu did? We all know how hot-headed DM is, he has been know to react first and think later, was he to change his character all of a sudden in this situation, would it ring true if he did.....this is the same DM who hit his adult son Maulik with his chappals in front of the entire family when he found out he had been drinking and some of us even applauded him for it, and now all of a sudden we expected him to not lose his temper when reacting to this deception from his wife and sister? Really?

we all expected him to lose his temper at them but NOT treat her like a piece of sh*t stuck under his shoe, no. i can understan his hurt and anger for being decieved, losing his own child, etc. but the way he is handling it is not justified i expected better than just roaring like an animal

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Megha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: anu_cooldude

Lets give DM some time to accept Santu wholeheartedly....

There's no Bandini without sanraj, i agree sg08

you know, thats the one & only reason why i like/watch Bandini - for SanRaj

Bandini = SanRaj, without them its nothing

but cv's have a hard time ahead of them because how are they going to fix DM's character again, how are they going to justify his actions towards Santu, how are they going to show repentance from DM in a way that can be accepted?

all those questions are in my head right now 😕

no matter what he does to make it up, it wont repair the humiliation she suffered in the process for one thing

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sg08

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Posted: 15 years ago

#33

I am sure the CVs have something in mind......Santu has been treated far worse by DM, have you forgotten he almost hit her once and that too just for unknowingly wearing Subhi's payals and still when they were showing lovey-dovey scenes between them last two weeks, we had forgotten all about that incident and were lapping it all up......same way they'll come up with something and we along with SanRaj will put all this behind us.

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chalia

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Posted: 15 years ago

#34

I also would like to look at Santu and her admirable traits with a positive frame of mind. I also would like DM to calm down and look at things in proper perspective. What he did is not very palatable but he is not an adulterer or a liar. He does have his failings but who doesnt? He has been faithful to Subhadra's memory all these years and he is faithful to Santu too.

I want Sanraj to work!

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Megha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#35

yeah, i guess so

i would put it behind if they can really show DM making up truthfully

where he doesnt sound fake

just a simple apology wont work this time around, still wont make up for everything but i guess it will for Santu 😃

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gawker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: sg08

He had just found out that his child had died and his dead wife and sister had not deemed it necessary to let him know of the fact and his current wife had also been part of this ongoing deception.....he felt betrayed and angry and hurt, would we really have expected someone to employ wisdom and grace in this situation no matter what their age or would we have just expected them to just react to the news. People say things they shouldn't and don't mean in anger and regret later, I know I have. Should he have overlooked the fact that Santu kept this news from him and not been angry at her. Why are we only talking about what he said to Santu, didn't he hit Maulik, was that right? What was Maulik's fault in all this, all he did was hid the truth from DM which is exactly what Santu did? We all know how hot-headed DM is, he has been know to react first and think later, was he to change his character all of a sudden in this situation, would it ring true if he did.....this is the same DM who hit his adult son Maulik with his chappals in front of the entire family when he found out he had been drinking and some of us even applauded him for it, and now all of a sudden we expected him to not lose his temper when reacting to this deception from his wife and sister? Really?

i think he hit maulik even before he knew if maulik knew the secret or not - just to get him to speak up faster 😆. my objection is to the fact that 1. he called santo the enemy 2. he discussed sex life in public 3. he holds her as responsible as motiben and shubhi. this i fail to understand even if he's angry, even if he's mad. its unforgiveable.

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fuzzyface

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Posted: 15 years ago

#37

i think he hit maulik even before he knew if maulik knew the secret or not - just to get him to speak up faster 😆. my objection is to the fact that 1. he called santo the enemy 2. he discussed sex life in public 3. he holds her as responsible as motiben and shubhi. this i fail to understand even if he's angry, even if he's mad. its unforgiveable.

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Chandra

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Posted: 15 years ago

#38

Agree on a lot of things said here. But given all arguments, what DM said to Santu was not justified at all. True he was hurt that the person he treated the most has broke his trust, the anger, betrayal , shock was all right. But why speak to your wife like that.

Moreover, if Santu did even reveal this when she knew about it, who would have believed her? Its taken time for everyone of them to accept her. Kaddu has no brains and is mostly a puppet, get her one more Subhadra look alike and she will curse Santu again.

Hiten seems to be sane and lets see if he does something her.

Maulik and Taru have always been against her.

it will be good for once if Taru understands that Santu has hid this from DM at the cost of her own life. Maulik was anyway blaming her yesterday.

Baa and Bapuji were also not right in thier treatment of her. Their own daughter didnt do good. Santu has taken so much from all of them but at what cost?

Coming to reality, real life things can be far worse and married woman many a time take things which are even worse than what DM has said. Santu's strength is her resilience and I agree. She is being tested and I hope she passes with flying colours.

DM and Santu will be back but how? When? needs to be seen. And I wish for Santu's sake this time it is on her own terms!!!!, if at all it exists for her.

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svmi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#39

i am grieving at the turn of a very 'feel good' story to a very 'feel terrible story' . i used to watch this purely because of Sanraj. i am quiet new to this forum. Do you think CVs read this forum and pay attention to public opinion or would they continue to develop the story in a most umimaginative and insensitive way and getting better at provoking negative opinions and poor viewing rates.

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xXS.ArtzXx

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Posted: 15 years ago

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i am grieving at the turn of a very 'feel good' story to a very 'feel terrible story' . i used to watch this purely because of Sanraj. i am quiet new to this forum. Do you think CVs read this forum and pay attention to public opinion or would they continue to develop the story in a most umimaginative and insensitive way and getting better at provoking negative opinions and poor viewing rates.

Me too dear.I used to watch it only becoz of my SANRAJ.Bt now I am totally upset about DM's behaviour towards my cutie santu.What would she do?😭

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