Written update 31st August complete - Page 2

@ Bidaaifan( wat should I call you u r name please) me arpita.
I totally agree with your points. In fact I was thinking on same line.
every time maulik and MB abuse santoo I want her to standup for herself (she wont do as she is bandini, so cant go against the title) and same time I want her to go and tell the truth to kanji.
@ ammoos
Thank you very much for nice and detail update.
your name please too

You did a great job. It was so easy and clear to read and understand.

Hey arpita my name is Angela or Angie which ever one you want I answer to both and thanks for agreeing I am all for respecting our elders but when it cost us our own voice and we know they are wrong its time to stand up for oneself but what I notice most of the heriones of these shows are like that and it boggles the mind in this day and age where women should be cherished and respected (some women not all moti ben not included in this statement) these shows are showing the exact opposite and it is disturbing. I read some of the post about Santu being to blame for taking the abuse and I would have to say no I disagree she is following her culture and the way her family raised her and its hard to break habits that have been instilled into us at birth. I am just sorry we are all viewing this with our liberated minds and not really seeing past what we feel that we would have done in the same situation because believe me if I were a village girl who never been outside of my village I would probably be some what histant to speak my mind. Women have to have support in order to feel that they have the right to speak up for injustice and for a time Santu had that but for some reason it was taken away from her so now we are seeing her back to square one.

thank you for the detailed update. what a waste of an episode! The show used to be 9/10 before...now its fallen down to 0/10.

I hope DM does some really big changes to the present situations n gets the story moving. This Birwa love story is utter rubbish!!!

Originally posted by: Bidaaifan09

Hey arpita my name is Angela or Angie which ever one you want I answer to both and thanks for agreeing I am all for respecting our elders but when it cost us our own voice and we know they are wrong its time to stand up for oneself but what I notice most of the heriones of these shows are like that and it boggles the mind in this day and age where women should be cherished and respected (some women not all moti ben not included in this statement) these shows are showing the exact opposite and it is disturbing. I read some of the post about Santu being to blame for taking the abuse and I would have to say no I disagree she is following her culture and the way her family raised her and its hard to break habits that have been instilled into us at birth. I am just sorry we are all viewing this with our liberated minds and not really seeing past what we feel that we would have done in the same situation because believe me if I were a village girl who never been outside of my village I would probably be some what histant to speak my mind. Women have to have support in order to feel that they have the right to speak up for injustice and for a time Santu had that but for some reason it was taken away from her so now we are seeing her back to square one.

Angie, you are making good points dear. But we modern women get frustrated with things that are going on with Santu. She doesn't know what abuse is. In her mind, she is low caste and came to this big rich family and that she has to accept it or whatever. In the meantime, we are fuming😆 How can she put up with all this crap😡She should walk out and spill all the secrets and go home to nanaji happily😆 Kanji would love to know that his son is alive and well and a spoiled brat! Well, I don't know if he would be happy about the brat part, hehehe😆

Thanks for the update Ammoos and thanks for covering for me at such short notice.

Originally posted by: nikita_88

Thanks for the update Ammoos and thanks for covering for me at such short notice.

i agree tht Birwaa should b scolded and punished ...

great update n well written..thanx