Bandini for sure has a tasteful, mature subject matter. i also agree that neither DM nor Santo were intending marry each other. DM was the one who was completely again the marriage. He is not lusting after her either. He could have rightfully have comsumate the marrige regardless of the wish or feelings of Santo. HIs character is above the normal man and good human being. He is not physical,sexual or verbally abusive to her. He has his mood swings , his likes and dislikes. He is perticular about his family and his belongings. Then again who is not in to their own routine. evantually they both will come to terms with their fate and fall in love and have mutual understanding of the relationship.
what i am saying that i do agree that can not compare dm to old perverted buddas marring young girls for their sexual satisfaction. Who are buying young girls because it is cheaper than getting a naukrani+ free sex for life is wrong. India is not the only country it goes on in. This is supply and demand all over the world. in the west it is different . Girls do have 50% of the share in what they are doing more or less. There is more help from the law if any thing goes wrong. Most of them do it for the money that the girls gain or the comfort of the life that young man can not provide.
the theam of the serial older guy marring a young girl is a paralell, so most of us tend to compare.The fact is that we all know that it is not the same situation. I love my DM dearly and whole heartedly.